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sophiecheer @sophiecheer (931) • Philippines 5 May 11

My family is my topmost priority! Being the eldest of five children, I had that innate responsibility to take care of them. Secondly, my friends. I do not have much of them nowadays. Sure, I do know a lot of people who knew me...

family

friends

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dab0503 Basically, top of the list of my priorities is my family. Everything i do, my work, goals in life, ambitions,and plans are all geared to for the best of my family today and for the days ahead. But totally,what i hold dear is my commitment to god the almighty...

6 May 11

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besthope44 @besthope44 (12123) • India 5 May 11

I am happy this week for i got promotion and hike as well after 5 years of waiting. I already invested for my kid education and family. We sold our dear home long years back, due to unavoidable...

investment

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dab0503 I suggest you must invest a new home or buy back your old home. You already have a stable good paying job, now its a perfect time to have a home for you and your family. That i think is the best investment as of now, a decent good shelter for your family. Good...

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acenad315 @acenad315 (51) • Philippines 21 Apr 11

Someone told me its not good to always dream. But I think, to dream is essential in order for us to strive and push harder. To stop dreaming leads to a barren journey. A journey where there is no direction whether to to stop or...

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dab0503 Dream is only a by product of our unconscious mind. Some dreams might come into reality if the dreamer strives hard to fulfill his/her dream specially if it is a good one, but oftentimes it is an impossible dream. Bad dreams also happens to a person in real...

22 Apr 11

rokudaime @rokudaime (339) • Australia 20 Apr 11

A sad reality beleaguering our time today is that people seem to neglect the essence of celebrating Holy Week. When Holy Week comes, people's minds go crazy about booking and reserving hotels and resorts for vacation. In other...

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dab0503 That's a fact and i agree with you. Majority of people nowadays are really neglecting the essence of the Holy Week. They now prefer to enjoy all the luxury of material things this world has to offer than even to remember to give just one week to celebrate or...

21 Apr 11

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spockers @spockers (221) • Philippines 20 Apr 11

I was been active in advising in one discussion here in mylot about how to continue life in a situation of loneliness. But even my self, i had a problem to overcome also, right now i'm in the state of deciding we there to stay...

decide

life

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dab0503 It is written in the bible that man when time comes has to leave his family and to look and make his own. In your case i think maybe your time has not yet come or you have this very strong ego of yours. There is really no harm in trying. Do not be afraid when...

21 Apr 11

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elmiko @elmiko (6630) • United States 20 Apr 11

I would go with Derrick Rose. He brings so much to the bulls. I wouldn't absolutely agree hes the best player in the nba, but I do think hes the most valuable to his team. I think as long as Rose stays with the Bulls their...

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dab0503 I'll still go for Kobe Bryant. He's the best so far judging from years of experience in the NBA. Although their team is struggling at the start of the conference, but mind you they are the defending champions and will give their very best in the playoffs until...

20 Apr 11

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cowboyofhell @cowboyofhell (3063) • Philippines 19 Apr 11

What can you say about a couple - american woman, russian man? Any member who belong to this kind of couple? How do you feel about the fact that your countries were rivals and you did not care? In your opinion, how a relationship...

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dab0503 In a relationship, it doesn't matter if you both have different nationality as long as you love each other so much. Love is a give and take process between you and your partner. It does not involve bilateral relations of the country where you come from.

19 Apr 11

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cowboyofhell @cowboyofhell (3063) • Philippines 19 Apr 11

What can you say about a couple - american woman, russian man? Any member who belong to this kind of couple? How do you feel about the fact that your countries were rivals and you did not care? In your opinion, how a relationship...

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dab0503 In a relationship, it doesn't matter if you both have different nationality as long as you love each other so much. Love is a give and take process between you and your partner. It does not involve bilateral relations of the country where you come from.

19 Apr 11

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cowboyofhell @cowboyofhell (3063) • Philippines 19 Apr 11

What can you say about a couple - american woman, russian man? Any member who belong to this kind of couple? How do you feel about the fact that your countries were rivals and you did not care? In your opinion, how a relationship...

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dab0503 In a relationship, it doesn't matter if you both have different nationality as long as you love each other so much. Love is a give and take process between you and your partner. It does not involve bilateral relations of the country where you come from.

