They have beaten me and it is enough

By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48717)
United Kingdom
August 15, 2007 11:50am CST
Ok I started a harmless Discussion today one where Gissi is suppose to be talking like the ones I do for his Fans Well first of all some one put a nice Tag on it and now I have been informed that it has been deleted Ok you who is haunting me have won I do not like stalkers and basically I have had enough This was the first Discussion I did in a week I thought I would give one more try well that is it now Please I am sorry for the People who replied to it but that will have been the last Discussion I will have started on this Site I don't need it I have not done any harm to anyone and I can't be doing with it no more This is 7 Discussions in 9 Days So you have one and you managed to reduce me to tears to out of frustration Now go and run and report this one to as it will be the last one you will get from me to report I have had enough all you have to do now is make sure you drop my rating more have fun as I do not care anymore I am sorry for all my Friends on here but it won't be long and I will be gone from this Site I am sick and tired of this and I am sorry it is not worth it Hope you feel good whoever my Stalker is as you have one And I do not want anyone saying what I always said Do not let it get to you I can cope with an occasional deletion and nastiness but not on going I am actually starting to believe that it could be someone on Friends list to but I will not point Fingers
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31 responses
@Calais (10900)
• Australia
15 Aug 07
Oh my goodness..I can not believe this at all...This is getting way out of hand..You are the nicest person and obviously someone is jealous of that, its very obvious that they have nothing better to do, what a loser..I honestly do not believe that mylot reads the discussions that get deleted...which is wrong, because like I have said before , all the great discussions get deleted..
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
Yes Sweetie they have and it has reduced me to tears today with all this carry on I have no intentions on being here much anymore at all I don't need this Thank you for the kind words big Hug to you
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@Calais (10900)
• Australia
15 Aug 07
Tears of frustration no doubt..You'll be ok ....
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
Yes it is and it has just been to much really
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• United States
16 Aug 07
I'm thinking write to MyLot, & be kind of strong in the message. See my posting in the S&M forum to see an example. I will admit that it's not just someone sending in a frivolous report ...
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• United States
16 Aug 07
Well, there are other places to carry the doggie to & post. Two places. Three places. Uh - Maybe a 4 places. MyLot's walking on the edge. Probably for their own savage amusement.
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 07
Krazy I wrote to them yesterday and the Mail with all my Details went to another Member on here As for someone sending in a frivolous report well if that is the case if I am going against the Guidelines with Gissi discussions then fine I will not post anymore Someone here has it in for me I do not know why Krazy and I do not need it Tagging reporting down rating I don't need it when I have done no harm I am sick at the Krazy and I am very low so this sort of thing is reducing me to tears and basically if the kind Person who is doing this to me is reading this - yes have a good laugh, at the soft cow that you are reducing to tears. Sorry Krazy I have just had enough
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• United States
16 Aug 07
Well, you have a PM someplace, & I'm not saying where. Happy hunting. We may not have hit 50 yet, but when we do we will CELEBRATE our full half a century.
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16 Aug 07
I think what has happened is disgusting. What I want to know is who is in charge at mylot to make the decision to delete discussions that in no way violate the rules. If someone is stalking you,,and I bloody well hope not, shouldn't mylot see this is victimization and this weirdo should be deleted not you. This I just don't understand. What is the point of having a system that allows us to report violations, but also a system that allows someone to be a complete wanker...sorry for the language. It will be a sad day if you decide to go and I am going to write to mylot to complain about this. It is not right, but I understand how you must feel and it is somewhat creepy that some one would go to these lengths. My thoughts are with you my dear friend..this you do not deserve!!!!
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 07
Awwwwww thank you but I doubt if they will take any notice I love you both and this is bringing tears to my eyes to see what lovely caring and good Friends I have here I am so lucky I really am Love and Hugs to you both
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• Australia
16 Aug 07
I wrote several letters to myLot about a very dear friend who was deleted, giving complete explanations of the events, but I never received a reply. They just didn't want to know.
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@BlueAngelRS (2900)
• Canada
15 Aug 07
hugzzzzzzzzz gabs sweety it seems that ever since my first day in mylot you have been affected with a stalker and someone harassing you and making you want to leave...I've only known you now for 4 weeks and I love you so very much sweety can you send me the addy I do not want to loose your friendship at all...
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
Sweetie it is not your Fault at all so don't say that it is one of them things and I will send you my Addy now and I hope you get it Hugs to you
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• Canada
15 Aug 07
hugzzzz gabs love you so much and I am going to come to mylot still but it seems that this mess is getting bigger and bigger you know?
