Does admittting yur mistakes make you weak

By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
February 23, 2008 11:14am CST
or strong?
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43 responses
@maasha25 (108)
• India
23 Feb 08
Damn sure it makes you strong my friend
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
Thanks pal.One hell of a way of driving the point.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
24 Feb 08
I think that being able to admit your mistakes makes you strong BUT you also have to learn from them and change what needs to be changed....To me its a combination..If you admit your mistakes but dont do anything to make sure it doesnt happen again and then it continously happens IMO that makes you weak...and foolish
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
Right Lady.I becomes a crude strength if you don't want to change and learn from your mistakes.Good response.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
24 Feb 08
hahaha yes i agree if we are continuaLLY MAKING THE SAME MISTAKE THEN WE NEED TAKING IN HAND BLESSED BE
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
23 Feb 08
Good question as always my friend, I asked myself that question, and straight away I'd say strong, because how many people do admit mistakes? In today's society so many people are quick to blame others, hence the sue culture and not taking responsibility for your actions. For someone to admit they are wrong I respect more than someone who refuses to admit they are wrong, those people put me off and push me away, those that stand up and say look I was in the wrong I apologize are far more mature and deserve respect. In regards to making you weaker or stronger, well definitely stronger, because if you can admit to yourself and others you have done wrong then you can quickly learn and become a better person in life
@balasri (26537)
• India
27 Feb 08
Very good response .In fact I have been waiting for the other views to give you the BR.You are getting it now.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
27 Feb 08
Thank you for best response, my friend!
@SViswan (12051)
• India
14 May 08
It definitely makes one stronger. With the egos we have, it takes a lot of courage to stand up and say 'I'm sorry. I made a mistake'. I always admit my mistakes if I realize it...but it does take me some work to muster up that courage.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
15 May 08
Yeah it definitely makes you strong and proud and cleanses your conscience.
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• Indonesia
24 Feb 08
Definitely stronger. Denying is easy, admitting is harder to do. Thus admitting your mistakes would definitely make you stronger. Also, admitting your mistakes gives you room to learn from those mistakes. The people around you will also respect you more if you can admit your own mistakes, and not just pointing out other people's mistakes.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
Yeah.Admitting your mistakes needs courage.Courageous people are stronger. One contributing to the other.
@ruby222 (4847)
9 May 08
Im more than happy to admit my mistakes,and no i certainly dont think that it shows any weakness in character to admit them.I think its more annoying when people wont admit that they make mistakes,because then you have what they think is the perfect person,and as we all know that person doesnt exist!!
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@balasri (26537)
• India
10 May 08
You ca deny your mistakes.You can pose as an innocent one against your conscience.But the people can smell it and it will never help in lifting your esteem if you keep on denying your faults.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
19 Aug 08
Admitting one's mistakes shows integrity and strength of character. ; but what is importyant is -- with how a person is able to conduct oneself even after admitting to one's weakness. The person ho has admitted to his weakness should first of all do it sincerely and in a heartfelt manner. Just saying that 'I have done something wrong' or 'I have hurt you' are not just enough.It is the heart that accompanies it is what that really counts. A heartfelt admission speaks positively of a person and an admission under duress does not speak well of anyone.This is my conviction.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
20 Aug 08
That is a god one.Anyone can I say I am sorry without commitment.As you say it is the sincerity that counts.
@seabeauty (1480)
• United States
23 Aug 08
I believe it makes people stronger. When you admit your mistakes it shows you to be an honest person and people will take what you say seriously.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Aug 08
It's true that you get elevated in stature in the minds of the people when you admit your mistakes.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Feb 08
I think admitting my mistakes makes me stronger. I think it will make us weaker if we do not own up to them.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
You seem to be very strong in your opinion.I just like it.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
24 Feb 08
Thanks. That is great. I know some people hate to ever admit they are wrong about anything.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
25 Feb 08
Amen to that. That is for sure. that is awful that he let everyone suffer. i wish them nothing but the best now. I think we should all have younger people to hold an office. Someone with knowledge of the way the world is now and not like it was years ago because they are not up to date on what the world really needs now. they need someone who can keep up with the pace of this ever changing innovative world. We need the same in the U.S.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
21 Aug 08
Not sure if it makes you strong unless it takes courage for you to to. What it makes you honest and its always good to be ethical.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
21 Aug 08
Right.You really feel good.
