tomorrow is my dad and mom's 35th wedding anniversary....

Philippines
January 9, 2009 6:36am CST
in this age and time when people's marriages doesn't last long and couples ended it with, separation, annulment or divorce i am so proud that my mom and dad are celebrating their 35th wedding anniversary. It wasn't an easy road for them they had moments but they are binded to leave for as long as they live. I hope they will be healthy and strong when they reach their 50th wedding anniversary and we will surely have a big blast and maybe a renewal of vows by then. I am praying for my parents good health and happiness for the rest of their life.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Jan 09
Congratulations to your parents dear! I am happy to hear people living a good marriage. Imagine 35 years! That is a lot to thank God about. I know how it feels for my dear. The children are the direct beneficiary of a happy marriage. I know how happy and secure children become when their parents could provide them a happy home. I'm so happy for the blissful life your family is obviously enjoying. Keep up! I am in a very happy marriage as well. I've been married for 23 years now with my first boyfriend. He is a wonderful godly man and I am so proud of him. I'm blessed enough to have him in my life. The man of my dream who provided me with a very comfortable life. Our marriage is almost close to perfection and I should say I am almost always in a bed of roses as far as my married life is concerned. Of course there were thorns that come through once in a while. But Good is good. He is always with me to tackle the thorns and gain victory over them.
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• Philippines
11 Jan 09
thanks and great to hear that you and your husband are happy with your relationship and marriage. One of the factors that you two have a good marriage is because God is with your relationship and in the things that you do together. That is the most important thing in every relationship and I have learn that as we grow with my dad and my mom. thanks for sharing your experience. happy mylotting!!!
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
Yes dear, you are very, very right. God must be in the center of every marriage. With God in the center, a home becomes a piece of heaven on earth. And certainly a Christian home is what the children needs! I'm glad to hear testimonies of marriages like that of your parents! Nice to meet you here! Have a wonderful day!
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Hello salonga, just like you i lear to hear stories about great marriages from other people. other think that marriage doesn't work now a days but if they see or read something like this testimony that would change their mind into getting marry and go for a commitment. Nice knowing you too!!!
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
9 Jan 09
That is wonderful that your mom and dad are celebrating their 35th. Are they doing anything special? My husband and I have been married 21 yrs and I remember when my first child went to kindergarden and came home from school asking me when we were going to get a divorce so he could go and do fun things at his dads house. Come to find out we were one of the few parents still married!
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• Philippines
9 Jan 09
We will just have a simple lunch at home and my parent are going on a vacation any time this year. I am so happy with them. You and your husband have been married for so long to and you are nearing your 25th something that should be celebrated by everyone in the family.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
9 Jan 09
I keep telling my kids that they have to have a party for us for our 25th. When I was first married, the next month was my inlaws 25th and I threw them a party with no help from my sister in law. My kids will be 11, 18, 20 and 23 when it is our 25th, so they can figure something out. If not, we will probably have a get together and we will definitely go on vacation. We go away every 5 yrs just the two of us. I am thinking Aruba for the 25th.
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• Philippines
9 Jan 09
that makes your relationship with your husband strong because you make sure to bond together and spend time together, just the two of you. this is what is lacking in some of the marriages of other people. once they settle down they forget to rekindle the love that they have when they just started. you and your husband deserve to have a blast on your 25th wedding anniversary. thanks for the post!!!
@quinnkl (1667)
• United States
10 Jan 09
Congrat to your folks!! My parents have been married 53 years and still going strong. Of course they got married when they were very young as they did back then. I am praying for yours and mine to have many, many more happy years together!
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• Philippines
13 Jan 09
great to hear that your parents marriage worked out great even if they started young. and I really hope that we will follow the footsteps that our parents had in keeping and having a successful married life. it is not an easy road but it is surely worth it. thanks.
