What could be the reason for liking a person instantly?

By Bala
@balasri (26553)
India
September 14, 2008 1:22pm CST
What makes a person vibe with you so well from the first meeting?
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12 responses
@wolfie34 (26793)
• United Kingdom
15 Sep 08
For me I get vibes about a person and within 5 minutes I can usually tell if I am going to like that person, it only takes 5 minutes and my judgement is usually correct, I say usually or 95% of the time I have made mistakes of course, take my two horrible ex's now I must have liked them at first, but hey you can't be right all the time can you my friend? No I usually trust the vibes the person gives off when I first meet them and body language gives a lot a way too! NVC (Non verbal communication) is a powerful too if you know how to interpret it!
@balasri (26553)
• India
16 Sep 08
You are right.Many people just cannot help revealing them fast.
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@karmendra (1123)
• India
14 Sep 08
so for as my opinion is concern, i like person who is simple and of good nature.. sometime i think when you like some one instantly there is one reason behind it,, attraction, but this attraction can depends on more then one thing ,, attraction of his or her nature, face, beauty, way of talking, habits, eyes, or attraction of body.. it depends on your situation of mind at that instant.. have a nice day...
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@balasri (26553)
• India
22 Sep 08
Thanks for your great response.It's true.
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@pkraj111 (2459)
• India
14 Sep 08
Their manners and way of speech. They do attract me
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@balasri (26553)
• India
22 Sep 08
Sure it attracts all of us.I like that.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
14 Sep 08
Usually this happens when the person is genuine, cheerful,and full of energy. This type of individual inspires people like myself and others.
@balasri (26553)
• India
22 Sep 08
I think some one has inspired you to a great level.May I know who is that?I just want to confirm whether I am right.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Well, my grandfather was a successful and charming individual who was loved and respected by everyone. He always made everyone feel special ,and to me he will always be my inspiration. Also, I think that I was his favorite grandchild ,and he spent a great deal of time me.
@mimpi1911 (25454)
• India
16 Sep 08
I think it would be an amazing blend of the poise, conscience and humor.
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@balasri (26553)
• India
16 Sep 08
You seemed to be very choosy Mimpi.
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@1hopefulman (31548)
• Canada
14 Sep 08
We connect on some level. We have similar tastes. We have things in common. They are likable and I feel at ease and comfortable with them.
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@balasri (26553)
• India
22 Sep 08
Yes.When we are able to meet at one level the sparks fly.
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
16 Sep 08
This is hard. I had to think. I don't usually like someone spontaneously, as I don't want to risk being being disappointed or hurt (in the worst cases) sometime later. To answer your question, I think modesty could become a reason for me to like someone to a certain extent instantly.
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@williamjisir (22903)
• China
15 Sep 08
Hello balasri. I think that it is the beautiful voice and good-looking appearance and wonderful personalities that could be the reason for liking a person instantly?
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@sang2k2 (1834)
• India
15 Sep 08
i get the positive vibes from the firt meeting from the person who makes me feel confortable instead of showing tantrums..who mite be pretending to be down to earth , humble , honest and true.this is something which i genereally get attracted to and kinda like those kinds of personality.
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• Canada
17 Sep 08
I can usually tell a lot about a person by listening to her or his voice for a few seconds. I have been able to nail a person's character and personality instantly by listening to their voice. I once told my husband that there was a dangerous guy hanging around one of his kids, just because I heard the voice in the background. It later turned out that I was absolutely right about the guy.
@writersedge (22579)
• United States
14 Sep 08
The person is outgoing and has a lot in common with me. We can talk about anything together, similar opinions and values.
@littleowl (7157)
14 Sep 08
we all have physical bodies so that we can recognize ezch other on the earthly plane in spirit we are all one..if you believe in reincarnation also we have live many times before and when we come back to into this world we sometimes or quite often meet someone whom we probably met in a previous life even if we do not know them now it is as if we have met before therefore we are able to get on with them really well....littleowl