HOW TO LIVE IN AMERICA, when you have no one there.

@Renhard (3471)
Jamaica
June 5, 2011 9:40am CST
Ok let I say this first, I do have an American Visa, but I am a citizen of another country. My dream place to live is America. Well I really don't have any one at America, and those that I do have there are so far of a relative, so it might take forever for that person to file for me. What can I actually do to reach there? I really want to live there, but based on what I hear people are saying, it sounds impossible for me to actually go and live there. Any suggestion? If you have read any of my previous discussion you would have notice that one of my goals is to own a lamborghini. Well in my country lamborghinis are not allowed. Mainly because it is too fast for these bad roads and could pose as simply dangerous to the society. And also because it is so expensive, everybody will go out of their way to actually try to steel it. So is there anyway I could reach America and actually live there. I am actually open to any suggestion you may have?
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@jwfarrimond (4473)
6 Jun 11
1/ Marry an American citizen. Even then it'd take upwards of a year for all the paperwork to be gone through. 2/ Invest $1 million in a US business. 3/ Win the green card lottery.
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6 Jun 11
I forgot: 4/ Find an American employer who is willing to offer you a job. That will automatically get you residence and work permit. You say that your course is medical? So finish your studies in your own country, then when you have graduated, try and get a job with a medical care provider in the US. I have no idea how you might go about doing that though.
15 Jun 11
Sorry to take so long to respond your question. The US gov. uses that as a way of attracting people who are able to make an investment in the US economy by creating employment for Americans. By "invest" I did not mean buy shares in American companies but to actually start and run a viable business. If you go to the US government website, you should be able to find full details of this. I actually can't remember if the requirement is for 1/2 a million or 1 million dollars but quite a lot of cash anyway. Incidentally, marrying your Canadian girl will give you a right to reside and work in Canada but not in the United States.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
6 Jun 11
I was looking for answers like these, and I was thinking about the first one as well, because so far it seem as if it takes the least amount of time. Well i have a Canadian girl now actually she has dual citizenship, both canada and my country. But I dont want to depend on her so much because anything can go down in the relationship and the relationship will have to cancel. Could you tell me more about the second option. What is so special if you actually invest that amount of money into an American business, how will that actually help me to get permanent residency?
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
5 Jun 11
I have seen so many people come to the United States to live. First of all they do go through alot of heartaches when they have no family. Second being in America doesn't mean luxury. Even a person with a nice job rarely will have an expensive car to drive. Rent is expensive, jobs are scarce, and living in this country is hard. I was born here but I think even the poorest person in this country doesn't have it as bad as in other countries.
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
5 Jun 11
I see you things slightly as me. When you look at my country the poor you will see suffering and you cant do a thing about it. Try to help them and sometimes they will try to stab you in the back because they wont make an opportunity miss them. I have compared my country to yours and seriously even through all your hardships, it is still paradise to me. I guess if I actually get the chance to live there, yes it will be hard for me to settle down but as soon as I can complete my education or so, I will be up back in the society. The hardest problem to face is when you have just arrive. And I have people can take care of me up there. They are family friends or aunt or uncle etc. But people from experience tell me that it will take long time for the application to go through like 7 to 10 years are so, and to me that is just too long.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
6 Jun 11
I think it is very possible for you to come here to live. I would love to have one of those cars too but we still cannot drive them fast over here either.
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
6 Jun 11
But atleast you get to drive them. For us though, as long as the police see a car with such a powerful engine, they will take it away. And the only cars like that can move from one place to another through my country is if you carry them on a trailer.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
5 Jun 11
If I were you, I would wait awhile. Our economy is in tatters and our jobless rate is not the 9.1% the government says but around 20% if you take into account the millions who have given up looking for work and those that have 2-3 part time jobs instead of one full time job in order to must exist, never mind thrive. Food prices are rising and everything is getting more expensive while peoples' paychecks remain the same or are reduced. 10% of the nation is on food stamps and even more are on some sort of government dole, unemployment or being helped by their families. Things are grim here and getting worse every day. Why is a car so important, because it says you've been successful? Stay home for now, save your money for awhile and concentrate on furthering your education or helping improve your country. Do those things and wait till things in America improve. You may find that you are successful without a fancy car--you'll have better rewards, like an improved country of your own or some people who can say you helped them make their own lives better. You're so young, you won't listen. But I hope someday you'll remember that someone told you that material things don't make you successful or happy.
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
5 Jun 11
One thing you do not get though. You say your country is going through hard times. But you will see how amazing things are when you compare it to my country. America is much better than my country. When you talk unemployment, then you are talking about my country. Over the past 2 years over 50 thousand people had to give up there job because the government close them down. My country is much harder than yours. What i find so hard to believe is that, we work so hard, i believe even harder than people in your country but still get less pay, we are really under paid. And then when it comes to buying things that you might need, they are really expensive. I have thought about many things before coming to the conclusion of wanting to live in america. Look at surgeons in your country how much do they get pay, above $100,000 a year. While in my country a surgeon would be so lucky if he made $50,000. Every day we have to go on strike because the government is underpaying us. SO when you see me think of america as "life" or paradise, is because when you compare it to my country it really is. I live in Jamaica, and alot of people might say this is actually the paradise, because of beaches etc, you soon find that no one has time to even use these beaches because they have to be working much harder and still getting too little pay. I really need to leave this country. I want to become a surgeon, and i honestly dont want to pursue that career in my country. If i did it in my country it would be a bit of waste. Yes I would be helping people but the fact that I would have to put so many time in it, hardly time for family and still be getting a low pay, is just a complete waste of time.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
5 Jun 11
I understand now what you are saying. It's a shame that your government is losing young people like you that could really improve it. Greed is such a terrible thing and causes such misery. I hope you get to come here. You could join the National Guard and get your college paid for or enroll in a government program that would pay for it in exchange for a few years' work after you graduate. That way you would not have to pay for your education (which costs a LOT!!) and you can do a service to others at the same time. If you already have a visa, apply for residency. Maybe you could get your church to help if you need a sponsor and they will know someone over here. I don't even know if people need sponsors anymore. I wish you good luck!
