Goodbye from Terry

By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48686)
United Kingdom
December 21, 2007 3:05pm CST
Well everyone I have just received an Email from Terry informing me that as Mylot did not get in contact with her or anyone for that Matter she has now written to them to cancel her account She has had enough waiting and not being able to respond or anything and as no one has bothered to let Terry know what the Score is she has now cancelled her account altogether I am sorry to be the bearer of sad News and I know that Terry will miss all her Friends here that she has made but as she said she had given them long enough and still nothing at all So I am doing this Discussion to say bye to you all her Friends she will miss you all
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36 responses
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
21 Dec 07
Well Mylot has lost a very valued, loved and respected member, a very sad day indeed, if you would pass on Wolfie's love too please, do you know if she is on Yuwie at all? Sorry to hear this news my sweet, no doubt Gissi is showing his teeth xxx
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Hi Sweetie no she is not on Yuwie To make matters worse they have already cleared her Page and her Avatar is gone of our Friends list to when there are still others that are not here anymore still have their Page I will not be here much longer myself this has topped it now I do not want to belong to a Site that does not value or treat their older Members who have helped build the Site with more respect xxx
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 07
I really don't know Sweetie And yes you are right about the Stalkers but I am not bothered anymore if they win as they always will Give it a few Months and Mylot will see what they have lost
• United States
26 Dec 07
duh ... where's your snoozing puppy avatar?
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
22 Dec 07
Deep sigh... heavy heart here. Hopefully Terry can somehow stay in touch with us. The whole situation is sad as is. Mylot, you really did lose a good member here. Well you are losing several of them. Sooner or later, the best will be gone and all mylot will have are "do you liek poniez?" type discussions and members.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Hi there Pro I will be leaving soon to as I do not want to stay on a Site that is not interested in their Members which they have proven with Terry I will pass all the messages on to Terry
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
22 Dec 07
how many more? Surely, mylot need to use people as admin, not just kick people out because of the complaint system, it is now making the whole sight look stupid blessed be
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
I am going next EsKaren I do not want to be a Member of the Site when it works like this I belong to 2 other Sites and that is where I will be concentrating on I have only been here this much over the last 2 weeks to get messages over But no I will leave the Site for good soon this has done it
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
EsKaren that is where Terry wrote to and got no response she just got so fed up after waiting 2 weeks Thank you though
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
22 Dec 07
THAT IS SAD GABS, I dont think mylot have admin anymore just auto responses so if an infringemnt is reported by a few different people (a gang) any one can be kicked out and of course mylot will not reply because they have no one to respond, if you are interested Gabs, pm me because i have mylots office address in the states, it may link to a real person?
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@abbey19 (3106)
• Gold Coast, Australia
21 Dec 07
I am sorry that your friend Terry has left MyLot after waiting, and hearing nothing from them. This seems to be happening quite a lot, and is very unfair of MyLot not even responding. I didn't know Terry gabs, but if she is a friend of yours, then she is a friend of mine too. Is she on Yuwie? Let me know - perhaps I can still have a chance to get to know here on there.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
No Abby she is not on Yuwie that is the shame about it all I am so saddened specially at how quickly they have removed her Page and her Avatar of our Friends list
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 07
Yes but she didn't want to
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@abbey19 (3106)
• Gold Coast, Australia
22 Dec 07
Have you invited her to join Yuwie?
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
22 Dec 07
I got an email from her too gabs, and I was disappointed in a way that she was giving up on mylot though I do understand. She told me how frustrated she was that she could still log in, but couldn't respond or be active here, and tired of getting email alerts of discussions but could't do anything about it. I had emailed all my pals here, as you know including you and we were all doing a letter campaign to mylot almost on a daily basis...it fell on deaf ears. I'm going to miss seeing her cute little snoozing dog avatar popping up. But I do know she hangs out at morachat, so I'm going to pop over there more often to be near my cybersister. Miss you Terry! :(
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Ok Pye I will miss her to but I will be leaving here to that is of course if someone does not get me banned before then But if they enjoy getting People banned then fine they come and get me to But they also want to start getting a Life sad People
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@GardenGerty (157563)
• United States
22 Dec 07
I have an account at morachat as well, just have the mylot habit more than the Y site or the G site. It is good to see friends lots of other places. Look for me around. If I become rich LOL I might be lots of places visiting all of my friends instead of working two silly old jobs.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
23 Dec 07
Are you over at morachat gabs too?
