Is there a perfect love relationship?

@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
March 17, 2010 9:02pm CST
Do you think there is a perfect love relationship, where no misunderstandings, quarrels and arguments happening? I don't think love is pure of happiness, that is what we wanted but still there's still sadness that will occur from time to time due to misunderstandings. How do you deal with it? I know if you really love each other, even how big the problem that's blocking your way, you can still overcome it. There's no hindrances that we should allow to control our relationship to fall apart. We should hold tight and have faith to our love. I know all problems can be solved if you and your partner are willing. We should be understanding, patient and have trust to our partners. Uhmm.. do you think there is a perfect love relationship? I would be glad to hear from you. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
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@cloud31 (5811)
18 Mar 10
Hi there Mark!Relationship has a lot of imperfections,theres no such perfect love relationship.There is always sadness and arguments happen its undeniable that misunderstanding can make relationship stronger than ever unless its not intentional. Normal matters into a relationship with quarrels and arguments but it should not let it be the cause of fallen apart.If usually happen its a harm and its not good sign otherwise its just normal. Happy myLotting!
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@zed_k4 (17634)
• Singapore
18 Mar 10
Very well said...
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Hi IJ! It's good to see you here! So you said, it's really normal for a relationship to have misunderstandings and arguments, as those are the things that makes a relationship stronger. I agree with you, specially if you are already on the situation where you are already forgiving each other. Saying sorry to each other, and accepting each other more this time. It really brings happiness to a relationship when you and your partner are accepting each other despite of imperfections. Thank you for your response. Always take care. Happy myLotting!
@zed_k4 (17634)
• Singapore
18 Mar 10
I don't think there are. Most relationships are flawed and there are no perfect ones at all. But sometimes the imperfections make things seem perfect and that's the true cool positivity of a true and great relationship. Tolerance, understanding and love towards one another are the important aspects of all.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Hi zed! Yes despite of imperfections, your partner will look perfect to you if you will accept him/her as a whole, both his strengths and weaknesses. Acceptance and understanding should always be present in a relationship. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
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@zed_k4 (17634)
• Singapore
18 Mar 10
I doubly agree.. sounds like complimenting each other and in that way, the relationship can definitely go far..
@dr9rim (247)
• Australia
18 Mar 10
i dont think there is anything perfect in this world. everything has flaws. even the most beautiful thing will have flaws. if it is not considered a flaw to us, maybe if we ask someone else they will think it is a flaw. but having something imperfect and being able to accept and cherish it is what i think would make a relationship beautiful.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Hi dr9rim! Yes, nobody and nothing is perfect in this world but if we will accept the imperfectness of somebody or something, then it will look perfect for us. In loving a person, we should accept both his/her positives and negatives. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
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• Philippines
18 Mar 10
when we go through into a relationship we are ready enough to be hurt, have patience,sacrifice, and give all your trust to your partner. having misunderstanding is normal to a couple, what we have is to learned how to control ourselves. there is no perfect relationship. we are human and weak. there are so many temptation that surrounds us. what we have is pray, and to be open to your partner always, and all problem can be solved if there is unity..
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• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Perfect love that I consider is the Love of God towards us. We as humans are imperfect. As our love has also limitations and as to what you have said, in a relationship there will be misunderstanding and such, but both the couple will settle it also. Imagine that two people with different characteristics and attitude will live together and there will be adjustments. We do learn from mistakes, and try to fix things before it becomes more complex. If the relationship is Christ centered, meaning both will hold on to God. There will be understanding and patience and more love towards each other. You know that the foundation of your relationship is strong because you both respect each other specially the vow you made before God. There will be trials to come along the way, but as long as both partners will help each other out, I am sure that God will be helping them too. We put our faith and hope in God, the one who is unseen, not before men. Although we do need to trust our partners and appreciate them also. Happy Mylotting.
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@tomitomi (5441)
• Singapore
18 Mar 10
hi markmoney. i don't think there is a perfect love-relationship. it's the imperfections in us as humans that make us all perfect. like two jigsaw puzzles that fit very well. or when opposite poles attract as positive and negative. it's not that bad anyway because these little imperfections do make the world go round. they add fun, colour, excitement and adventures in our lives.
@tomitomi (5441)
• Singapore
18 Mar 10
sorry, posted twice. had problems with the connections just now. thought it didn't get through... thanks
@airakumar (1556)
• India
22 Mar 10
Somethings never change -- timeless love relationship are also there. Healthy relationships are the most basic element of human happiness. The perfection trap occurs when we try to find perfection outside of ourselves. I think not! Perfection is a nobel aim within the context of relationships. Perhaps one lesson in the Sufi story is that perfection is the ability to accept the imperfect. To make this insight a little more meaningful consider this thought on the power of acceptance. Acceptance is a lens through which everything is seen as perfectly harmonious. We all know of couples who can love and fight yet continue to create and grow a life together. Embrace uncertainty, accept what happens and learn and improve your world one step at a time...and your perfect partner will be waiting for you.
