gem0211

@gem0211 (38)

Philippines • Age 57

Joined myLot 17 years ago

"There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved."

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How old were you when you get married? Or how old would you want to get married?

pinks0da @pinks0da (328) • Philippines 18 Jun 07

Hi everyone! Mind answering the question posted? And this another question, when you decided to get married, did you think you were ready? presently, did you think that was one good decision made? For the single ones, what would...

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gem0211 I was 24 and my husband is 20 at that time.I am older than him but we are doing just fine.

3 Jul 07

What is the age difference between you and your partner?

OURDEW @OURDEW (4809) • United States 21 May 07

My husband and I are the same age. Our birthday's are two months apart. His birthday is first, so I always tease him when he turns older than me. We joke about this every year, since our age is so close. What is the age difference...

age difference

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gem0211 My husband is 4 years younger than me but he looks older than me...lol. But he is matured and he is very responsible that he thinks he is older than me.

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My friend thinks I'm weird because.....

Married2aMarine @Married2aMarine (1273) • United States 28 Jun 07

I asked my husband not to get me anything for my birthday. She said that's not normal. I told her it's because we're trying to save money. And I told her I already have everything I want...a wonderful family. She said any normal...

birthday

gift

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gem0211 Yeah, i would prefer hugs and kisses if i want to save money and if i think i have everything i need already.Love from the people we love is the most precious gift we could get as a present.

3 Jul 07

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What will you feel if someone you love forgets your birthday?

gem0211 @gem0211 (38) • Philippines 3 Jul 07

The love of my life forgot my birthday and i feel so sad and left out. I was waiting till midnight that he will greet me but he didn't.What will you feel if someone you love forgets your birthday?

birthday

greet

love

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"Hard to find a job at 40 without a college degree"

gem0211 @gem0211 (38) • Philippines 6 Mar 07

I am a 40 years old and been married since 1991, since then i am not working, has been a plain housewife and mother to my 3 kids all those years.Now,i wanted to find a job and it's hard for me,everytime i applied they are looking...

jobs opportunities

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gem0211 Thank you for the uplifting words, i really do appreciate. Yeah i guess i should hang in here and i know i could have what i wanted sooner or later.

3 Jul 07

Who is your ultimate crush?

enoryb @enoryb (847) • Philippines 5 Dec 06

My crush is Stacie Orrico... I mean look at her... so cute and so talented... how about you?

hello

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gem0211 Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise is my ultimate crush.Wish i could i see them in person.

7 Mar 07

How ever old you are, married or single, do you ever think of your first love?

ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18261) 12 Feb 07

You know what its like, in idle moments your mind drifts back in timeDo you ever find yourself thinking of your first love?

first love

memories

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gem0211 There are moments that i wonder what if i married my first love.Sometimes, lost in my thoughts,moments which i wish could last forever.Well, he is happy right now with another woman so i am happy for him as well.Good day to you.

7 Mar 07

How will you find one is a real friend?

febinjohnjames @febinjohnjames (67) • India 7 Mar 07

How will you find one is a real friend?

friend

original

real

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gem0211 When the person is there for you even in your worst time, you know he or she is a real friend.Friends are everywhere but real friends are hard to find.Mostly when you are down , they are no where to be found... they are gone but real friends will stick to you...

7 Mar 07

"old and ugly stretch marks"

gem0211 @gem0211 (38) • Philippines 7 Mar 07

I have this old ugly stretch marks and i want to know if there is something i can do to eliminate this or help lessen the stretch marks.Is there anything i can do?Is there anyone out there who knows what i should do that...

lessen

remedies

stretch marks

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gem0211 Thanks for contributing.I just wonder if there is anything i can do after all there is nothing wrong if i tried something to lessen those stretch marks if there is any that would help.I know i have to accept any flaws i have and that i have to love them as...

7 Mar 07

"old and ugly stretch marks"

gem0211 @gem0211 (38) • Philippines 7 Mar 07

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Do you know there are Proffesional Bloggers ?

yndesai @yndesai (159) • United Arab Emirates 15 Feb 07

Have you come across any of such professional Blogger who is making fortune by bloging.

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gem0211 I'm jobless, so if you know a site other than mylot,can u share it with me?I would like to earn money for a living if i cannot find a regular job why not a blogger if i will earn good money here?Please respond,thank you in advance.

6 Mar 07

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ur profession

ahmadpk48 @ahmadpk48 (228) • Pakistan 17 Feb 07

what is ur profession...r u student or house wife or doing job or doing business

profession

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gem0211 I am a plain housewife and mother to three kids.I am 40 years old and i wanted to find a regular job but it is hard to find job especially when you are middle age and no college degree,i'm here in mylot hoping i could earned here online while i couldn't find a...

6 Mar 07

Punishing

tator_tot8073 @tator_tot8073 (698) • United States 28 Feb 07

Do you think that it is appropriate to punish your children in public??? The reason I am asking this because I have seen many people do it. I personally think that if your child needs to be punished it should be done in privacy....

punishment

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gem0211 I agree that the kids should be punished right away if they did something wrong,but i don't agree punishing the kids in the public especially spanking in front of other people.I agree that woman should bring her kids to the bathroom or any place that is...

6 Mar 07

What will you do?

susieq223 @susieq223 (3742) • United States 6 Mar 07

Have you ever considered what you would do if your spouse dies before you do? I don't just mean financially, although that's very important. I mean, how would you spend your life. Do you think you would marry again? Would you...

death of a spouse

living alone

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gem0211 Hi there, I haven't thought about it until i read your post.If i am not yet on my 60's and if the right guy comes along i think i will remarry,but if i am much older i would rather not but who knows, we need someone to be there for us ,loving us, someone we...

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My 25 year old SON hates ME .. and won't SPEAK to ME?? What would you DO?

texasclassygal @texasclassygal (5305) • United States 6 Mar 07

I have a son who hates me, unsure why, although I believe it stems from an argument he had with his sister, nevertheless he won't speak to me and when he does he states that he hates me and wants nothing to do with me. Unsure when...

children

parenting

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gem0211 I'm a mother of three kids,if i were in your shoes that will make me very sad.I can't imagine one of my kids not going to talk to me for four months, and calling me on my first name,but being a mother you should try to understand your son even if it hurts.He...

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"it's hard to trust again "

gem0211 @gem0211 (38) • Philippines 6 Mar 07

My husband cheated me once 5 years ago with my best friend's sister and until now i am having doubts about him.It's been over long time and he promised me that he will not going to cheat on me again.I couldn't give him the trust...

cheating and trusting the person again

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gem0211 Hi,It's an honor you contributed and commented on my problem, that is what am doing that's why i am still here.But until now i still feel the same way.Yes, i hope i can get over it real soon or i will do the other way around.Thank you!

6 Mar 07