ever encountered a person who is so unreasonable? well not enough...pathetic!
By mz_Ira
@mz_Ira (1090)
Philippines
May 5, 2009 4:50pm CST
Right just minutes ago, I was browsing on some of the discussions and see this topic about him left by this girl who he have said that he loves her and the girl just left him.. I responded telling him not to take one as a whole because no one's the same right? same gender but different characteristics...I was not being biased but I was only telling the guy that he is wrong to judge all girls..You might know now what I'm talking about, for sure he's in the today's top dscussions for garnering 24response. Yeah there I was, responded, he responded back telling me If im a girl he's not in the mood to talk to me? Wot the??? well common sense guy, if he wouldnt want a girl to respond from his post then why not put "No girls" allowed in his subject right??
Absurd! Why post a discussion here if you don't want girls or boys to respond to your discussion???
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12 responses
@marguicha (216424)
• Chile
5 May 09
Sorry! You spent your time thinking what to say and answering him. I might be a mean ol´witch but I´d rate him with a minus. This is a social site and he was rude and unpolite.
Take care
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@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
6 May 09
I know, I told him that as well.. It is really harsh of him to talk like that I mean some of the ladies here who responded to him had just a reaction from him of "you are all the same" "I am not in the mood to talk to you if you are a girl"
oh my... acting like a kid who got his candy stolen by a girl...
oh my... acting like a kid who got his candy stolen by a girl...
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
6 May 09
Maybe the person was not in a proper state of mind. No, I am not supporting him. Just looking for possibilities.
Whatever the real reason was, he should not have hated all girls. It shows a lack of maturity in thinking, and possibly this was one of the reasons why she left him. It is easy to blame others for our shortcomings, but it will not get us far in life.
If a person does not want to talk to us then maybe the best action would be to leave him/her alone. Maybe one day the person will realise that no man is an island. Whatever our differences are, we still share the same planet.
all the best,
rosdimy
rosdimy@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
6 May 09
First yes he is not in his right state of mind or if he is then he is just one of those people who are getting everyone's attention by this issue and expressing his harsh thoughts to the people who have not committed anything wrong to him. Falling inlove with a girl online just because she's very nice and kind is not that easy right? I mean all net users always try to be friendly and show kindness to everybody and nothing else.. I think this guy had taken it wrong actually to the extent that the girl he mentioned had to stay offline or prevent him because what could a person answer if she already has and the guy would not say no for an answer or insist that things would turn out well which is impossible..
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
7 May 09
That is why I mention maturity in thinking. An experienced mature male would not jump to conclusions just because a girl is being nice to him. There should be other things which point to the same thing before this male dare to think the girl likes him. Let us pray that he will see the light.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
6 May 09
i have... many times actually... it is so sad that people can be so rude here... you are right... if he doesn't want women to respond to his discussions, he should have put it in his title: For men only... this is a free forum and everybody can respond to anybody discussions... no restrictions... just ignore him... he just need to get a life... take care and have a nice day...
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
7 May 09
Some MCP to say the least and like all MCPs very stupid and tunnel visioned really. See, its not our fault really that his girl friend left him and you were only trying to console him AND if he doesn’t want to talk to girls, he will never know how to win a girl’s confidence and keep on losing one gf after the other…serves him right
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
7 May 09
You should not get worried about this guy. Even when I got break up with my girl in past, I was in no mood to talk to any girl but the difference was that I never shown it to any girls in my life.
This guy was a little bit more offensive than I and the worst thing was that you have suggested him to not to judge all the girls with the same attitude. This works as a petrol to a fire!
I would suggest you to forge about him and move on with other discussions. We guys are little bit more sensitive than girls when it comes to relationship! So, give him time, he may apollogize to you!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
5 May 09
Respons again and tell him to get a life. No right to be so rude and he should be rated negative and reported. Discussions here can be responded to by anyone - no restrictions. I don't take rudeness - there is no reason for it and it is just not socially acceptable.
Blessings. Thank God that these people are few and far between.Ridiculous
don't let it upset you. It happend to me once too. Blessings
Blessings. Thank God that these people are few and far between.Ridiculousdon't let it upset you. It happend to me once too. Blessings@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
6 May 09
I did actually respond to one's response and had to tell him to watch his words because he was really saying nasty to the person which is also a girl... I just checked earlier his discussion to see how the conversations went on but the admin had already removed it due to violations. served him right...
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
6 May 09
Well he might just as be hurt by the experience he had with girls. Well I guess he had internalized his hatred for girls that he could not fathom conversing with one right now. Well hard to understand that kind of an attitude but I guess there are people like that. He's hatred towards his GF is spread to everybody. I just hope he could recover from his anger because his life would just be miserable if he chooses to be in that side of his life.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
6 May 09
I know what you mean. I think we are all entitled to respond to any kind of discussion here. We cannot tell people when to respond or who can respond. I think he wanted attention anyway from the girls.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
6 May 09
lol =D Well, i guess he's just in the bad mood.. Whenever a relationship fails, it's always hard to get over it in the initial stage.. Though it does not happen to everybody, but he happens to in the group to be behaving and reacting in such a way.. hehe ^_^
Not only guys will react in such a way, there will be gals whom do such things too right?? just give and take, hopefully when he wake up from his senses, he will apologize to u via that post, or PM u ^_^
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
6 May 09
It sounds as if he's so heartbroken that he's very bitter. I know how he feels. But that was no excuse to be rude to you. Give him a break, he's in a bad place right now and I'm sure when he calms down he'll be more reasonable.
