Soochow

@Soochow (40)

China • Age 33

Joined myLot 13 years ago

Above is the Paradise, below are Soochow and Hangchou

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Process or result, which is more important?

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 11 Mar 11

I enjoy the process of striving for certain things but nine times out of ten the result disappoints me but I still believe without constant effort the final result counts nothing. Which do you reckon is more important in our...

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Marriage: Why just marry once?

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 11 Mar 11

Why just marry once? That's the attitude young people adopt facing the marriage problem .Do we have to be faithful to those we no longer love and can you accept remarriage?

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Development VS Protection

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 9 Mar 11

It pains me greatly to see old traditional houses were torn down because of the rapid economic development. The rivers polluted, ancient trees cut down, rubbish piled along the road, all this leads me to wonder if we are really...

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What do you think of renting a partner for holidays?

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 8 Mar 11

A lot of young people are under great pressure from their parents' constant urge finding a girlfriend or boyfriend, so do you think renting a partner is feasible or acceptable?

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Is it harder to make friends when you're older?

Bellapop @Bellapop (1279) 5 Mar 11

Is it harder to make real genuine lasting friendships when you're older, say after the age of 30? I have recently joined an evening class, and I'm finding that evryone who is there is (over 30) and just focuses on the work and...

making friends in adulthood

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2 people

Soochow Friends may come and go and you get a sense of loss facing this. Also you are involved in your heavy workload and family life every day, but it is still possible to find some bosom friends in any age group/

6 Mar 11

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The Joy of growing old

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 6 Mar 11

There is nothing older than not wanting to grow old. Many of us are fearful of growing old. Instead of confronting this common fear, we hope to ward it off by clinging to our youth. While our bodies may age, something within us...

ageing

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Soochow The older you are, the more wisdom you gain, and you see things in a more leisurely and deeper way .The old age is like a bottle of ripe wine, and the more you taste, the more after-flavor you get.

6 Mar 11

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Does cosmetic surgery do harm to the society?

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 6 Mar 11

Does cosmetic surgery do harm to the society?

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Is high education really worth it?

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 5 Mar 11

The phenomenon that the salaries of many college graduates are lower than those of migrant rural workers has triggered a heated discussion on the net.Do you think it really reasonable for a poorly-eduacated migrant worker to earn...

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Will you find friends with different or same personalities?

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 4 Mar 11

will you find friends with different personalities or same personalities? I often find people with different personalities never give way to others when involved in an argument.And two of my friends flared up and ended their...

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Why do they treat me another way round?

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 3 Mar 11

I'm often very kind and generous to my friends, some of whom are my best ones. But I find when I feel under the weather or isolated, they turn a blind eye to me and do nothing about that. I'm confused about that, do they only know...

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Is anyone feeling sad??

thatgirl13 @thatgirl13 (7294) • South Korea 2 Mar 11

I actually had a pretty awesome day in school today. I had a real good time with my friends and everything was cool. But then i came back home and I read an article written by a son to his mother. While reading it tears started...

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Soochow Never be disturbed by the weather. I'm in a new city and often feel homesick and lonely, but when I recollect the people and events in my hometown, I feel much better. It is you who decide who you are . Cheer up and best wishes for you

3 Mar 11

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Why do we always seem to have bigger problems than everybody else?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17387) • Canada 1 Mar 11

Is it just me? Or does it seem like my problems are always bigger than the world? I would be watching one of those primetime dramas on TV and even though they are dealing with life and death situations, I still think that that...

problems

troubles

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Soochow Well,everyone has his problem and what really matters is how we look at it. Just mind your p's and q's and deal with it calmly and reasonably.

2 Mar 11

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Campus Romance

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 1 Mar 11

The students should of course attch great importance to their study and academic achievements. But when you are involved in love, you lose your head.We cannot say it has little effect on your study and undoubtedly, campus love is...

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Family&Life Goal

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 1 Mar 11

I intend to live in another city and land a job there.But I also have to take into account my parents and other stuff. I know one's life goal should be given priority but what about my parents? Actually, the city I decide to work...

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High Salary or Career Development

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 28 Feb 11

In today's job markets uni students have to consider many things when they are applying for jobs. Some peopla argue that career developmeny is more important than salary. What's your opinion?

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Soochow Thanks a million for your advice. Since I'm now a sophomore in a non-government university and I suffer greatly the pressure from the rat race in job markets. For me, I definitely will strive toward my life goal that is to be an excellent transaltor, but there...

28 Feb 11

My friend quit her job again...

ganza_lovers @ganza_lovers (131) 27 Feb 11

I have my friend who can't seem to find satisfaction in every job that she have. She's been often jumping from one job to the other and often get depressed every time she lost her job. She told me that she's not happy with her job...

friend

job

quit

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Soochow It is more and more common for people to job-hop because of their unsatisfaction in the job they land. Especially in today's society, the rat race really throws us into great despair and pressure.So think well before you make moves.

28 Feb 11

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Famous atheletes and entertainers

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 28 Feb 11

There are many famous entertainers and atheles who make millions of dollars every year. Some people believe that they deserve such high salaries while others disagree. Do famous atheles and entertainers deserve high salaries...

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High Salary or Career Development

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 28 Feb 11

In today's job markets uni students have to consider many things when they are applying for jobs. Some peopla argue that career developmeny is more important than salary. What's your opinion?

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Wealth and Success

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 28 Feb 11

some people believe that only material wealth is a sign of success while others hold that wealth alone cannot be the very measure of success.In today's society, how relevant is wealth with success?

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Job Hopping

Soochow @Soochow (40) • China 28 Feb 11

Instead of staying with one company for life, more and more people are changing their jobs for this or that reason.What's your viewpoint of job hopping?

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