Cleareta Perdita

@AlwaysClea (7)

Age 17

Joined myLot 12 months ago

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Would you prefer to get bad news alone, or would you rather someone be with you?

Amber @AmbiePam (85739) • United States 17 Jul

The first time I got a really bad medical diagnosis, I was around 23, and alone. When they gave me the bad news, I cried, and I really wish my mom had been with me. However, when I was told my mom died, ten years later, I was...

bad news

grief

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Cleareta Perdita It depends on the scope of many things. Bad news will make you sad, and hurt. However, it also depends on one's preferences in my opinion. It depends on what personality type the person is. Likes to harbor problems, or talk to the closest person who makes him...

17 Jul

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Out of Ideas

Jo Ann @akalinus (40688) • United States 22 May

I have spent all day surfing the net for ideas for a discussion. I can't come up with anything. Usually, I am full of ideas but not lately. It has never been this bad since the start of my stint on myLot and not knowing that I...

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Cleareta Perdita I usually look around, write a few words about the object or memory that is being recalled, and jot it down into a solid, interesting paragraph. That's one way of fishing for ideas, hopefully it helps.

22 May

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Don't get hung up on one source of income.

Meli @astutimeliana723 (4536) • Indonesia 22 May

Hi guys, good morning. Come back with me, I hope you don't get bored reading and responding to my writing. The problem is that I like to write to get rid of the idea that are in my head, which always force me to get...

income

discussions

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Cleareta Perdita as long as it doesn't interfere with the main source of income and the main job doesn't prohibit generating additional income, why not? Additional income can be passive income.

22 May

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How do you kill the procrastination in you?

Trebor Ika @Treborika (17348) • Mombasa, Kenya 21 May

I hope all is going on well. I have had a nice time with God at the church. So procrastination is the process by which you keep on post poning things that are supposed to be done presently to some other times for no genuine...

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Cleareta Perdita In the past, I also often procrastinated, in my opinion, procrastinating was because the delayed activities had a lot of burden and it took so much thought to complete them. Thus, the brain and body respond by delaying rather than doing it now.

21 May

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Did you or do you experience this?

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (14079) • Philippines 21 May

At my age, I still experience stage fright when I speak before a crowd or an audience. I am not a seasoned speaker, but I have had experience in speaking in front of an audience because my previous job allowed me to address a...

public speaking

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Cleareta Perdita I once had stage fright, my heart was pounding, the words I was about to say seemed to disappear so quickly. However, after completing the main words that must be conveyed. I will feel calmer. The important point is to memorize the important points first,...

21 May

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How do you deal with toxic people

Erly Maglangit @cacay1 (83220) • Cagayan De Oro, Philippines 21 May

I met toxic people in my workplace and they are hard to please. I cannot understand their attitudes. They like to be in hot water. Many dislike them and still, they cannot get the point. We can see how they act, how their faces...

toxic people

hard to please

karma

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Cleareta Perdita I've met people like this a few times, and every time someone replies to them, they seem to be happy about it, which means their hard work is paying off. By ignoring them, going one step by not fulfilling their wishes..

21 May

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Good morning, friends. Everlasting friendship.

marguicha @marguicha (216020) • Chile 18 May

Yesterday I was very happy to find a person through Face Book that I hadn´t heard of since she was maybe 7 years old. Now she must be almost 50. I had a friend, the best one in my childhood, that I met in the US when I went there...

friendship

a story of a friendship

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Cleareta Perdita The good of friendship, friendship always has a beautiful story whether it's old memories stored, or through a beautiful future together.

20 May

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