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@disvachic (10123)
• United States
15 Aug 07
Oh Gosh Gabs this is ridicolous.They are childish and have nothing better to do.This site has turned into drama.7 discussions deleted within 9 days yeah somebody has some terrible issues and probably getting a kick out of it.Stalker if you reading:get a LIFE! and i really mean that. shaunita
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
Well Sweetie I have just heard another one of Gissi's has been deleted so make that 8 Basically enough is enough I do not need this Love and Hugs
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@disvachic (10123)
• United States
15 Aug 07
thats terrible but dont let them run you away okay.
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@addysmum (1225)
• Canada
15 Aug 07
Gabs I am so sorry that this person has finally pushed you to far. I will miss you, I hope you will take good care of yourself. You are one of the sweetest people I have met. Hugs
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
Sweetie if you want my Addy I will send it to you and keep in touch with you Big Hugs to you
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@addysmum (1225)
• Canada
15 Aug 07
That would be great, I don't want to loss a friend like you and Gissi over someone else being stupid.
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@abbey19 (3129)
• Gold Coast, Australia
16 Aug 07
Gabs, I am so sorry to hear what is happening to you and it doesn't seem fair that MyLot are deleting so many of your discussions. Most of us here love to hear about you and Gissi, your discussions make us laugh and brighten our day. There always seems to be someone ready to put the boot in, but I don't know what they get out of it, do you? They are just sick and bitter people with no life of their own. I'm sad that you are leaving and understand why, but it wont be the same here without you gabs. You will be missed by a lot us of here. Can you send me your email address so we can keep in touch? Hugs to you my friend. xx
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 07
Yes Sweetie I will send you it as I would like to keep in touch with you to I will probably not leave altogether at the end of the Month but I will be taking a break a long break I will send you it by PM but let me know it is you as it will go in the Spam box first and then I will look out for it Hugs to you
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@tammyr (5956)
• Etowah, Tennessee
16 Aug 07
Please don't let it get to yuw too much gabs. We are all with yuw on this. I write as Izzy and There are others that do it as well. There has never been anything wrong with it. I always say if someone is talking about me, (stalking you) Then they are leaving someone else alone. Be glad to be doing a good deed for some other target. And.. Pray for them. They obviously need a few prayers.
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 07
Tammy I agree but in the same breath why should I spend so much thought in my Discussions and have them deleted and why should my Friends keep loosing their Points for no reason it is not fair
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@pyewacket (44037)
• United States
16 Aug 07
I was reading down a bit of some of the other responses...so the discussion that was deleted was were Gissi is on the computer...But I love those!! They are so endearing and sweet and a joy to read and respond to, why on earth would anyone attack that? And to have seven discussions deleted in nine days...crap!! I really hope you don't leave here gabs...you're one of the bright stars on this site..I do so enjoy your discussions. I can't understand it....I've seen so many discussions that SHOULD be deleted yet they aren't-- I can just imagine the nice tag that was placed probably similar to whoever it was stalking that other person and putting foul tags on it...isn't there anyway to track these sickos?
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 07
I really do not know You should have the Discussions that have been deleted in your Mail box Sweetie I am getting so upset and angry that all the time I put in my Discussion just gets deleted in one swoop The Discussion that has gone was called Woofie
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• Australia
15 Aug 07
Gabs dear, I know this post will probably be deleted, but I DARE them to leave it here, so people will know what is happening to the Queen of myLot. I had decided, as you and many others have, to continue here to keep in touch with our friends who have not joined us in the happy place, but every time I'm here, myLot has gone further downhill. I DO want to keep in touch with friends here but I'm wondering if it is worth it. Besides, more and more friends are joining us every day.
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
I agree Cloud as I can not take much more of this on here it is beyond repair now and I do not need it Love and Hugs to you
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@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
15 Aug 07
i'm sorry gabs that someone is being this mean to u! hopefully they'll just leave u alone now that u have posted this!
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
No Sweet it has been going on for a while now and as far as I am concerned they will not stop well good luck to them if it makes them Happy
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• United States
15 Aug 07
i'm so sick of everyone. no one can play by the rules, and they're just mad that you have SO many posts i bet! jealous brats...i'm so sorry, that's why i've been away too, cuz nothing is safe it seems. can't trust anyone. i just don't understand, and they're probably just a bored, unemployed, not in a relationship, bitter bitter person who has to bully the "GOOD" posters. you have done NO harm. you do HAVE fans, and we love you and gissi! JERKS.....how horrible....i am truly sad at this.
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
Hi there Sweetie I was wondering where you where and I have missed you Do you want to join me at another Site let me know by PM as I will be more there then here Love and Hugs to you I do not want to loose Contact with you Sweet
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@Stiletto (4584)
15 Aug 07
I'm sorry this is happening to you. Some people are so pathetic. It's a shame if you feel you've had enough on here but I can understand that. It's becoming a pretty dull place now anyway. Personally I'm having more fun on the "dark side" than I am on here nowadays.