@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
For some personal reasons, tears rolled down from my cheeks when I read this discussion. you see, my parents just had their 41st wedding anniversary last October. It was not the same as before since my mother is already in an advanced stage of Alzheimer. When my mother was still on the peak of her memory, she always take care of all of us, especially my father, who is a diabetic since 1983. Everyday, she always make it a point to massage my father from head to toe. She's always been so submissive. She supported my father all the way. My heart goes with them when learned that over the last 2 years it is my father who takes care of her, bathing her, combing her hair, really keeping an eye of her. He is the only one my mother recognizes!!! Anyway, belated happy wedding anniversary to your parents....
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@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
14 Jan 09
Thank you so much. I really need all the support and motivation I can get. What you said was true. My parents might be a living inspiration to us, how TRUE LOVE still exist in spite and despite of all the challenges in life. Wishing Healthiness and more LOVE to out parents...
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
That only shows how much your parents love each other. I think this is the very essence of finding the right partner that your stand with you through thick and thins. I love the love story of your parents. reading through it makes me shed some tears. hope everything will be alright. Happy mylotting!!!
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
10 Jan 09
Congratulations to your parents on their 35th anniversary. You are right; many people don't make it too long before divorce or separation. Most don't see the purpose in trying to find help to save their marriage. And there aren't many that far. We will be celebrating our 45th anniversary in July. If our health holds out and the Lord is willing, we will still be together, celebrating our 50th anniversary in 5 1/2 years.
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Hello Barb42, i pray for good health for you and your partner so that you can be together and enjoy your 50the anniversary. this may be rare at this time but i salute those people who keep their marriage happy and strong in spite of the trials and challenges along the way. thanks for sharing and best regards.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
11 Jan 09
It is nice to hear that there are people who still work hard at their marriage. Congratulations to you mum and dad, great milestone. My in-laws were married nearly 50 years but my mother in-law passed away in November 08. My parents are going for 49 years this May.
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• Philippines
13 Jan 09
thanks for sharing. nice to hear that you and your husband came from a family that preserve a family. thanks for the post and happy mylotting!!!
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
9 Jan 09
congrats that's awesome, my parents made it to 15 then called it quits. my hubby n i are on our 5th this year. i do hope n pray we'll be together forever, i know no one expects to get divorced, but we have been together for 13 yrs, n i love him more n more each day!
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
9 Jan 09
last year my inlaws celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary and my hubby and i celebrated our 21st. you are right when you say that now adays, reaching such milestones are rather uncommon. what a sad commentary on today's society.
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• Philippines
11 Jan 09
nice to hear that even a lot of relationship and marriage doesn't work but there are people like you and your in laws that was able to survive this common happening in our society.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
9 Jan 09
congrats to them, my parents celebrated their 56th anniversary this past october. and even though they have been through a lot, and raised me and my sister with good values.....can't say the same for she and i, lol. i have been through three divorces and she is on her third marriage, hopefully, for her this one lasts.
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• Philippines
10 Jan 09
i hope that one day you will find a man that you will be with the rest of your life so as your sister. thanks a lot for the post!!!
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
9 Jan 09
happy anniversary to your mom and dad. yea, in this generation where marriage will not long, I can feel your happiness that your parents reached this years being together. Yes, marriage is not all happiness. It is a combination of everything. If somebody said today that they never experience hardship and ups and downs in their marriage, that somebody is lying. hahaha...
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
thanks for the post my friend. indeed life is a roller coaster ride we have our moments high and low and things everyday come unexpected but is is just a matter of holding on and acknowledging that trials come to make us and our relationship stronger and not to make us miserable. happy mylotting!!!
@celticeagle (159105)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Jan 09
Well, Congratulations to them! I am sure you are very pride. My parents were divorced when I was very young so it is nice to hear that someone has parents that have madeit through. It is so nice to hear!
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• Philippines
11 Jan 09
I am indeeed proud of my parents. Sorry to hear about your own parents I hope that what ever happen between your parents didn't affect you much. Thanks your for being happy that there are relationship that can really work. thanks for the post!!
@Erssyl (617)
• Philippines
10 Jan 09
I'm glad you still remember their anniversary.Next month will be our 34th anniversary too.I hope my children will remember it too so we'll have just a little celebration.I also believe in endless love and one man woman too.Hope we will reach our 50th anniversary so I can experience a church wedding which I'm longing for so long.We had a civil wedding.
