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juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 6 Aug 07

how do i get rid of empathy. im beat up by the feelings i generate from the people around me. im loosing myself. i care for so much people. but i think i dont care anymore about myself. help?

ridding empathy

juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 27 Jun 07

i have come to realize that i need to make a change in the life as i have known it. I have been very responsible for the people i care about. you could say i have done everything for them. In the process i truly forgot about...

taking care of myself

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juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 6 Jun 07

I have a 2 year old niece that doesnt do what normal 2 year olds do. Its so hard to teach her, nothing seems to retain in her mind. she doesnt even know who to call mama if a woman or papa if a man. she cant walk or run without...

juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 6 Jun 07

i want to give my husband a gift that will signify his being a great father. i even see him as my father. he takes care of us all. he is only 31yrs old but he has done a lot. Does anyone have a suggestion?

juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 6 Jun 07

i am afraid that when my death comes, i am but a waste of life. that i didnt do anything extra ordinary. that i just killed time by doing unnecessary things. I dont know what God wants of me. I am at a dead end. Every where i go,...

life

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juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 6 Jun 07

my birthday is coming up this friday. i dont know what to do. i feel like not doing anything but i think i should do something coz its my birthday. i dont know, what should i do? i really dont like holidays and birthdays. These...

life

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juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 24 Mar 07

Some books i read told me not to force children into doing it. But i have to, right? But how to i go about it. How should i start the training? My daughter is very smart, talking to her is easy but when it comes to this, its like...

potty training

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juliasantos Thanks for the advice. But the day i posted this discussion, i had to do it for reasons that all her playmates know how to. Though its hard because of her crying and constant asking for a diaper, i didnt listen to her and just told her repeatedly that if...

30 Mar 07

lojobal @lojobal (1) • Philippines 26 Mar 07

My wife had a lot on her mind lately. Everything that happened in her past is creeping in now, she's very down and almost as if she's just trying to be alive for me and the kids. I want her to live her life because she wants to...

unhappy life

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juliasantos You're the second person to call me as jobobal, and its kinda funny for me. Anyway, thanks for your prayer and may the spirits of GOD be also with you. Yes i want to get what i want, enjoy it and share it with my wife. the last one is my problem, she is very...

26 Mar 07

kieusurvey @kieusurvey (132) • United States 18 Mar 07

It's been a problem most of my life. It's getting better, but there are times when people walk all over me. I think I might be better since my son was born since I can at least tell him how I feel. I tell my husband, but when I am...

people

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juliasantos i am the same. I let people walk all over me. use me as well. I dont get mad. I cry inside. then still smile. been doing this for so long that one day, i dont want it any more. Everything turn out to worse. I learned to shout and be mad at everything. i even...

26 Mar 07

akinad @akinad (446) • Philippines 24 Mar 07

I admit!I'm one of those people who are highly sensitive..I easily burst into flames when i get angry.high-pitched voice..red face..one unexplainable face expression...and an uncontrollable mood.. So how can we control anger?or...

anger management

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juliasantos i am a very patient person but after my pregnancy, my life turned upside down. I get angry every time even on little things that dont go my way. Also because of past hurts, it didnt help either, it made me so angry that i sometimes physically hurt the other. I...

26 Mar 07

linda345 @linda345 (2661) • Canada 15 Mar 07

I am so sick of living with this illness of bipolar. I have not slept in almost 2 weeks. I am living on a few hours sleep every night. The night before last I was cleaning the rabbits cage at 3 am. Then I cleaned the bathroom. I...

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juliasantos i dont know if i have the same problem or illness. but i have the same feelings. My body is exhausted but my mind wont stop working. I cant sleep either. i eat only because my family asks me to. i want to die almost everyday. im afraid of a lot of things but...

26 Mar 07

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gemini_gal @gemini_gal (179) • China 23 Mar 07

If only we were like computers, it would be very easy to erase all the bad and pinful memories in our lives simply by clicking DELETE button. But, if i really had that button in my life, i wouldnt want to delete any of my...

computer

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memory

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juliasantos This delete button would be really awesome. I have been trying to block things of my past but to no avail. The only thing i vanished were the names of my high school mates. But everything else, so vivid. This delete button could really help me and my family....

26 Mar 07

juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 24 Mar 07

My father in law is a good man. He has become a real father to me. And he has everything already. I cannot afford expensive gifts such as a new car or a hi-tech gadget or a gold watch as a gift. His birthday is in a few days and i...

tech gadget

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juliasantos thanks. I will do this movie thing using family pictures. I know this will take time so i think i wont be giving this for his birthday since its in a few days already, maybe on father's day or grandparents day instead. Thanks for suggesting this, i now have a...

24 Mar 07

dik_an @dik_an (475) • Malaysia 24 Jul 09

I'm the oldest children in my family. Do you know how hard to be the eldest for me? Firstly, my parents put their hopes to me. Like, I will enter a good scholl, what kind of work I will do, married with who, ect. I feel like they...

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juliasantos I'm the oldest children in my family. Do you know how hard to be the eldest for me? Firstly, my parents put their hopes to me. Like, I will enter a good scholl, what kind of work I will do, married with who, ect. I feel like they push me to do that....

24 Jul 09

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juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 24 Mar 07

Could anyone enlighten me why the philippines is still not observing computerized elections? We already have the system, millions have been paid to acquire it, why arent we using it. If there has been a scam in getting the...

computerized elections

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juliasantos we already have the machines. people to handle the machines. even the paper to use. meralco to provide the electricity, technology to provide connections.

24 Mar 07

juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 24 Mar 07

If im not getting any(lovemaking) from my husband? Should i get it from another? Dont get me wrong, not that i want to. But i continually suggest and drop hints to him but to no avail, ofcourse, all were done without sounding like...

lovemaking

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juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 24 Mar 07

Some books i read told me not to force children into doing it. But i have to, right? But how to i go about it. How should i start the training? My daughter is very smart, talking to her is easy but when it comes to this, its like...

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juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 24 Mar 07

Could anyone enlighten me why the philippines is still not observing computerized elections? We already have the system, millions have been paid to acquire it, why arent we using it. If there has been a scam in getting the...

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juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 24 Mar 07

Everything each senatoriable and lower house representative wanna-bes say are all sweet and beautiful. Their TV Ads have good theme and very trustworthy for the ears. How on earth will i know who to vote? They all seemed good. And...

elections

juliasantos @juliasantos (23) • Philippines 24 Mar 07

My father in law is a good man. He has become a real father to me. And he has everything already. I cannot afford expensive gifts such as a new car or a hi-tech gadget or a gold watch as a gift. His birthday is in a few days and i...

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