19 Apr 11

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ola_barakat @ola_barakat (4) • Egypt 14 Apr 11

i was a house wive for many years my husband got used to feel having the upper hand in the house but this changed a few years ago when i had my chance to work in a career that i love and every time i success in this career his...

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dab0503 By nature husband , is the dominant person or "pillar" in the family. He has this feeling of machismo in him that he should be the "boss" in the family not the other way around. He now feel insecured that you now have a better career and might someday overtake...

17 Apr 11

azuncionne @azuncionne (74) • Philippines 17 Apr 11

I have always believed that laughter is the best medicine. That's why when I'm feeling down, I opt for watching funny movies and be with friends who seemed to radiate with positive energy. As they always say, laugh and the whole...

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dab0503 Also works just fine for me. Laughing a lot and smilling oftenly seems to energized myself and help me a lot in solving my problems in work, family, relationships and also help me in acquiring lots of friends and few enemies.

17 Apr 11

freshyax @freshyax (29) • Nigeria 16 Apr 11

In my school,i found out that a friend was dating his cousin.when i heard it sounded very odd.but really...Can you date your cousin?

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dab0503 Why not? I think there is no odd thing in dating your cousin. I always find it strange that some people put some malice of having seen cousins on a date.

17 Apr 11

myn3wlif3 @myn3wlif3 (139) 17 Apr 11

We don't know when we die, even though we take care so much of ourselves but still we don't know when to die. Accident is one of the reason why we die in wrong time.

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dab0503 I could'nt agree with you that Accident is one of the reason why we die in the wrong time. Only god knows when we die, be it the right or the wrong time like what you say accident. Why life is short? In my point of view maybe because god so loved man that he...

17 Apr 11

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fixerupper3530 @fixerupper3530 (173) • United States 13 Apr 11

I have changed my whole way of thinking. I read labels to avoid chemical sweetners, soybean oil, and trans fats. I eat more fresh food, and far less processed foods. I take nutritional supplements. I avoid most fast food, and I...

weight loss

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dab0503 My key word for An easy way to loose fat without a diet system is self discipline. I regulate my food intake in every meal, then put a minimum of 1 to 2 hours exercise in my daily regimen to tone up my muscles. I also take a regular 8 hrs sleep and drink 2 big...

14 Apr 11

heart4u @heart4u (409) • Philippines 13 Apr 11

how many kids you want to have? or is there an ideal number of kids ? well,me and my boyfriend for five years is talking bout getting married and then he asked me how many children i want and then i said two one boy and one girl...

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dab0503 You know, its really true having children completes the family. But the number of kids does not really matters in the family. What really matter is ,your capability to support your siblings when they grow up. Can you give them a bright future ahead?. Can you...

13 Apr 11

lady Di @lady1993 (27225) • Philippines 12 Apr 11

I quite envy those people like that sometimes, who aren't afraid to talk, express their feelings and have so many friends. I am not like that at all, I am really silent when my friends aren't around. Since I don't know what to say...

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dab0503 I am almost the same as you, silent but alert at my environment. As what they say..."There is peace in silence". But mind you there is also a saying, and i qoute " Your best friend is your worst enemy ". I am an objective fellow, i do enter into conversations...

13 Apr 11

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isloooboy @isloooboy (1733) • United Arab Emirates 13 Apr 11

I saw so many topics regarding, "cheating by husband or wife" from so many mylotters friend. I was thinking maybe we all are lacking the knowledge of real meaning of marriage? or we have created our own definition. So my...

marriage

meaning

partner

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dab0503 Marriage for me is a sacred union between me and my wife, bound by the blessings of the Almighty god, the father. We now join together in pursuit of whatever goals we plan ahead in the future and will always love and care for each other till the last breath of...

13 Apr 11

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gotetet @gotetet (197) • Philippines 10 Apr 11

People who don't have money is miserable, but money is sometimes root of all evil as we knew of a famous saying... well then, it's just the balancing of the thing is the best we can do. I always heard of a family whose life is...

family

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dab0503 Majority of people nowadays really strive hard to acquire and /or find money to sustain and support the family they have or planning to have. the barometer of a person today is based on how much money or wealth he acquires. There are lot of consequences befall...

12 Apr 11

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