now i get it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@saphrina (31740)
South Africa
January 17, 2011 12:42am CST
Hello. Okay i get it now. We have people here who have no sense of humor, love that is a foreign word to them. Friendship, it has no meaning to them. Helping others, not going to happen in this life time. Advice, they don't know what it mean. Support, they think it's something to do with underwear. Disagreements, they love it and make sure that a discussion they don't like get deleted. Who are you? Are you human and sane? Creepy.
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@zandi458 (27954)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 11
I am fully sane and I treasure friendships. I think I have good record here unless someone feel or think I am an alien.
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. Alien or not, you have a great sense of humor. TATA.
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• United States
18 Jan 11
I want an alien!
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Jan 11
Sorry sweetie, they are sold out.
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@Sreekala (18788)
• India
17 Jan 11
Sorry I won't come under this category.
@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
hello sis
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@Sreekala (18788)
• India
17 Jan 11
Hello dear sister I was reading (smiling too) your post in my mail box about the 'expiry date in marriage', very funny
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. I know you don't. Thanx. TATA.
@voldrox (7205)
• India
17 Jan 11
This is an automated, computer generated post, and i only talk about underwears....
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
who wear one ? hello dear..long time
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hello my Voldi. This i have to see. sweetie, you and that underwear.
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@voldrox (7205)
• India
18 Jan 11
Hello everyone. How is my Saphy doing ? I have figured out, it's not easy to make mel play with emoticons. She would, if i would talk about underwears??
@thesids (22453)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Jan 11
OMG!!! What? Who? I am definitely not none of them Hope this comforts you
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. Don't know yet, but i will see what happens with this discussion. Thanx. TATA.
@thesids (22453)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Jan 11
Oh a horrible typo on at end I am definitely not none of them should have been - I am definitely not one of them
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
You should see my spelling sometimes, sweetie.
@owlwings (38271)
• Cambridge, England
17 Jan 11
I think I am human, therefore I am sane. Oh, come on! That can't be right ... let me look it up ... Oooo! A shiny thing that says I got a reward of 17 cents! [dances round the room] ... 17 cents? What's that in real money? 10p? Nobody in their right mind would rejoice at finding 10p! I think I am insane, therefore I must be human! Seriously, though. I know who and what I love: people in general (and some in particular) are all worthy of love. It is what they sometimes do which is less than loveable. Often one has to bear in mind that these less-than-perfect things are not done out of malice but rather out of ignorance. They need help, advice and support and often get it from me. There are some, however, who don't like being helped - they see it as criticism - and they regard my advice as the rantings of an interfering busybody. They clearly don't want my support (or anyone's), so I leave them to it ... and to the decision of the Administrator.
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. You think? I have never seen anyone rejoicing finding 10p. Anyway, most seem to be thinking with the big toe and not the brain God so graciously bestowed upon them. A shame actually. I know you always give good advice, but some think they know better. I believe if you don't really need help or advice, DON'T ask for it. Thanx. TATA.
@owlwings (38271)
• Cambridge, England
17 Jan 11
Sum ergo cogito. Most people think they know what they want but don't know what they need.
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Very true sweetie.
@luanakent (795)
• Brazil
18 Jan 11
Everyone thinks is healthy( mentally). It is true that sometimes we are not a good time but we are generally good-humored. If you see someone who is always in a bad mood, you can believe that the person must have some unresolved problem. But beware, you dont c onfuse good humor with good character. i can( personally) support anyone bad-tempered at times.. but living with someone like this.. i could not. My ex-husband is like this.... and you see why he is " EX"??? lolol
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. I know some don't get the humor part, but then you move on, don't disagree to that you cannot understand. To me that is unhealthy. I see why that one is your "EX". Thanx. TATA.
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• Brazil
27 Jan 11
i can handle anything but foolish man and bad-tempered... ohhhhhhh no!!
• United States
18 Jan 11
LOL I can't believe it took you 6000+ to see this. I am not one of these people and I wish we could vote them out of here.
