friends request

It's okay. I did it to for a while. I still forget to do it. I just get so caught up in discussions I forget to do any of the extra stuff.

Hi dear nothing to worry about and just stay here and u will know how to use it and sure u will get more friend Never afraid of rejection or dejection as its part of life, only look at bright sides Take care

I am sure you are not alone. A lot of my referrals also did not add me to their friend list when they first joined mylot. As such, they did not have that option of turning on the notification to get emails about their postings or mine, for that matter. So now with all your friends listed and accepted, I guess it is onto the task of turning on the notification for all of them. This should keep you with a steady stream of replies and postings from all the people in your friend list. This means more activity here in mylot liow!

There is always something learned everyday and your day has come to learn about friends. It's not so ridiculous at all and I am glad you now have many friends.Cheers!!

I have just been sending friend requests to all those who have sent me nice replies to my discussions and I think most of them have accepted me as their friend. It really helps because now I get a lot of email notifications in my inbox and this keeps my fingers busy and my purse full.

hello my chinese friend,i am glad to discuss here.It is really a funny question.I also have this kind of experience in some condition,never mind.i have joined mylot for 16 days.and i have make a lot of freinds already.They are so good to communicate.And i think it is a good idea to make more friends to support each other..and i always send the friend requests to other members.I am not care who send the request firstly.lol I am glad to know you here. good luck to you. I love China

You're not stupid! We all did that when we were new to MyLot. Actually, there were friends that I didn't get around to approving from requests. And then I took my six month leave. And when I came back, many of the requests were eight months old or more. I have since caught up on them all.

It happened to some of us, including me when I was still a newbie. But when I got to familiarize myself with Mylot features, I also happened to overlook that small portion of friend request. Before, I used to go direct to the discussion category, not even bothering to check the whole Mylot page. And it so happened that someone sent me a friend request almost a month ago. When I finally noticed the "friend" portion at the top page, I immediately approved that member. Now that you've mentioned about this friend requests, I'm thinking maybe those members I sent friend requests a year ago, who I thought didn't bother to even respond, may have this same situation. But when I thought I was being rejected, that made me not to send another friend request. It discouraged me a little bit. So, whenever someone sent me a friend request, I just checked their profile and approve them right away. But those members who sent you a friend request dating as far back as 8 months, was sure very patient to wait for your approval. And it's a good thing you've posted this discussion, so you can explain your side why the waiting took too long for them.

You really should not make assumptions about yourself. I used to think friends would reject me until I started asking and getting as a matter of course. Why should anyone reject an offer like that on the net ? I think this is just a case of first time jitters. Everyone can have a load of friends.

Ah, interesting little discoveries. I do not ask people to add me as a friend. If someone asks to be added as a friend, I usually do so but I will check their home page. Some people just seem to be collecting friends and do not really contribute much. I do not pander to them.

you have nothing to be embarrassed about. i did the same thing. i still don't know all the things about mylot that i should. i just know i enjoy talking to people. i live alone so it is alot of company to me.

Hello applefreak, Yes I am new to this site and I didn't know how to as friends request and yes I still fear for rejection but Mlylotters are friendly people here and I have a few firends now my realfriend told me how to do it. Tamarafireheart.

hi friend i understand your concerning. I have been a mylotter for a week.and i have made 117 friends on mylot community.I am very excited on this.I think a big part of friends are friendly,honest,trustworthy.I am pride i could have these wonderful friends here. About the friends request, i should say i sent more than i received. But i have my standard to choose who could be my friend.so i know who will accpet me as his friends when i sent the friend request to him. checking them firstly, i think it is necessary to me. Of course,i hope to make good friend with you,too.I hope we will suport each other more in the future. good luck

Don't feel bad, I am still new and I am figuring it out as we go. Everyone forgets/learns some times.

Hello, applefreak! I don't find it ridiculous, nor am I laughing at you. I think it's common, people take some time until they can know every function of myLot. I guess you should not be afraid of sending out friend requests. At every discussion, I send one for somebody. If they don't accept, there's no problem. After all, they have all the rights to turn my request down. But if they do accept, I'll be constantly responding to their discussions. And here goes another friend request, this time for you. I'll understand if you prefer to turn it down. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

Hello Applefreak, I'm kind of new here and I'm still learning new things all of the time. Its not like they go out of their way to explain any of the features here. I'm sure they understand and if not, they will when they read this! Cheers, Tianna

i'm new and i appreciate you bringing that out so that i can learn from it. thank you.