confident of wearing high heels?

@becnh83 (806)
Philippines
June 9, 2009 4:05am CST
im not that cinfident of wearing high heels infact i only wear high heels when im in an office uniforms and formal occasions.... how about you, are you always in a high heel?
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@jdyrj777 (6558)
• United States
10 Jun 09
I never wear heels. If i have a heel it no more than 1 inch high. I feel that women who wears high heels are risking their health. They are going to break something before they figure it out.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
really? i think it only depends on how u carry it and if your always wearing it often so i think you already know how to walk gracefully...
@jdyrj777 (6558)
• United States
11 Jun 09
They are just plain dangerous. Im confident that you'll break something soon. Please be carefull!
@celticeagle (113039)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Jun 09
I agree. I have been lucky enough to find several brands of heels that are comfortable and that I wear when I want to look nice. I feel that looking alittle taller helps with that. It not easy for women to wear heels but if they are fitted right and are comfortable it makes all the differnece in the world. If they pinch and are ill fitting then it is like hell on earth. You feel like your bones are coming through the bottom of your feet. Awful.
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@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
i agree...it made us difficult but when it fitted it ryt to your feet that maker more better.. happy posting
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@celticeagle (113039)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Jun 09
Yes, I think it pays in the long run to pay alittle more for a well fitting pair of heels that are comfortable.
• United States
10 Jun 09
I'm 5'1". High heels (the higher the better) are my best friends. My friends always wonder how I can stand wearing them all the time, but since I think they're really cute (and they also put me within vision of normal-height or tall people so I don't get stepped on or tripped over), I've gotten used to the pain ha.
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@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
ohsss.....i think very cute and sexy lady.... happy posting
@jayrene (2713)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
before i was not, i always flat shoes or most of the time rubber shoes. when i got involved in real estate and there were a lot of functions to attend to, i started wearing high heeled shoes, and i really liked it. now i am used to wearing high heeled shoes, i have a few of them here. sometimes when going to the mall i wear high heels it makes me feel sexy... lol... and taller, and confident of myself.
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@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
yes thats what every ladies said...wearing high heels makes you, feel more sexy and confident to walk....
@rdadey (484)
• Canada
10 Jun 09
I'm a male also so nope, I don't wear them...lol. I do notice women who do wear them and what I see is that they appear very confident in themselves. My opinion is that if it makes you feel good wearing them, then do it. If it hurts your feet then you shouldn't. As a male I tend to be more attracted to short women who wear them and don't understand why a tall woman would if it puts her head above everyone else's. Look a t a photo of a wedding where the bride wears high heels and ends up taller than the groom...that looks so weird to me. Like I said though, if it feels good then do it.
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@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
....yes i saw that too...thats why if this case will happened to me i prefer to wear flat or 1 inches high so that my groom will look like taller than i am... happy posting
@suzzy3 (8400)
9 Jun 09
I find them very uncomfortable and only wear them if I have to.They actually cripple your feet after a while if you wear them to often,bunions and bad feet are something I would find hard to cope with,also high heels will give you a bad back if worn to often.
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@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
really? i thought if you often suit high heels it helps you stand like a professional model....
@suspenseful (40326)
• Canada
9 Jun 09
I wish I could wear high heels, but I have these wide feet and I have bunions, so I have to wear those horrible old lady shoes. I can get away in the summer, because I can wear sandals and there are some nice ones out there, but most of the time, in the winter, I either wear boots or horrible looking pumps that either hurt my toes, or I look like a grandma. Not that I am not one, I am, but I do not want to look the same or older then my age.
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@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
your a cool grandma i think...if not high heels you wear a little bit high like 1 inch or a half of an inch maybe that makes you better and comfy for you....
@SM5550 (118)
• India
9 Jun 09
I am a male hence I dont wear the high heals but as I personally feel you should avoid wearing high heals all the time as it affects your eye sight and secondly its also uncomfortable to walk hurriedly or climb up the stairs... may be I am wrong but I personally dont see anything wrong in you when you dont wear high heals daily
@mjmlagat (3171)
• Philippines
9 Jun 09
weird avatar there!hehehe!
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
9 Jun 09
why? whats the connection between your wierd eye sight avatar of () wearing heels?
@coolcoder (2022)
• United States
9 Jun 09
Love the eye avatar! LOL!
• United States
10 Jun 09
I wear high heels when I have to go somewhere special. But I don't wear them all the time. They can tend to hurt the feet and cramp them up. Even though I love high heels.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
yes thats why i seldom wear high heels...
• United States
11 Jun 09
My daughter can wear high heels all the time. And they don't bother her feet much. Her grandmother is the same way. But me now I am different. They can tend to hurt my feet after a while.
• United States
10 Jun 09
Confident? They add to y confidence. Since a severe back injury a few years ago, I seldom wear them anymore. I'm less than 5' tall, so I always felt that heels were an improvement. Now I just find pretty flat shoes most of the time and wave at more than 200 pairs of very high heels when I pass the closet they're in!
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
hahaha....but you wear them more often before that back injury happened?......
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• United States
13 Jun 09
I wore them all the time, except for working out or cleaning the house. They were just part of the routine.
