Best friend falling in love..

Hi asweetie, it may not apply in this case but when one of my male friends started to get a bit soppy round the edges I said I coulnd't even consider going out with him until he lost 70 kilos, fortunately he is yet to start the diet.But she could voice an aversion to any physical feature to put him off the idea.

This is a toughie. She is just going to have to be honest with him, and tell him she loves him as a friend, but no more. I think he will settle for that, rather than not have her in his life at all. It is a difficult situation, but he will get over it, i am sure. I hope it works out ok.

Hmm... this is usually the sticky situations that you would want to avoid. If I were in her shoes, I will only go out in groups. And of course, let it be known clearly that she only regards him as a friend and that there is little chance of the relationship to develop beyond that. Then keep a distance. Still go out like friends normally do. But be extra aware of your gestures, your glances, your touches (any form of body contact, be it a pat on the shoulder or a brush of the hand), so that your friend do not un-intentionally give the impression that she is leading him on to something more than just friendship.

Hi, that would be difficult but if friends are real friends in truth bad or good, he would accept his fate that they would remain as friends and nothing else. Mostly, friends like this will end up as still friends. But sometimes if they just seek time apart from each other and really do some soul searching maybe they will realize that they are mean to be more than just friends. I wish it were the movies so they will live hapily ever after friends or otherwise.

I can understand you asweetie.if i am you friend ,i will make a decision as fast as i can ,you know ,whatever you do never lie to other.As you said your friend love another boy more than him ,so tell him the truth and stay this friendship,its a good way to solve this problem.If the man is a good friend of her ,i think it's not a big deal,take it easy.

That is a hard one, and I have been through that as well, but if he is truly her friend as you say then if she sits down with him and tells him how she feels then it really shouldn't affect their relationship as friends. And unfortunatly thats how you find out who your true friends are.

There is never a nice way to say no to someone, but try to be as gentle as possible and explain how you feel, that you want him as a friend but nothing more, and that you don't want to lose his friendship for this. But first think if you are really sure about being just friends, if he is your best friend probably you like something of him, and if you are sure let him know that you have no interest in being more than friends, don't let him him linger in the doubt of how things really are.

your friend should tell him honestly dnt make it last long coz the guy might expect to much and the more he get hurts afterall that too much expectation is just nothing..... and for sure the guy understand her, yah he will get hurt but he will be ok coz its not the end of there friendship anyway....as long theyre honest wd eachother as friends...

Hello asweetie!There is no such an easy way of saying no to someone that may ease the pain. How sure is your friend that what she feel towards his friend is really love and not infatuation? Remind your friend that loving his best friend is like facing different complexities in life. The risk is to heavy to handle most of the time. As your friend will enter in such relationship she must be prepared with the what if's & how she will handle and cope up with the stresses that may arise. Is she ready to cry and handle the heartaches most of the time? If ever they will both decide to end their relationship in the future, they will both lose the friendship forever. Now the question would be, is she willing to lose the friendship in the future? If yes, then continue loving her best friend. However, if not, then dump that feelings. Burden awaits for sure. Good Luck!

wwell that is a really hard situation to be in, unfortiyly there is not really any way with out eefecting there friendship. things will be different now that she knows he likes her and regection is going to make things hard for him all she can do is let him down easy things are going to be a littl ackward between them for a while but just give it time and there be like they were. happy mylotting!

Hi, She needs to tell him that she does not want to loss there friendship if it doesn't workout. She would rather stay friends. 80% of the time you can never go back to being friends. She needs to tell him before it gets to late and it ends the friendship that why. I wish her all the luck.

She just needs to tell him that friendship is all she is interested in. Sense he's already head over heals, I don't think it's gonna matter how she tells him, he's gonna be hurt. There's nothing worse then being in love and that affection is not returned.