Does your mood affect how you treat people?

Certainly because that is because I am weak. When we have ill feelings or don't feel in the mood. We need to make a conscious decision to not take it out on others. How we react can change others perspective. We should be conscious that they did not do it to use and do not deserve our negativity or problems.

Yes, I do agree with you about people's mood do affect how they treat others. They should keep it in ther mind that they should treat others way they want be treated. When I am in bad mood, I often tell them that I am moody and request them to take it easy with me that was a plain honest. It is best take a break and let moods change first before do anything that require emotion involved.

Yea. It does.. sometimes. It really depends on my mood and on how irritating the person is. If I am in a bad mood or feeling moody and my friend is behaving in an irritating manner, I'll surely shout at him and asked be left alone. This explains why I rather be left alone when I am not in a good mood. On the other hand, I never vent my anger online. If I am in a bad mood, I would be watching anime (to cheer myself up) instead of being in mylot.

Yes I have friends who behave like that. When notice the mood shift, I am like "Cool it, what is the problem? You can't go around taking out your anger on innocent people". This usually works to calm them down enough for them to say they are have issues or just a bad day and then I try to see how I can help them. I would never ignore someone who needs reaching out to...I just can't do it.

not really. i only give it to people when they make me sick to shut them up. by the way...check out my ehow page...i am fifileigh on whow, and tell me what my articles there r like

hi yes it is but obvious that if i am in not good mood i may not show the interest in someone's matter. I may behieve ruddly if i am tense. viki

I have my good days and my bad days when things aren't so rosy but I tend to sometimes stay away from mylot when I am on one of my moods otherwise my responses aren't up to par and I feel I didn't do my best.. and most times regret my post/comments the next day..

ha ha ha ha ha... I would say that happens to me some times. As in, lousy mood getting in the way I deal with people. That is why, when I am in a lousy mood, I prefer to stay away from interaction till I get into a better mood. Coming to mylot does help to some extent. But nothing beats a good tub of Chocolate Ice Cream!

I try not to take it personal. Sometimes my mood will reflect in discussions about subjects I am very passionate about. I try not to reply to discussions that will lead to strong debate or even arguing such as political topics or questions about religion. I prefer to leave my beliefs to myself and family and prevent the dispute altogether. Some days I know I need to put in sometime on my online sites even though I do not want to. These days are probably the ones that you get the upset responses. When your mood is reflected in your responses because of something outside of the online world. It is hard to differentiate the two when you are already emotional or upset about something.

I am an impulsive person and most of the time, I let my emotion get the better of me. Bad habit though, so I am trying to change it. We all respond to something based on our emotions. Sometimes being subjective ruled over objective. Being bad mood may cause unwanted situations at times but I always make it a point to apologize to the person I have difficulties with and that is one thing I am proud of. Although I am impulsive, I know when enough is enough and when to accept humility.

My mood would really changed if someone got me offended.I would feel like it will ruin my day until that person will be out from my sight.My hubby always understand me.And do also understand people's mood.So if a friend is not in a good mood i will try to understand her/him and it would not definitely affect our friendship.

I have know people to act like this. Sometimes they are unpredictable from one day to the next. I haven't had too many problems here on myLot though. People are pretty caring and then some people have some harsh opinions. I believe that it is what this site is all about. There are going to be different moods and personalities and I just accept them as they come. I usually try to be patient with people in my personal life. Somebody could just be having a bad day.

My mood sometimes affect how I treat people - when I'm in bad mood I becoma snappy and introverted and I want everybody to leave me alone. Fortunately (for both me and my friends) it doesn't happend offen. And if I know that I had hurt someone with my behaviour I apologise to them when I'm in better mood. When my friends treat me strange I usualy just ask them about it. And if they don't want to speak about it I let them be knowing that they will be back to their normal selves in some time.

All people comes with different moods everyday, whether it is caused by a bad impression when they woke up or something elses ruin their day. Some could manage to coop them up and their are some who is just showy in their moods whether they are online, or at the neigborhood.

If a so called friend treated me rudely just because they were having a bad day and they didn't apologize to me right after, then they wouldn't have me as a friend.Most of my friends say right upfront, this is a rant or I am really p*ssed off and then they vent. That way I and anyone else knows that their rant isn't aimed at us.

NOt really ^_^ I wun let my mood affect everything that i do ^_^ As far as i know, in mylot, i have always been in a good mood because it's my relaxing corner, talking to frenz ^_^ In real life, i will also try my best, not to let my mood affect other ple, because they are innocent and i dun wanna them to be scare of me just because i hurt them with my words when i'm in the wrong mood ^_^ ANd if i'm not in the mood, i will usually tell them 1st, so that they will know their limits if they wanna do anything ^_^ BUt i do have frenz whom behaved like the whole world owes them something, and most of the time, i will be scolding them and arguing with them.. lol

hi cmathias I havent really noticed this that much, but I have seen discussions where my friends were really hurting and of course they are not going to be all lovey dovey with you when they just found out their husband is cheating them, or their' adult son is misbehaving, they are going to sound like they are in physic pain,and I cannot fault anyone for that. I am moving soon away from all thats familar and from my best dearest friend,so I am not going to be real happy dappy tonight at all. I know this move will probably be for the best but thatdoesnt stop the hurt from b eing there and missing my friends at all. Even to throwing out keepsakes because we cannot take everything in just one truck. This hurts, and its hard to p retend it doesnt. so how do I handle it, like I am handling myself right now, I give them room, I forgive them as I know how it can be.

yes i have that in real life. in mycase its affect so much.specially if i am on 100 degrees high i cannot control my mouth.if people know about me yes they just lef and accept me but some needs to learn about me.

In real life, when i'm moody, i don't like to talk much. And i will get less interactions with my friends. I try not to affect them when i'm moody. But i think the most persons that affected by me are my husband and family members. It seems unfair for them.

my mood affects the way i treat people. they know that if i'm not uttering a word they are treading on dangerous waters. it's not being proud of this trait but that is who i really am. i try not to talk for i may utter words i'd regret so...