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. Sorry, i'm a bit slow. It would be great if we can vote them out of here. Thanx. TATA.
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@Memnon (2173)
17 Jan 11
The real answer for me is that many are scared to communicate. Many of us feign that we do, but we don't. I generally say what I mean, and sometimes couch what I say in what I consider to be diplomatic language. I am also very lucky at work in that I have a colleague who reads from the same script. That may sound corny, but we have, over time, worked several years together. We can even complete each others sentances. I'd take a bullet or three for her. Outside of that, some are unable to read a slightly worded remark, and you need to be brash with them. Others are overly abrasive to me when all I needed was a gentle reminder: so they cannot read people. My partner tells me that I am good at reading people from their mannerisms and a few words. I have recentlty left the US site SodaHead. There were many people who had great opinions posted on site, but there was so much political hatred on the site that the atmosphere was toxic. I could site historic events to justify my discussion and was dismissed as naive or left wing (I vote conservative UK). I don't need their contact, and if they want to propel the US into some sort of new colonialism I'd rather that they did not take us with them.
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. Seems they are scared, but why? It's good to have someone at work who gets it. Doesn't sound corny at all. Almost sound like mylor lately, that site. This have to stop if we still want this site to be a great one. Thanx. TATA.
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• Bangladesh
17 Jan 11
I believe, I'm having a normal healthy mind, but not extremely reasonable all the time. I would like to be more human than sane because I know I can't show good judgment all the time. I have faults,sometimes I'm very sensible, sometimes I'm so rude. It depends on how I'm being treating by others, surrounding environments and so on. I love to exercise humanity, not sanity. Because I can never be all good but I can be good most of the time and this is known as humanity to me. When I know I can't be as neutral as water so why I'll practice it! It's like cheating with myself to me. Rather I try to work on my devil parts so that I can improve me from good to better, better to best but never perfect. Because I want to stay as human not want to be a fairy. I try to appreciate good works(sometimes I fight with my mind for that) but I do. Human do mistakes but they have courage to criticize and correct themselves but they are not perfect because they are human. And I'm human.
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. You sure sound human to me. It all depends on how we are treated, that determine our mood. I think my devils got the better of me, though. Seems i'm uncontrollable lately. Humans can never be perfect sweetie. That i have learned a long time ago. Thanx. TATA.
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17 Jan 11
Thats fab and for those who dont actually read the faqs on mylot and just abuse the site for trying to earn It is sad for the site but most here are the opposite from that.
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. 2 things. Either they cannot read or they cannot understand it. Whichever we don't want them here. Thanx. TATA.
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
hello saphy, I am sure this is not "me" I love humor (not rumor hehehe) And i am always in love (my discussion is all about) Friendship ..i've got a lot (just meet an online friend in person last Friday Jan.14,2011 ...i don't have sleep that time ,i just got out from work which is a graveyard shift 12 midnight to 9am...i welcome this online friend in our airport all the way from INDIA ) Support...not an underwear coz i don't wear one (hahaha..just kidding,i wonder how does it feels not wearing undies aha ) Smile dear saphy
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. I know, you have great discussions about that one. Glad to hear you have met a great friend from india. It's not Vannie is it? Underwear, uumm we won't go there will we?? Thanx. TATA.
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
oh dear not Vannie, (Vannie's from India?..never knew this..got to check)
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Well, if she come for a visit make sure to have load of pickels. She is from india.
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@ybong007 (6659)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
You shouldn't refer to them as "people" maybe bots or things, I don't know but it's certainly not human.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. Well i ha a list of names to choose from, but i had to bite down hard and remember my manners on this one. Thanx. TATA.
@ybong007 (6659)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
Dont' be too hard on yourself. If you're going to bite, then don't bite your manners but bite those who deserve it. Don't worry, you have all our support.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
20 Jan 11
I might start biting then sweetie. Just imagine. Thanx.
@vandana7 (57626)
• India
17 Jan 11
Only blonds take this long to figure that one out!!!! But at least, you got it... must be the effect of my company.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Must be then, Vannie.
