My Pain

By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48686)
United Kingdom
January 18, 2008 7:37am CST
Well as most of you know I was rushed into Hospital last week with severe Pain in my Stomach chest and Lungs Well last Night I did not feel good again stayed of the Computer At 1am the Pain set in again I could not call 999 as there was no one for Gissi and he knew I was in Pain till 4am I was up and I was crying and my breathing was nearly non existing because my Lungs felt like they where clamped Anyway eventually the Pain eased and I got to sleep I have been to the Doctor today and he was not happy that they did not do an Ultra sound Scan on me in the Hospital He said at the sounds of what I was telling him, the swelling of my Stomach and feeling my Stomach, I do have some colic but also he thinks it is my Gallbladder which a couple of Friends have mentioned on here to me if they had checked that He has now put in for an Urgent Ultra sound scan and given me some Pain killers He says the reason my breathing is that bad affected is that my Lungs are to weak to deal with it, Pain affects the Lungs anyway and a Healthy Person would also get a bit of Pain round the Lungs but my Lungs are the Lungs of an 70 year old I have been told and they can not cope Anyway if it is the Gallbladder I will have to have it removed I will keep everyone informed what is happening Hugs and Love to you all
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45 responses
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
19 Jan 08
You know that you will be in my prayer gabs. If it were me I'd be so furious with that hospital for not thinking of giving you an Ultra Sound Scan WHILE YOU WERE there!! This could have avoided a lot of the pain you are feeling now, and could have been discovered a week ago instead of prolonging this. Well I hope your doctor can get that scan as fast as possible now and can find out once and for all if it is your gallbladder. Poor Gissi he must be beside himself with worry wondering what is wrong with his mum...yes, animals can be so perceptive and can know when something is wrong.I hope you can sleep better tonight and without too much pain-- (((hugs)))
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 08
I am furious dear Friend believe me I really am but I can't do anything about it I have Pain killers now for it but my Lungs have taken the blunt side of it The breathing is not good right now But the good News they are clear the Doctor says it is because they are taking a lot of train and that is why I hope to as the Tablets I have make me sleep but I will only take them when the Pain sets in I had a restless sleep but that was because of breathing so I am going to lie down again I feel so drained and exhausted Hugs to you
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
18 Jan 08
Oh dear I'm sorry to hear you are going through all of this. I was all day and last night dealing with a migrain head ache - but like you was off the computer or we could have kept each other company in our pain. I am feeling a bit better this morning and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers that you will feel better and the doctors will be able to help you.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Oh Sweetie I am sorry that you are still suffering with them I hope you are better now and yes we could have kept each other Company lol
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
What are we going to do with you eh? This is not good! Poor Gissi is worried sick and the poor boy feels helpless, poor Gabs, you are certainly having a tough time of it, big hug from Wolfie and thanks for keeping us informed, hugs to Gissi too, I guess he'll be busy looking after his patient this weekend, tell him I'm be out being a bad wolf tomorrow night xxx
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
I know, remember my beloved Zeus? He was an outdoor cat but whenever I was feeling bad he was always around me, bless him! And mum's cat Meg won't leave mum alone when she's not well and follows her everywhere, animals have a sixth sense when their masters are not well! I know Gissi will be sense this too and animals worry in their own way too, but reflect it in different ways x
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Awwwwww Mooch I was able to come online much yesterday as I was already not feeling to good but please Sweetie do not worry one good thing my Internet is sorted Sweetie I will be ok I know Wolfie and Gissi is very sensitive with it xxx
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Oh Sweetie I just wih it would all stop now Ye Gisi is worried I know that because he is not leaving my Side again he is always with me I have told him and he says that is not for just because he is little he is not allowed but I am to tell his best Mate Wolfie to have a good time xxx
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
18 Jan 08
oh damn I figured ya giot worse when ya wasnt on IM this morning when I got on. Hoping this Doc finds whats wrong and if its gallbladder ya might just have to have it removed. praying for you to get better hugs hugs hugs hugs and blessings
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 08
Thank you Lakota I am sorry but I am just on and of at the moment I am sleeping a lot I am just so tired and exhausted but at least I have Pain Killers now so until they find out what it is they should work My lungs are struggling at the moment to Big Hugs to you
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
19 Jan 08
ok looks like sleep is the thing plus the pain killers so hope all works out good and they find what swrong hugs hugs hugs hugs
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@Darkwing (21583)
18 Jan 08
Gabs, I'm so sorry to hear that you went through all this alone. I had that problem too, in September 2006, and it took them three and a quarter hours to get me to the hospital. By the time I got there and they had checked me for diabetes and one thing and another, the pain had gone, but I had x-rays, not ultrasound. They were supposed to send me an appointment for an ultrasound but it never came, and luckily, I have managed to avoid another attack by following a certain ritual at mealtimes. Right... you know my mobile number. If this happens again in the night and there is nobody else around, I want you to call me. One way or another, I will get a ride to you and be with you in a couple of hours. It's no trouble for a good friend, so please don't hesitate. You need to think of yourself as well as Gissy because one time, it might be just that little bit more serious than you think. So, promise me, that's what you'll do, Sweetheart. I don't care what time of day or night it is, and if you can't get an answer, keep calling until you wake me up! Right, telling-off over :)! I do hope they can get it sorted for you soon, and that they'll find a way of doing the op, so that it puts the minimum of strain on your lungs. I think they are more able to do that in this day and age. My friend had a kidney stone removed by keyhole surgery, so perhaps it can be done with your condition in mind. Do try not to worry about it too much, Gabs, but at the same time, make sure you're doing the best you can for you. I know you love Gissi and vice versa, but you don't want to leave him alone for a long period of time, when a trip to the hospital might shorten your time away. Love and hugggs and Brightest Blessings for a speedy recovery. Love you. xxx