• Abernathy, Texas
21 Aug 08
I don't know if I feel good, its just who I am, how I feel things should be. Like returning someone's wallet if they drop it. I do know it feels bad to unethical. Even a small lie. :)
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
24 Feb 08
It will make me strong because somtimes I do need to be strong to admit my mistakes. Depending on what kind of mistake I made.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
Do you always make a variety of mistakes to choos from Lymmchua?lol
@balasri (26537)
• India
27 Feb 08
Sorry Lynnchua.It is not that alright.Take care please.
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
25 Feb 08
I'm a muddle kind of person. Sometime I forgot about my son's tution class and even forgot to go and fetch him home till he called me. Muddle right?
• United States
23 Feb 08
Posting this response is probably a mistake, and I admit it. I don't feel stronger yet. My question or comment is: You actually get pennies for posting these one sentence topics? When I get email notifications of your discussions, topics such as do you remember somebody's smell, or do you join the kids in your neighborhood as they're playing? Just questions -- nothing describing your feelings or behavior -- interesting. I've got a book of questions. If that's the way to go, ok, I'll play. Well, tell me about this mistaken notion I've commented on. :p
@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
Thanks Mrs.Joyce.It is a pleasure talking to people like you who have mellowed with those experiences in life.I am happy that you are my friend.Please call me Bala and tell me how can I call you.
@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
Well friend.Don't they describe the soft,dreamy,extrovert,child loving,warm person in me.My freids here know well what kind of a person am I.Come closer and and you can see the true me dear.
• United States
24 Feb 08
I'm smiling at you. Thanks for being the soft, dreamy, extrovert, with childlike exhuberance that will always make your life brighter. It's people like you that make the world a friendlier place.
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@Pitgull (1522)
• United States
8 May 08
It takes a strong person to show the world who they really are. People tend to forget we are human, we will make mistakes. Why not be honest with yourself and admit...? By being able to accept your mistakes, you can learn to not repeat them. And by learning to accept our mistakes, we learn to accept ourselves.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
10 May 08
You are right.To err is absolutely human and to accept it is divine.
@cishi1230 (197)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
admitting my mistakes is not a sign of weakness but instead it's a sign of humility...
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@balasri (26537)
• India
23 Aug 08
“To be humble to superiors is duty, to equals courtesy, to inferiors nobleness.”
• United States
24 Feb 08
I think it makes you a strong person to say hey I made a mistake. Lets face it we all do at some time. Mistakes are how we learn, and we are never two old/young to learn something. That is part of life. No one should ever be afraid of saying they made a mistake.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
Yes.It all depends on the way you take things.If you have that positive attitude of taking things in the right way you are always strong.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
24 Feb 08
I do not believe that there are mistakes, only lessons. Everything happens for a reason and if we beat ourselves up everytime we fail short, we would never do anything else. The key is learning the lesson from the experience and doing your best not to repeat it. Some people never learn the lesson, because they try to make it seem like they know everything already. The biggest lie one can ever tell is the one they believe themselves.
@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
That is the good one Rozie.If you learn naturally the mistakes become the lessons.
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
24 Feb 08
I don't think that admitting once's own mistakes can make you feel weak.. It adds to your strength that you have the courage to stand upto your deeds.. Even though you may have the fear of being criticized for ur mistake but admitting it will make them think twice.. And u will feel satisfied.. And i think it will be a better way to improve upon you mistakes.. After all people learn from thir own mistakes..
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
Well said.It makes your conscience free and stronger.
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@Mirita (2668)
• United States
24 Feb 08
On the contrary, admitting my mistakes make me stronger since nobody is perfect and we learn from our mistakes. I admire those people who take responsability for their actions instead of always blaming others for their mistakes.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
No doubt it is a very admirable quality.
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
24 Feb 08
Admitting mistakes will make us strong obviously. Nowadays you won't find people who makes mistakes and will admit it -- there are very rare people who makes mistakes and admit it. I sometimes feel harder to admit my own mistake -- though I know it will make me strong only but I think sometimes ego comes in between which stops me from admitting my mistake.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Feb 08
Yeaterday I just made a mistake of assuming employee for employer in a business letter.When it was pointed out to me I just admitted my mistake and apologized profusely.My subordinate got shocked and flustered at my apologies and said that is no problem as if it is his mistake.People don't expect true acceptance of mistakes nowadays and they get shocked easily.That is the state of the things nowadays.
• Indonesia
19 Aug 08
hi balasri, i can hardly notice whether it makes me weak or strong. what i can say is i feel relieved when i admit my mistakes. feeling relieved, i will get more energy to solve the troubles i created because of my mistakes. there are times also when i think it's not good idea to admit my mistakes, and i just do all the way to fix it.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
21 Aug 08
You are right.You are greatly relieved once you take away the weight in your heart and yu can always feel that serenity inside you after that.