@dorannmwin (36692)
• United States
19 Mar 10
I don't think that any relationship that exists in this world is truly perfect. I know that for the most part my husband and I have a wonderful relationship, but I know that there are problems that we have between the two of us. The thing that makes our relationship work out very well is the fact that we are able to work our our problems between the two of us and it ends up that we don't got to bed angry with each other. I think that compromise and problem resolution are the two most important things in having a good relationship.
@aprilmmm (77)
• France
18 Mar 10
When we accept the imperfect love,then the love will be perfect. In the relationship, we should learn to accpect, understand and tolerate each other. If the hindrances come,we just need to make every effort to overcome it together, after solving it, the relationship will become more perfect.
• Spain
18 Mar 10
I honestly don't know why the word "perfection" exist in the dictionary. I believe that this such phenomenon only occurs when you are deeply in love, everything seems perfect about the other person... once you open your eyes disappointment kills it. So no, I don't believe perfection exist in any relationship. At least not human.
@besthope44 (12146)
• India
18 Mar 10
Hi..you wouldnt mind if i correct your statement.., Well a perfect love relationship is mixture of everything, happiness, sadness, fighting and above all holding them tight and faith as you said. Just staying happy always doesnot prove a perfect love. Despite all differences, we love our partner for what they are, that is a perfect love. I see many discussions in mylot,talking about break ups. Well, i always feel, true love will not find a break up. Partners dont need to be always happy, always fight, they dont need to have similar thoughts..besides all the true LOVE binds them for what they are for each other..I can proudly say..mine is perfect love!
@1anurag1 (3581)
• India
18 Mar 10
i think there is noting perfect in the world. and the relationship love does not have any definition. it can be simply said that when a person only like to live and do everything for the sake of his partner and other also this is love.so when this is the state i dont think there would be any misunderstanding. and even if it exists both of them have a big level of trust so that this misunderstanding is ignored by both.
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
There is no such thing as perfect markmoney. And that is reality. No matter how much hard we try, misunderstanding normally happens... Two different people living together... sharing their life with each other, and it is just normal that sometimes there is conflict on some beliefs and opinions... Respect is there but on some occassion, when we are not in the mood conflicts and "clashing" happens... This is the frustrating part. When both of you despite of love, are fighting and argruing...I hate it but sometimes it is inevitable... No matter how much I tried to hold my temper... especially when stress out... And unfortunately, we are living in a STRESSFUL environment! Anyways, I am sure if love is real and strong--- no hinderance can stand your way... No one and nothing can put a good relationship down! Praying for wisdom, guidance and streght will surely helps... I know, I am not really in the position to give advice with love coz mine is rocky and shaky at times... but I find peace when I talk to God! I am not a good person but I bleieve in God and his power to fix everything... God bless you markmoney! And may you find peace and true happiness!
@kafueenu (1073)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
I don't think there is, I am inlove, I mean me and my boyfriend are inlove with each other, but it is far from being perfect. And all the lovers surrounding me, they have problems and stuff. I really don't know if perfect love and relationship exists or would exist.
@Paleflare (141)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
There is no such thing my friend. Every Relationship has problems, But like you said every problems can be solved if your partner is willing. BUT if you and your partner always end up in a misunderstandings, quarrels etc.. Im afraid its over because, When you fight more than getting along with each other you'll end up splitting, Happened to me before, Its a bad sign. If there is a PERFECT relationship I would say "Someone who is similar to you in some ways and that can compliment your negatives with a positive. Good day!
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
if relationship has no trials and obstacles then the relationship wont grow. i wish there could be perfect love relationship but the truth is none. with my current relation i could say that it is a right relationship.
@zandi458 (27954)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 10
The course of true love is not a railway. It is never smooth. Every couple will inevitably have to overcome obstacles to and in their relationship before they can settle down together. It shows the true character of the person you love when she is in bad mood.
@Hazelrose (2186)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Hello markmoney,Our life here on earth is not perfect as well as any kinds of relationship.All of us will experienced all these things.What is important is we know how to handle what ever situation is.Always be patient and calm,and of course we need God's help to survive.Good luck.
@joan2010 (45)
• China
18 Mar 10
I don't think there is perfect love relationship ,i and my boyfried love each other very deeply ,but misunderstandings,quarrels and arguments can't avoid ,sometimes one quarrel can even improve our ralationgship ,if only such things not always hanppen ,it's not bad.Nobody is pefect ,accept the defect you will find life is more beautiful.
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
There isn t. i d freak out if i had that kind of relation bro. no arguments, not even a whispher of mistrust. dang! that s too quiet for me. i d start a fight myself if ever i did get into one of those. lol. but seriously, a love relationship should be composed of love, trust, faith, the good stuff as well as the bad ones like anger, arguments, staying up late at night by the doorway cuz you came home late and drunk, lol. that is what relationship should be made of.