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
5 Jun 11
By the way, I think it's quicker and easier to get a student visa than it is a regular "green card" that is used to get a job. Look into the National Guard and such things, too.
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5 Jun 11
It's not only America anycountry trying to get there especially if you have no-one from there is difficult. Try getting a permit to work. Although you have to remember you are leaving everything behind which can affect you psychologically. Unless you are pretty certain you want to go there then go. Make sure you know why your are going anywhere and have a clear plan.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Jun 11
hni renhard is there an American embassy anywhere near you? They could answer a lot of your questions about student visas , work visas and even coming here and how to apply for citizenship too.Like Jamie says do be clear about what you want before ever starting out as things here are worse than they have ever been in my long lifetime truly. I know mayb e we are still in big trouble here. small stores have closed down allover as they went broke when nobodys buying as most are out of work,no work no money for shopping.I know from your previous posts you really want to be a doctor but here that education really really costs unless you can get some great scholarships. I think with your youth and your real motivation you just might get those scholarships too as you sound super intelligent too. my b est wishes to you Good luck God bless hugs from hatley.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
5 Jun 11
I like that. But I wonder how long everything would take. Do you have any idea about that?
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@iklananda (1202)
5 Jun 11
Hey you can try with online earning as your initial income, not much but american viewer is much more and it reward more compare to other country for several site. You must be prepare of the income that is the important thing. If you already earn some than you are quite secure. Even you are not rich right. If you want to get rich that different part. I hope i could go to america too
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
5 Jun 11
What is the first part of your response directed on. Right now I am not talking about money. I just want to migrate to America. That is all I am asking.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
16 Jun 11
I am Canadian and before Obama became president and the economy went downhill, I was considering moving there, at least to retire. But I found like you it is impossible. When my husband and I went down there for a trip I found that you had to have relatives, of had to do a job that no American would do. I went through the phone book at the motel to see if there were any relatives or distance cousins to my husband. So it is impossible unless you have something to offer. Ob and Canada is not on the green card list either, so for us it is worse. Now we are waiting for the Americans to come up here.
19 Jun 11
I'm British and we are not on the green card list either. You'd think that they would give preference to countries that are their closest allies and who share a common language and culture, well, more or less share a common language and culture. And while I'd not mind living there in general, I would not like to have to rely on the American profit driven health care system for my medical needs. Also I think that our climate is much better, it never gets too hot or too cold and we don't get tornados or hurricanes on a regular basis. And if we get hail, it's the size of gravel and not cannonballs!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
19 Jun 11
I would not like to live in America if Obama gets his Obamacare in place. I do not like the idea of socialized medicine. I believe there should be a choice, and people should not be forced to buy healthcare. Also there are some medicines that work very well, but the government would refuse to pay for them because they are expensive, so they would only approve less effective medicines. You see, if you are fairly healthy, you do not mind socialized medicine. I am fairly healthy, but if you have a chronic illness, or something like that, you want to get better sooner then taking a less effective cure for a longer period of time. Mind you, if I were to move just south like to Minnesota, the houses would be the same and the climate almost like ours so would be little differnece. But right now, with their gas prices higher it would not be feasible.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Jun 11
renhard the streets in my country the U SA are not paved with gold and right now in most states the economy is in the toilet. job rates are the worst in ou r history and for each job here hundreds lined up for that one job. we may be the worlds leading manufacturer but now times are really hard. my son was out of work for two years and now has only a parttime job he is in a gov.sponsored apt with three other men all having work problems. no one around here is driving a Lamborghini most have older cars.anyone working is stuck in their job whether they like it or not as to try to change jobs now is pure folly.I would wait awhile tp see if my dear USA is going to recover and have more jobs and see the worst prices ever on everything go down some. most middleclass people are barely making it. so now is not a good time to come here with the dreams of wealth you have unless you can get sponsored by some company with promise of an internship something like that.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
18 Jun 11
Well i wasn't really planning to come now because as you might see I am still in school. But I like to prepare for everything. i like to have my life sorted out. So if your economy decided to increase in the future atleast I would have still have a mind set on how to approach certain things. As for if the economy ever diced to decrease more, it still wouldnt hurt to have an idea on how to approach things just incase things might change so for now. I just want to have an idea on how really to approach living over there. That is my main objective now. To find ways and means on how to live over there so if i might have to make a quick decision in the future I will know what to do.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
For me if you would go there nothing in rich it is okay but not it is more okay.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
6 Jun 11
I dont quite get that at all.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hi, actually i would not love to live in America alone because i know that its really hard to live alone,especially if when there's no one there.i am more rather wanted to live here in my country together with my love ones.