@arkaf61 (10891)
• Canada
10 Jun 09
Hmm.... high heels ... I used to have no problems wearing them as long as they were not extremely high. It felt comfortable and I walked perfectly well on them. I used them every day for work and if I went out at night. Lately however, maybe because I gained weight, I don't feel as comfortable on high heels as I used to before. True things are a bit different here from back home. Back home people were high heels more often and use flats only for leisure and informal occasions. But in here flats or running shoes are acceptable basically everywhere and I got used to wear them to the point that I really avoid high heels now.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
yes i also wear high heels only in working days aside from that days i prefer to use the flat ones because i feel more comfortable in flats... happy mylotting
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@arkaf61 (10891)
• Canada
10 Jun 09
yes, I feel better with flats now too:)
@edelweiza (159)
• Philippines
9 Jun 09
i'm like you, not so confident of wearing high heels.actually, for me it's more about comfort.i'm not comfortable wearing high heels such as stilletos or even pumps. though they say they make a woman look sexier, i still don't wear high heels that often. for me comfort should be top priority. it's a good thing we have more choices than ever when it comes to footwear/shoes. there are now stylish sandals and slip-ons that provides comfort to our feet and give them that sexy advantage as well.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
yes...good for us to have a more styles than men....so how often do u use high heels? occassionally?
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
yes, occasionally. and when i'm on the mood. :)
@mye_drew (182)
• Israel
9 Jun 09
yes i am....heels makes those small people tall,like me im not that kind of tall woman,.im only 5 2 so i prefer to use high heels.,.high heels mkes our outlook elegant.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
9 Jun 09
yeah were in the same height but i am not frequent to used high heels just when working days...need to high heels because of our uniforms but i hardly walked..hehehehe..im trying to carry it slowly....
@mye_drew (182)
• Israel
10 Jun 09
yah ur ryt its hard 2 walk when we use high heels hahhaha,.even i felt paining in my foot i ignored it coz i wont 2 lose in poise.
@marcyyyy (523)
• United States
10 Jun 09
I feel pretty confident in heels...I wore them to work a lot in the office. I feel dressy and I like the way they look! I don't wear the ones that are skyhigh, cos that takes away my confidence...I can't walk in thoseLOL! I don't wear them as much since I'm not in an office anymore. Take care!!!
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
ohhhh...but you still wear them occasionally? happy posting
@jugsjugs (13046)
10 Jun 09
I wear high heeled boots when i go out you know like the ankle boots.The reason i wear the high heels is to make me look taller.I think i walk very well in them.I wear high heels during the week if i have to go any where as i do not feel happy with a small heel.I have always worn high heels even when i was only 16 years old.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
oh you confident enough to wear all those heels....and find more attracted to it.... happy posting
@lumenmom (1997)
• United States
10 Jun 09
It has been several years since I have worn high heels. My feet have gotten worse over the years and if I put on high heels now it causes me extreme pain. It is not worth it for me to try and wear them now. Plus I don't dress up like I use to or go out to nice places so most of my dress is casual and I like to be comfortable, so no heels for me!
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
yes wearing high heels depends on you and the place you into.. happy posting
@dismalgrin (2470)
• United States
10 Jun 09
I prefers ballet style flats. Being a single mother I found that these types of shoes are a lot easier on my feet when I have to cart around a purse, diaper bag, a toddler, preschooler, 7 year old, and a bag of recent shopping purchases. Haha, I think anyone trying to cart all that would soon opt for flats... if not sneakers! I also like to wear flip flops. It's not that I don't like wearing heels, they are just not very practical for me to wear right now.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
yes your working field doesnt meet of wearing heels...
@med889 (5958)
10 Jun 09
I am very confident when I wear high heels well I have been wearing them for more than 5 years now so I am okay with it though I will always escape from the high heel to something very light when I am back at home. I can even run with high heels which my boyfriend finds very amazing, I remember we had to cross the street and I was running really fast with the high heel and I find it okay as far as I can o it. In the office I have to wear it but once at home I will put it aside to walk either barefooted ot with something real light.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
wow...you are really amazing...i can run with a high heels but not that fast as you could.... happy posting....
@CJay77 (4441)
• Australia
10 Jun 09
Hi bench! I don't wear high heels often because I am not comfy with it and I don't have a good balance, sometimes when I'm wearing one, I felt that I walk funny, lol. I have high heels and I only wear them when I'm going is some special occasions. And sometimes wearing heels hurts my feet even I don't walk a lot, lol.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
yes it really hurts ur feet....especially when ur not often used it....your feet was immune to it...
@silverglint (2001)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
I prefer comfort to style so I don't wear high heels that much. The highest I would probably be willing to wear when there is an occasion is 2 inches high and I don't wear it for long hours. I think it really kills the legs. I don't know how others are able to wear high heels the whole day and still be able to walk properly at night. For me its not really about the confidence, I may get a bit conscious since I am not used to wearing high heels, but I do not see the point of wearing heels in everyday situations.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
yes wearing heels will depend on how you normally used it....wearing heels and flat really differs your way of walking.... happy posting