How do you define a perfect girl?
By markmoney
@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
March 20, 2010 8:35am CST
We all know that nobody is perfect, but I believe it's all in the mind. We have different views what a perfect girl is. We may consider a girl as perfect but not to others. So for you, what is a perfect girl? For me, a perfect girl is beautiful inside and outside, meaning she has a good appearance as well as good personality. She is intelligent, polite and can easily talk to anyone. She knows how to treat anyone, regardless of status. She can easily adjust to any situation. She knows how to carry herself well. She knows how to take care of herself. She has dignity and she has a plan for the future. In love, she is sweet and she knows how to make her partner feels like he is the luckiest and happiest guy on earth. She is a faithful lover. She knows how to cook, to sing, to dance, to play musical instruments, she is just so talented. And the most important thing is she is a God-fearing person and she loves her family very much.
Well, I know it's hard to find a perfect girl but I just found mine, and all the qualities I have mentioned was possesses by her. How about you, how do you define a perfect girl? I would be glad to hear from you. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting! 
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26 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
20 Mar 10
Perfect girl, , according to me, she has to be good inside thats more enough than outside as in personality. If i love a girl for outside beauty, its sure that will go away as time passes. Its her kind heart and her character makes them perfect! When she has a good character, means she should know her limits, she can talk to anyone, but she should decide how safe it is to talk to anyone she meets as the world is too bad for a girl. She should fear to her consicious than god fearing. She is overall a mom like..So this is about my perfect woman, my love, my sweet wife. I may differ from your opinions. But girls are always perfect than what we define! just like my dear!
@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
20 Mar 10
Perfection and beauty are in the eye of the beholder. What is good to one person is not to another. We are all attracted to different qualities. Everybody is perfect in one way or another to someone.
All I can say is what is perfect to me. A person, male or female is perfect for me, as a relationship prospect or a true friend that is honest and truthful, kind at heart, loving, forgiving, not selfish or petty, is not a criminal or a theif or unkind to others. I've probably neglected to mention some, but that is what I can think of right now.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
hello mark,
I am a girl...and i can say,a perfect girl/woman for me is someone who knows how to handle every situation.
Someone who knows how and when to respect her man/partner.
Someone who knows when to get angry and open her mouth and defend herself and her love with fairness and yet still keep her self dignified on the eyes of her defiance.
The wholeness of her being with modesty,the way she acts and dress herself in tame and shyness with morale.
With intelligence in her every move incomparable to men's strength.
A woman that knows her boundary and knows her capacity.
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@lipstick2009 (1236)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
Wow you are right, the perfect one is just all in the mind.Beauty and personality is a combination that is quite hard to find, but it's still possible to find one.
The problem is when you don't get lucky to find one, what will you do?And worst when you have already fallen in love with this girl.
In that case, i would settle for half of what i have dreamed of, if that's all i can get.But personality must have more weight.They say we don't look for the perfect one, we just believe that what we found and what we have is the perfect one..and it's a very good start towards a good relationship.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
20 Mar 10
Hi mark, you have summed up a very attractive and desieable girl, however in my opinion you have left out one of the most important features in a perfect girl, and that is someone who will take care of you, as the vows state, in sickness and health, and rich and poor. Incidentally, my ticks all the boxes. Good luck, and I hope your new girl makes you as happy as my wife does me. Mike.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Mar 10
markmoney well now I am a woman so it would have to be how to define the perfect man, well lets see,he will not leave the toilet seat up, He will not be rude and overly noisy,he must be fairly good looking but much more important he must beautiful inside. a kind, considerate person who will be true and faithful to whom ever he falls in love with. He must be intelligent, cannot abide stupidity, and have a rich sense of humor. He must laugh a lot, and smile a lot but never make an fool
of himself,also he must not like to get stinking drunk. he must have self esteem and not look down on women as lower class people.YOu were seeking perfection and luckily you got it. I just demanded less and got more from the man I married.
Appearance is not really as important as what lies under the skin. a lot of the most handsome people are also horses rear ends and arrogant and very selfish. so I prefer someone thats not ugly but not overly handsome either.
of himself,also he must not like to get stinking drunk. he must have self esteem and not look down on women as lower class people.YOu were seeking perfection and luckily you got it. I just demanded less and got more from the man I married.