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@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
22 Dec 07
I'm very surprised that she didn't receive a reply from mylot admin. I've never had a problem with that. So many people have come back after being banned I'm sure she will figure something out and be back again...if she really wants to.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
No she did not receive anything at all none of us did but they could have replied to her and didn't But that has happened to me to She does not want to come back here not after all this as it is unfair that she was banned in the first place
• Canada
21 Dec 07
Thats sad , I don`t remember if she is on my list of friends , don`t even know how to check unless I go through all my friends , do you know of a way to check easier ??? I looked but didn`t see her , but I am blind or almost so I may have mised her , probably looked right at her name and still will miss it , but I do believe she is , just can`t find her ...
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Keeper mylot has removed every Trace of her Yep they wasted no time her Page is cleared and her Avatar removed of Friends list I have never seen a Page being cleared that fast before so that tells me a lot The Stalker must be very popular to mylot and if that is the case I will not be part of a Site that does this
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
21 Dec 07
well I find this very disappointing, I really think I will have to think about whether I will stay or not, I love some of the people in here, I really class them as friends, but if Mylot can not be fair then I think I should go too.....I will seriously be thinking of what I will do over the weekend....Terry I am sorry, I believe everyone deserves a fair go, and an answer on such a serious matter is just common courtesy...Mylot how about it....show the members here that you play the game like you expect us all to ..an explanation would be good...ok we have not investing money into your site but we all do invest time and without the members time you don't have a site, so fair go to all...
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
22 Dec 07
I am just so disappointed in Mylot I rfeally thought they were different, I have been on many forums, paid and non-paid , I don't like My Space, and Facebook, but I refuse to stay in a forum that does not play fair....
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Same here Sweet
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Lilac I will be leaving here soon to I do not want to belong to a Site that is not fair and treats their long time Members like this and we will never know who is going to be next I will save them their Fun I belong to 2 other Sites I don't know if you are a Member on them
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• United States
21 Dec 07
Hello Gabs. It is sad news about Terry. Do you know if she is active on any other site? I would love to remain in contact with her. I am glad that the two of you connected. Send her my best. Big huggers to you.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
I will send you a PM later but you might not be a Member at these Sites then again I am not to sure about the PMs on here as they are not private either
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Dec 07
This is sad, gaby. Mylot just cannot afford to blemish its reputation like this. This has happened to some users before and inspite of repeated mailing mylot has not done anything. The accounts are still there! Some of them has started all over again. But it's not the same, isn't it.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Mimpi Terry's account is not even there anymore They have removed her totally that is how much they appreciate their Member specially the ones that have been here for a long time
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
22 Dec 07
am so sorry to her that you know how long it takes to get an answer from them! Wished it would have worked out beter and we will miss her just tell her bye from me nad hugs and hope she finds another lace as friendly as most of mylot is hugs
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
I will do It has been over 2 weeks now and she got fed up so she left and I will not be here much longer myself you know I have been close for a long time now on leaving well this has just done it Hugs to you
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
22 Dec 07
darn I hate it. So sorry this happened I would come to the other place but it still wont leet me in so what can I do? and I still have friends here too . a same you got me here and now you are leaving but that dont mean we canttalk on IM if ya cant get them to work! HOpe they work soon I hate beening on there alone lolololol hugs love ya and talk to ya on IM thats if ya leave but ya can drop by every once in awhile huh? hugs
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@troopy (168)
• Australia
22 Dec 07
I dont know terry, but reading through some of the post's on this discussion its obvious that she is a well liked member of the mylot community. So I would think it's in mylot's best interest to help her with whatever the diffuculty she was having is. It's sad when people have to resort to leaving as a protest to get mylot or any company to take notice.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
She was a lovely Person she really was and she did nothing wrong Mylot will never take notice no matter how many Members leave they do not care We might not have paid into the Site but we certainly helped it build if they had no Members from Day 1 they would not have a Site There are not many Members left here that first joined because of things like this and I will be another older Member that is now leaving here as I have had enough of this Thank you for responding on this
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
22 Dec 07
Hi gabs:) Its very sad to hear when a fellow mylotter has been put "off" from contact from here.Its beginning to be very different here lately and i know alot are leaving because of things like this happening for no reason and i just do not understand why mylot has not contacted her after all the many people who tried to contact them?Very weird:(Maybe she will "comeback" as "someone" else???????I hope so:)and very soon too!This is my christmas wish:)I still cannot believe it:( Peanutjar:)Thinking of you Terry,may god be with you and happy holidays&new year also.Hope to see you soon:(
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
No Sweetie she won't come back and I will not be here much longer either This Site is falling apart worse and it is never going to pick up
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
22 Dec 07
Tell her that I said goodbye and that I will miss her maybe I will see her at some other forum where I am trying to make money. Love and Peace and my God be with her until we meet again.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
I will do Kayte I will pass the message onto to her
• Canada
21 Dec 07
Thats so sad I checked on my list and I may have missed her name because my sight is bad , I could look at her name and still not see it unless I stop and go through everyname ... Wouldn`t surprise me I do that ala the time , but I remember the name , just not if she is in my list... Do you know of an easier way to find a friend in your list ??? How is she anyways , I didn`t know she wanted us to email her , if she does whats her address ??? I am still behind with all theses posts , so I`m asking cause I probably missed it if it was there ... Thats my fault cause I`ve been going to my oldest ones first and working my way up .... But now I`m gonna go from the first to the last ... Sorry its only cause I`m so far behind and trying to catch up , its not working that way so I`ll try this way ... I`m sorry they didn`t get back to her atleast thats wrong , and the reason my sister gave up on the site, cant blame either of them ...