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
i bet your children will remember your wedding anniversary my sister and i never fail to remember the day our parents tie the bond. thanks for the post and best wishes to you and your partner!!!
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
10 Jan 09
Congratulations!it is so nice to hear that there are a lot of couple whose marriage last for a lifetime. My parents also will be celebrating their 33 years of marriage this year. In our family we have no history of separation, actually here in the Philippines we have no divorce law that's why separation cases are so rare. I admire couple whose union last for a lifetime.
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
thanks for sharing your thoughts my friend. great to hear that your family is one os those who value the sacredness of marriage. Happy mYlotting and have a great day!!!
• India
10 Jan 09
it is said thst god makes pair in heaven and then leave to earth,but it now it has to be changed by saying that god makes enemy in heaven and leave to earth.but it cannot be completely supported because still their arwe people who has serious feeling for marriage .it is a life long attachment,but now love and marriage is a fashion or trend to keep there position in society.people go behind fame only.
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• Philippines
11 Jan 09
Not everyone likes fame my friend. thanks for the post!!!
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
9 Jan 09
[i]Hi ken, I am also extending my greetings for your Parents...And wish the same! I am also proud for my Dad and Mom who have been together for all these years! and survive with all the trials in their marriages! I would say, they are my idol when it comes to this matter! LOL! let's continue to wish and pray for their good health and long life and for all the parents in the world![/i]
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• Philippines
9 Jan 09
that is true i wish all married couples will live together forever and living to the sanctity of marriage against all the trails that may come between them. Happy mylotting!!!
• Singapore
10 Jan 09
i'm really glad for you. my mum and dad's been married for close to 24 years. I really wish they can both be healthy when their 35th anniversary, even their 50th anniversary comes along. But my mum's not in good health and I'm really worried for her. :( i can only hope...
• Singapore
13 Jan 09
thank you. :)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Sorry to hear about your mums health condition. I pray that she will be well for her 50th wedding anniversary. I know how you feel about your mums condition don't give up hope my friend. have faith and your mum will be well. thanks for sharing.
9 Jan 09
So pleased to hear about your folks, congratulations to them! It is good to know that some people still view marriage as a sacred commitment, which is for life. My husband and I are approaching our ten year anniversary, so I feel I must do something special to mark the occasion. :)
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• Philippines
9 Jan 09
hello icequeen, that is something that should be celebrated not everyone reaches their 10th year anniversary. thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
9 Jan 09
marriage is not easy and for me it is one of the hardest things i have ever had to persevere with. 35 years with the same person is a long time. if it is a good marriage then i am sure it is great. my marriage is difficult and plagued with problems so that seems like an eternity to me. we try to stick it out for our young son because it is about him not just us.
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• Philippines
10 Jan 09
sorry to hear about your marriage. that i true that it is not just you the couple but what matters the most is your son. hope you can sort out everything for the good. thank for the post.
@Masmasika (1921)
• Philippines
9 Jan 09
Well, extend my warm greetings to your mom and dad. Congratulations too for them because they lasted that long. What you said is true. Countless marriages do not last long these days and I'm so glad to have couples like your mom and dad who had maintained their vows. I pray that they will have more anniversaries to come and good health to both of them.
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• Philippines
9 Jan 09
thanks for the well wish and the post!!! it really takes the will to keep the family intact and to stay away from the temptations that would try to ruin the family. marriage is not an easy thing to be in but if you have God in the family. He makes things easy for everyone. Happy Mylotting!!!
• Australia
9 Jan 09
Congrats to your parents' marriage :) My parents have been married for 23 years and at one point they nearly decided to have a divorce and were considering which of their children will go with who. But in the end they didn't and made the big move of immigrating the whole family. Well, i wish your parents luck and more love to come.
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• Philippines
9 Jan 09
that is good to hear that your parents didn't push through the plans of getting divorce and all of you are still binded together. trial are just normal as long as we live what matters most is we stay steadfast during the times of trials and the welfare of the children would always be on top of the priority. having dysfunctional family would greatly affect the children and they are the ones that suffer the more. Cheers to the family that stays together. thanks to the post.