Appearance is not really as important as what lies under the skin. a lot of the most handsome people are also horses rear ends and arrogant and very selfish. so I prefer someone thats not ugly but not overly handsome either.1 person likes this
@timhinyy (1653)
• United States
21 Mar 10
well everyone has there different opinion of what is the perfect woman, however mine would be someone who is easy to talk to about anything.
Someone who has a great way of making you feel better even if they are not trying to and someone who has a great sense of humor.
A perfect woman does not have to be amazingly beautiful because it is what is on the inside that counts the most.
My perfect woman would be intelligent and someone that you can talk to for hours and not even realize that you have been talking that long and time just flies by, because you are enjoying just talking to them and that they make the day more fun just by your interaction with them.
Now being a good cook would be a nice bonus, but not a requirement as there are a lot of great women who are not great cooks.
I think the perfect woman is someone who just has a way of making you feel better about yourself by just being around them and that makes you feel special and that is a rare quality and hard to find.
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@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
20 Mar 10
i think if you going to define a perfect girl then you will not going to find a perfect definition for this. but i could try to define
for a girl there should be a beauty. she must be beautiful
she must be sexy.
she must be understanding.
she must be polite.
she must be honest.
she must be wise.
she must be hardworker
she could sing and dance.
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so this is going to be endless. and i am not able to define the perfection.
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@mackiejp (374)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
A perfect girl should have strength beyond expected that she can handle things even how difficult it may seem, even if her man is not around at all times to back her up but still can stand life with grace under pressure. She is the girl that can raise beautiful kids, who can fill the home with love and affection. And when she has all these then she can cook foods even if she is not good on it, she can sing rhymes to her kids even if she doesn't have a good voice, she can dance with her children around even if she did not have that skill, she can play musical instruments just to play it along with her children, she can be so talented beyond what you can imagined her to be, she can act, she can be a poet, she can be a storyteller, she can be a singer, she can be an artist, a believer, a healer, a comforter, a listener, A girl rolled into one that makes her the perfect one.
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@egonzales921 (172)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
for me? what maybe perfect for others may not be perfect for you. one can define what is a perfect girl for himself but it maybe not for you. i believe a perfect girl is a girl that will fit your personality not necessary mean that you have the same interest but as long as she can ride on your trips, she's good enough for you. like if a girl don't watch ufc but still she can patiently sit beside you and listen to your reactions while you are watching it's good right? she don't eat pasta but she can make a perfect carbonara for you. bottom line, your perfect girl is the girl that you yourself can only define.
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
As you said nobody is perfect but we have different definition of a perfect girl. Maybe you are saying is about ideal girl. I know you are really inlove right now, if your special someone really possess those attributes you have mentioned then you are very lucky. The only lacking is for you both to be official and get married. Just always remember even if your girl is perfect for you, don’t be blind or weak for her flaws. Sometimes they have attitude that is really bad for her, as there is no perfect people. Try as much as you can to change the bad manners she have if ever. Do be blinded by her beauty. You never know you are the one that can change her attitude.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
22 Mar 10
I would define the perfect girl or guy as NON EXISTANT. Really there is no perfect person. Jesus was the lsat perfect peson to walk the face of the earth. Everyone else before ane after are not perfect. While its still true that she is a very good person and may have everything you desire ina woman she is not perfect.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
23 Mar 10
You have not found he perfect girl, you’ve found the girl perfect for you! Humans cannot posses perfection and beauty is subjective, what is beautiful to me may not appear as such to you. True beauty is in the heart, I know it sounds corny but it is so true, a woman who has love in her heart has a lot more chance of receiving love in return no matter how she looks.
@airakumar (1553)
• India
22 Mar 10
Once both people realize that and work together to understand what the other really means... then the relationships can work. She is intelligent, polite and can easily talk to anyone. She knows how to treat anyone, regardless of status. She can easily adjust to any situation. She knows how to carry herself well. She knows how to take care of herself. She has dignity and she has a plan for the future.