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 08
I will do as I have to admit I was scared to my breathing was really bad I thought it was going to stop and trying to regulate and deal with the pain was awful Thank you for that my dear Friend I am hoping now that I have Pain killers it will ease it It is taking it out on my Lungs though as my Breathing is still hard but the Lungs are clear, the Doctor said it is because they are dealing with a lot at the moment and to just keep taking the Inhaler as in the Blue one I love you and lots of Love and Hugs your way xxxxxxx
@Darkwing (21583)
21 Jan 08
Yes, I guess it's like anything else in or on your body. If it takes too much of a battering, it might not be diseased, but it will eventually give up trying to hold the problem at bay, because it's weakened. Let's hope the meds ease that, Sweetheart, but don't forget I'm here. ok? Love and hugs. xxx
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@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
18 Jan 08
Feel Better! - get well soon
I'm sorry to hear you are going through so much pain but happy that you did get to see your doctor. It does sound like gall bladder to me and am surprised that you weren't ordered an Ultra Sound sooner than this. Of course that will tell the whole story. I will be watching for updates and putting you in my prayers at night.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Thank you Sweetie I really appreciate that Hugs to you
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
18 Jan 08
Hi sweets Im sorry sorry your having that pain again. It does sound like your gallbladder. I was off the computer all day yesterday. Im glad you went to the doctors today. Just rest and take it easy today. So when is your ultrasound? I hope you feel better and get some relief.Love and hugs to you!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
I don't know yet Sweetie I have to wait for the Appointment I am going to lie down soon I am so tired exhausted and drained I will try and ring you later Sweetie Love you
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
18 Jan 08
Okay I will be waiting. Love you
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@Mickie30 (2626)
18 Jan 08
I'm really sorry to hear about your pain I hope they get it sorted quickly I will be praying for you. It must be pretty scary for you right now.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Thank you Sweet yes it is very scary right now but I will have to see and just hope for the best I just hope if I have to have it out that my Lungs will be strong that is my main concern but I guess they know what they are doing well I hope so lol
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@villageanne (8553)
• United States
20 Jan 08
Oh Gabs, That is terrible. I know how pain can take over. I hate pain. I do hope you feel better soon. Keep us informed. I will be thinking of you.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 08
Thank you Anne I really appreciate this and yes I will keep everyone informed Why are you not on my Friends list anymore Hugs to you
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
24 Jan 08
Hahahahaha Anne no way not you I noticed that you weren't but I requested you again Hugs to you
• United States
21 Jan 08
Gabs, I was not aware that I was not on your friend list. Hum?? Wonder how that happened. Weird. Maybe mylot thought that I was a bad influence on you. :)
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@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
19 Jan 08
Oh sweetie...I hope the pain killers are helping you a bit. I so wish I could be there to help you with all of this. As usual, I am way behind on everything, so I didn't even realize you had been rushed to the hospital last week. Well I hope that doctor gets this all taken care of immediately and I hope he jumps down the throats of the hospital staff for not getting things done right the first time. Take care hon. Love you lots!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 08
Hey Sweetie you have enough on your Plate there with trying to get everything sorted ready for you going into Hospital yourelf so of course you will not be able to be here a much as I am not either because I just want to sleep all the time I love you Sweetie
• Canada
18 Jan 08
Oh, dear gabs! You have to get this done RIGHT AWAY! The pain from the gall bladder is so intensely painful and the onset is very sudden. Sorry to tell you--and I do not wish to alarm you--but it is very urgent you get this attended to right away. My hubby had a very intense pain two years ago, refused to go to the hospital. After about three hours of my constant nagging, and I guess he couldn't take the pain anymore, he asked me to take him to the hospital. It was his gallbladder and it was close to bursting. The doctor was not happy with him for not coming right away, but there was really nothing before this acute attack that even indicated he had a gallbladder problem. The operation took five hours!--instead of the three hours that it would have normally taken had the infection/inflammation not made it such a difficult and delicate operation. Can you get the kids to look after Gissi? If I were there I'd take the Elf in a heartbeat! But please---GO, GO, GO. If it is your gallbladder you can't afford to dilly dally. I'll be praying for you...and the Elf. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{gabs/Elf}}}}}}}}}}}}}}]]
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
It is all in hand I have to have the Ultra sound first And yes the Pain is very intense which does not help my Lungs I will ask my Friend if she can stay with Gissi if I have to have this done and I am sure that she will try and figure The Kids are working and live 3 hours away I am sure that my Friend will do her best (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Hugs to you)))))))))))))))))))))))))) and lots of Love
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• Canada
7 Feb 08
Wow! Thanks for best response, dear gabs! I had not had the chance to check because of all the shovelling we have had to do--two blizzards in less than four days and one more due Friday. Hugs to you and the Elf!
