Searching for Hatley

gosh I haven't heard from her in such a long time either.

According to her profile page she last logged in one day ago. Doesn't look like she did anything here, maybe she just checked for PMs. But, I do hope she returns and soon

Actually I only just realized that I hadn't seen Hatley for some time myself! I was not aware that she was moving but I am sure she will be back soon. I don't think someone like Hatley could stay inactive on mylot for long! I am sure there will be some settling news very soon and you can stop worrying Donna. You are a good friend! I too have many friends that would make me concerned if I didn't see them for some time, yes. Even though this is an online community and an absolute majority of us have never met in person, attachments ARE formed and I see these situations as no different from a relationship we would share with friends in the real world. As a matter of fact, I am probably far more open and more conversational about many more topics with my mylot friends than I am with most of my face-to-face ones! lol.

She's not been on for 3 days now Donna. I'm not too worried yet. She's probably settling into her new home and it's not clear whether she has an internet connection yet. She may have logged in from a library or cafe. I have a number of incredibly close friends on this site, people that I talk to almost every day either on Skype, the phone or IM/E mail. It's horrible if they go missing. For example - anybody remember Angelwhispers? I know kind of why she's off, but she's not responding to e mails.

I haven't any news myself, but I'll be reading through the other responses to this discussion in a moment to see if anyone else has heard. I had noticed Hatley's absence, but I hadn't started to worry yet as I know from personal experience how low down the priorities list things like myLot have to come when you have no or limited net access. I do hope that the move has gone well though, and I've love to hear that all is well. In response to your question, there is another myLotter who hasn't been posting recently who I've been missing and thinking about. I hope all is well with her too, but I think that myLot is somewhere where people will come and go depending on what else is going on in their lives.

Hi DonnaLawson. Yes I know Hatley as well and I have been worried about her as well, I also have a few frineds that I am worried about too, I just hope they are alright. I like to think we are Mylot little community. Tamara

I have not heard anything from her either. There are a few others that I wonder about alot.

it seems i missed out on hately.though i joinned long time ago,i was forced to take frequent breaks.over the period of time i have made quite a number of friends with whom i relate very well(although there are differences of opinion) and i would very much miss them.

I don't know where hatley is. Haven't heard in awhile. Hatley will be back when ready. I know sometimes we all just need a break from everything and that includes the lot. We have many things going on in our lives and making the friends we have here is great. I have kept in contact with a couple of people here after they took "a break", unfortunately hatley is not one of them. I'll be glad when a return is warranted.

Until this discussion, I hadn't realized how much time had gone by. Wow a month! I sure hope things are better. Yes I have certain friends on my list like that. One hasn't been on in 5 months. I have tried getting in contact. Still, it can be frustrating not to hear, or know.

Well, just this week, I ran across an discussion that she had responded to. And I was wondering about her. I have not seen her in a while too. I have noticed that she usually replies to just about all of my discussions. This is also with faith210. I have not seen an reply from her in over 3 months now. I hope that she is okay. She is normally on myLot as well. She is also a very good friend of mines too. I do often wonder about her as well. I hope that Hatley is okay. And all is well for her. I had no idea that she was moving. I hope that she will be back here very soon. I miss her too. She is a very great friend to have here at myLot. I have grown pretty close with some friends here as well, and their being absent would make me concerned too. I hope that everything is fine on Hatley's end.

Hatley is not my friend but I enjoyed participating in some of her discussions and she did participated in some of mine. I like her a lot although she is not in my friend's list. It's only now from you that I learned she's not been coming here at mylot for quite a while. Oh yes, I really am taking the relationship here at myLot seriously. I have had enough friends here with whom I've developed so sweet relationship so if anyone is missing I'd really do my best to find out why.

I can't honest say I have close friends here yet, but I've only been doing this for a short time. There are some responders I enjoy reading, whether I agree with them or not. As far as your friend, Hatley, I'm sorry but I don't know her. I do hope you get good news regarding her, though.

I do not really have that close of friends on here yet, seeing as how I am new to this website. I take the community very seriously and like to talk with people and hear their viewpoints. Of course close knit relationships can be formed on a website like this. Friendships can be formed anywhere.

There are so many people that I have connected with on various sites. They participate for a while and poof they are gone. I think of them from time to time. Sometimes they come back and sometimes not.

Come to think about it I have not seen here for quite some time now. As I read the respopnses I hope to find more info about her. I miss her. I thought we were froiends as well donna. I did not, nor have gotten any notifications of discussions etc from you. I may be wrong too who knows. Thanks for the looking out for a loved friend here as well. There are a lot of friends here that I worry if I don't see them for awhile as well. This is a great community no matter whom trolls the site etc. I love it none the less. I've met two members so far face to face as well. So it is a real serious site if you wish it to be in my eyes. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

I have also not seen her discussions for few days. somewhere she mentioned she will be busy in shifting and then will login.I guess she must be busy there.

I have not heard from Hatley. I hope she has got settled in by now. Maybe they haven't had the money to get the internet installed again. She hasn't had it easy this year, has she. I mean she had to deal with the shingles, and then her son not having a job, and then having to move. Yes, I have worried about a couple people in the past. One of them just recently came back after a long absence. And there are a couple of mylotters who have cancer, and I have not seen them on here in what seems like ages. Because of their cancer, it makes me worry even more for them.

It's funny that you mention this as I just thought of her today and wondered about her. I know she was going thru a trying time and all. Lets hope that all is well with her.

hi my Is it too late to respond, I am taking a chance you are still here. My son is still out of work but they are lettkng him stay at the gov. sponsored apt with three other guys, this is done so the men have a place to live while they hunt for work. I have been here at G old Crest for about a year and some months now. WE lost the backer who was all gung ho on helping us by paying three months rent on an apartmeb in Northern Cal. she reneged just about the time we were figuring out how to get moved up to Antioch ca, the landlord emailed my son on my birth Nov15 2008 and then my son knowing that I am 83 with a bad foot and diabetes thought this cannot go on,mom cannot beout walking the streets and us having to move from one homeless shelter to another so he called adult protective services and I got placed here in Gold Crest a retirement center in garden Grove on Thanksgiving day 2008,then spent 2009 here, and was so sure my son would soon get a job and get me out of here, but now its almost Mothers day April 29 2010. I have now had my computer and monitor out of storage for about 6 or 7 months. I was gone from here for 11 months. I have read this several times and not known if all my old friends would be here or not. sorry to have worried so m any but for a very long time I had not way to really mylot again, and too I felt so shook up and in sort of shock, as it seemed like one moment I was an ordinary elderly woman living happily with my adult son,middle class citizen, then homeless, on the street but we did stay with friends for as long as they could safely have us as they were just renters too and could not have us there indefinitely. when you end up in Salvation Army hospital house, you feel ;like you struck bottom, and people look at you really funny y et you are the same person you were a few months before.odd.,well I am back mylotting again and hope you are still here.