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
Yes same here Stiletto I just find it to stressful here now and I think if this carries on it will go down bad style
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@rosie_123 (6118)
15 Aug 07
Dearest, sweet friend Gabs. I am sorry that you feel so sad, - and I appreciate your decision if that is what you feel is right for you. But please don't let these mindless bullies here reduce you to tears - no one is worth that. You are a good person a kind, sweet, loving person - and your discusions here have bought laughter and sunshine into many peoples' lives. I think it's a shame you don't just say "F***you" to these bullies and carry on posting - if only to annoy them and let them see they cannot beat you! That's what I would do - but then I've already been a stubborn b**ch, and I know that you don't need more stress in your life!!! So just do what you feel right and comfortable doing - but remember that you are worth 1,000,000,000 of this pathetic stalker. Lots of Love Rose xxxx
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
Rosie thank you Sweetie but honest 7 Discussions in 9 Days and then adding a Tag then deleted all it was about was Gissi on the Computer well I can't take it anymore as I know now that I am targeted I will be gone end of the Month Also they are attacking my rating which I do not care about The other thing that worries me is that they will start attacking my Friends to I have joined 2 other Sites and I will stick to them as I just do not have the heart in this Site anymore And it proves they do not read the Discussions before deleting as it was harmless Love and Hugs to you
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@tinamwhite (3255)
• United States
15 Aug 07
I have been gone so much lately, my friend that I have missed so many discussions....I can not believe that someone would do this to you....I am sooooo very sorry, my friend...I will see you on our other sites in common... some people only thrive when they are able to create choas for someone else...you do not deserve this treatment and I do not blame you for being upset.... Tina
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 07
Well it was a Discussion about Gissi and it was a Friend who pointed out to me that the Discussion was deleted I do not need it I really don't Yes you will see me on the other Site Sweetie
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• Canada
16 Aug 07
Awwwwwww Sweet, I am so sorry that this person isn't letting up. You do what you need to do for you hun and makes you happy. I will miss you like crazy, but I have your email so we will keep in touch my dear! Love & Hugzz!
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 07
Sweetie yes I do have your Mail I have been wondering about you as I was worried I had not seen you I did send you a B daycard but you have not picked it up yet lol Love and Hugs
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• Canada
16 Aug 07
Sorry to worry you sweet! Yes, I did get your birthday e-card and I thank you very much for it. I just sent an email to you saying thanks hehe! I was busy and hadn't checked my emails in a few days. Thanks again for the beautiful card! Love & Hugzz!
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@arkaf61 (10883)
• Canada
18 Aug 07
ANd I so like when gissi comes to write!!! :) WHen I started here, I felt great and enjoyed this place so much, but each day things seem to be getting worse and what bothers me the most is that they don't even read the discussions that are being deleted, because if they did many of them wouldn't be deleted. I just noticed that I am missing 4 best responses which means that the discussions were probably deleted and they are as harmless and harmless comes grrr Oh well I have been kind of away from the computer for the past few days too, but once I"m back I'll find you - thankfully I know where to look :) Hugs to you and gissi.
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
18 Aug 07
Sweetheart you do and why not come and join me on the other Sites to you might like it there as well I will not be gone for ever just a big Break for a while thats all and I will pop in and out Big Hugs to you
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• United States
18 Aug 07
If you are talking about the discussion about Woofie, it is still there. I do not know why some people have to be so mean hearted. I love hearing from Gissi and I write from Petie, or Abigail. I will miss you sweetheart my friend.
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
18 Aug 07
The Discussion was reinstated Sweetie and you know where else to find us I will not be gone for ever and I will pop in and out but I just need a break and hope that Mylot will be able to get rid of the trouble Makers on here
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@mummymo (23709)
17 Aug 07
I know exactly what you are talking about sweety but I know you are the better person! Love you xxx
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@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
18 Aug 07
Thank you Sweetie and of course for all your Support on this to Love you dearly xxx
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@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
16 Aug 07
Gabs, I would be very sorry if you left the site. I can imagine how you feel, it´s so frustrating to get your discussions deleted and worse of all we never get an explanation concerning this subject. If someone is out to get you, don´t give them the satisfaction to leave the site. It´s a shame what´s happening to this site, so many people are leaving, especially the older members. Take a bread, gabs. This might be what you need. It would be sad to lose you. Take care A big hug XXX Dana
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
18 Aug 07
I will certainly be taking a break for a bit even though I am happy how fast mylot has sorted all this I hope they can find all these Trouble makers and shift them as they will ruin this Site and it is a shame
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