@andyvish (901)
• India
18 Jan 08
I am very sorry to hear that. I pray god to make you healthy as he can. You know, prayers can do wonders.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Thank you so much
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
18 Jan 08
I am sorry you are having to go through this. I had my gall bladder removed 8 years ago. I was pregnant with my son when it started acting up so you can imagine how terrible the pain was having both things going on at the same time. I was miserable. I know how you were feeling. I would get it out as soon as you can. My surgery was not all that pleasant because my gall bladder and liver were fused together and they did not know it until I was in surgery. I would ask for another ultrasound to check for something like that just to be safe.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Thanks for that Lily and I certainly will I know he said that if they do operate I have to have a few Tests done before because of my Lungs so I will see
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@luvstochat (6907)
• United States
18 Jan 08
Hi gabs I really hope they find out what is causing your pain so they can do sometime about it. I have some problems with my gallbladder and it can really hurt sometimes luckily I haven't had an episode so bad that I had to go to the hospital yet usually takeing tylenonl and laying flat has worked so far. I really hope you get feeling better and if you have to have your gallbladder out I wish you a speedy recovery.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Thank you o much luvstochat and I will keep everyone updated as soon as I know more
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
19 Jan 08
Hi gabs I havent heard from you in a while and I didnt know you were rushed to the hospital last week.I am sorry to hear about this.I really hope you get better and I hope everything will be fine.A friend of mine had to get her gallbladder removed.She said the pain is no joke.I really hope you get well soon.Take care `~shaunita~
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
19 Jan 08
I miss you to and I really hope you feel better soon.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 08
Hi Sweetie I have not seen you around and I have been getting concerned about you I just want this sorted it is no joke and specially not with my Lungs Hugs to you I have missed you Sweetie I hope that you are ok
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@GardenGerty (157629)
• United States
20 Jan 08
Gabs, I am so sorry, but if it is your gallbladder at least they can do something for you. You may even feel better. I have had friends tell me that that is the worst pain they ever had, from their gall bladder.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 08
Hi Gerty Yes the Pain is bad and then the Colic on top of that but I am sure it will get sorted as soon as I know more I will let you know I just hope that they are not going to take to long in getting the Ultra sound done Hugs to you
• United States
22 Jan 08
Oh my Gaby i'm so sorry that ya are having so much trouble but keep the faith and God Will see ya through it it will just be slow going
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
24 Jan 08
Thank you Sweetie I really appreciate this I hope you are well and everything is ok with you Love you
@AmbiePam (85660)
• United States
18 Jan 08
That is so scary, being in all that pain and alone. Poor Gissi. Such worry. I hope it is your gallbladder. My sister nad mother felt so much better after they had theirs removed. Of course, you are in so much more pain and difficulty breathing just adds to it. You're a brave lady, you know that?
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Hi Pam I just can't leave Gissi though I know some People would call me silly but I just can not do it he was so scared last time when they took me of I just have to cope with it but at least now they are doing something but thank you Sweetie I have never thought of myself brave though Hugs to you
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 08
You know how to get hold of me if you need to talk Sweet and I am glad that you are getting better I really am Hugs to you
@AmbiePam (85660)
• United States
18 Jan 08
I understand. Pets cannot talk, but they communicate their stress very well. And you are brave. I try to think of each day as one step closer to getting better than I have been in a long time.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
30 Jan 08
gabs, pleasue insist that they run the lab work and do a liver panel to check the enzymes.... have them check if your gall stones have caused a block in the common duct bringing on pancreatitis...
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
31 Jan 08
I will do and thank you for this
@misheleen73 (6037)
• United States
18 Jan 08
Hi sweets.. Didn't I tell you to take care of yourself?? If it is your gall bladder, try applying a heating pad or other warm towels maybe to the area. I had tiny gall stones passing once. The pain was so intense, and I got nauseated. I went to the bathroom and never came out. Hubby came for me, by then, I could see and hear but could not move nor speak. My heartbeat dropped to 18 beats a minute. At the hospital they thought it was a urinary tract infection.. 3 hospital trips later they found the stones... watch what you eat, even bread can effect it. And try the heat. It helped a little while I waited for my surgery. Let us know how you are doing !!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 08
Sweet I am sorry to hear that I know at 2am I started to feel really strange everything was spinning and again I hear and see but no sound would come out of me I tried the Heat to and that did not help at all but by this time I was hardly able to breathe as the Lungs felt like they where clamped it was horrible I tried to look after myself lol I really did Hugs to you
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• United States
19 Jan 08
no worries about me, that was YEARS ago.. I did sleep curled into a fetal type position and kept warm damp towels on my back.. didn't take all the pain away, but it helped some.. just get it worked out asap !!!
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