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26 Dec 07
It is sad to read this gaby as I have seen recently how all her friends have really rallied round to get her back here. I think it is appalling that Mylot have made no effort to reply to her. I think they will be loosing all the good members here soon if they do not start respecting those who make this site what it is!! I hope your christmas is going well dear Gaby xx
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@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
22 Dec 07
I hate that she was blocked before I got to say hello to her. I KNOW she was on my friends list, but when I went to her page she was not my friend. The others that were banned like this I still had them on my list after. Unless she deleted me while I was not here for so long. Is she still on your friends list? I have never heard of them removing people as your friend. I even went to fifty's page and left a comment, she is still on my friends list. What is up with that?
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
No Tammy Mylot cleared her whole Page and took her of every ones Friends List so it was not Terry they wasted no time at all
• United States
23 Dec 07
If you want to join in on the trend, several of us have changed our avatars. I do wonder which site Gabs is talking abou, being that we're both, & I think you also, are at the Y place & the R place. Uh - did someone metion something about chocolate fudge ice cream?
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@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
23 Dec 07
Well i had never heard of them removing someone from the friends list. BTW, I like your avvy. It reminds me of mine. In honor of those wrongly banned!
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@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
22 Dec 07
This is so sad. I wish the admin would do better about communicating with the members. This site is losing so many people every day. Is it that hard to communicate? Well, honey, you can always tell Terry about that other place that most of us hang out. I will see you at the Christmas Party I hope.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
She is a Member at one already but I have to teach her how to use it I am not sure if I will be there lol as I am travelling to the Kids on Monday and coming back on the 1st Jan So if I am not there you have a good time Love and Hugs to you
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
I will do Sweetie and I am going there after so will take a look
• United States
22 Dec 07
I know the Party thread is open. You can post your Christmas graphic and wishes before you leave for the holiday. Travel safely with Gissi. Have fun. Stay safe. And let me know when you get back.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
21 Dec 07
I am so sorry to hear that! I agree that she should try to come back as Terry2 or something totally different so her stalker can't find her as easily again. I will miss her as a friend.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Sweetie she does not want to come back and I can not blame her
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
22 Dec 07
Why did she get into trouble? She is on my friends list and I have noticed the last couple days that I am not getting any emails for her discussions. We chatted back and forth quite a bit and she is a very nice lady. What happened that she cancelled her account? I understand the part about mylot not contacting her but what happened in the first place that she couldn't work in the site? I will miss her as well. She was a good friend and a loyal friend. She responded to almost every one of my discussions. We chatted quite a bit back and forth. Sorry to see her go.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Hi there Chris You have not seen my other Discussions Sweet Basically Terry has been stalked and the Person who stalked her got Terry banned For 2 weeks Terry and a lot of her Friends have been writing to mylot and no one not even Terry got a reply so now after 2 weeks of not being able to get on here she has now told Mylot to delete her account She did nothing wrong and the Person that stalked her is still on here
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 07
Nio Chris believe me it has been 2 weeks as I am in Contact with Terry every Day and we have tried everything so have all her other Friends but mylot ignored us all including Terry All Terry wanted was to be with her Friends here but that Person wanted rid so that Person is still here free to do this to anyone and the good Person has gone
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
22 Dec 07
This is really wierd because I would swear I have talked to her more than once in the last 2 weeks. But maybe they were old discussions, although I would swear she has answered back to my responses. I guess the time goes so fast I never realized it's been that long ago. I went and checked my friends list and she is gone. I didn't know they get rid of her totally. I know the person who was stalking her and I have had a couple run ins with her too. So now I just ignore her and don't respond to any of her discussions or responses. A person can't take this all too seriously because no matter where you go, offline or online, you will run into people that are just mean.
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