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@sid556 (31018)
• United States
17 Jan 11
Are we picking on the Blonds again? I think this is going to have to be our next Civil Rights protest. No more using the B-word,Vandana! It is not politically correct(or it won't be soon)and it is offensive. We are yellow-haired people and no more jokes can be told publicly or to our faces or behind our backs.
@vandana7 (57626)
• India
17 Jan 11
sid sweetie I knew you wouldn't get it! If you read it again, you will realize I was appreciating the impreovement in Saphy's thinking because of me. @Lamby - That is general knowledge.
@dawnald (84157)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
Why would I want to be sane?
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
24 Jan 11
They say it's funky being sane, Dawny.
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@dawnald (84157)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
I wouldn't know...
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
25 Jan 11
Me neither.
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
Hello saphrina, Don't know what to say but i am saying. I am confused but i understand. Well, i am human but sometimes felt insane. But really, a wishful thinking, perhaps this guy is in bitter state and cant find a way to burst it out other than doing things like that in here. But still happy myLotting!
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
21 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. He/she should learn how to control themselves then. We don't want them here. Better for them to go and make it snappy at that. Glad to hear you are human and sane once in a while. Thanx. TATA.
• India
26 Jan 11
Are you guys talking about me? It's sounds so familiar.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
1 Feb 11
@Strovek (870)
• Malaysia
18 Jan 11
Maybe their humor is more subtle. Humor is not universal A joke in one place be offensive in another place. Rarely do we see encounter one with completely no sense of humor but there might be those with very sick sense of humor. Good point though. Tata.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. I know some can take it the wrong way. When that happens you just move along or have the guts to ask at least. They should learn to not just assume things and get all huffy about it. That is extremely irritating. Thanx. TATA.
@Strovek (870)
• Malaysia
18 Jan 11
Totally agree. It is irritating when you try to be nice and the other person gets offended and starts scolding you. If more people are understanding and have a more give and take attitude, the world will be a nicer place. Humor really helps to make things livelier (Unless of course you come face to face with someone who has no sense of humor)
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Jan 11
We can always scold back sweetie. I have my own dictionary, you know. Now if i ever come face to face with a humorless person, i'll probably go INSANE.
@koikei (207)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
greetings! i'm sorry but still don't get it... LOL! all i know is that galileo is one of the best contrarians who has ever lived :)
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. Welcome to mylot. Well at least i made you laugh. I think i am most probably better than Galileo, though. TATA.
@koikei (207)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
thanks saphrina! you are definitely better than galileo. he never made me laugh! :)
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Pleasure sweetie and thank you.
@krajibg (11942)
• Guwahati, India
17 Jan 11
Hello saph, Know what? All the things you described are necessary for survival in mylotland. Never dare to put up a post that is sure to be controversial. Either you will fall in the public(?) wrath or the post would get deleted. I have learnt some tricks though.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. Just wish the idiots will see it that way. I dare these days. Would like to hear those tricks though. Thanx. TATA.
@krajibg (11942)
• Guwahati, India
17 Jan 11
Sure. I would pass it to you later....
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Thanx sweetie.
@SIMPLYD (75759)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
In other words they are Killjoys. LOL I am sure i am not one of them though. LOL
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
17 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. Well, i can think of harsher words, but i do have to mind my manners to day. Glad you ain't one of them. Thanx. TATA.
@GardenGerty (92203)
• Marion, Kansas
18 Jan 11
Well, Saphy, I may be a little boring, but I do not believe I am a kill joy. I do not necessarily believe I am sane, or I would not have done some of the things I have.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
18 Jan 11
I don't think you are a little boring sweetie. I've seen some of your responses. Hell, i'm not even sane anymore.
@kirtricks (652)
• India
19 Jan 11
yeah its never gonna me coz i like jokes and i like friends and i do often help my friends with their homeworks etc
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
19 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. Welcome to mylot. Glad to hear you are not like that. Good for you for liking jokes and helping others. Thanx. TATA.
• India
23 Jan 11
k thanks..