I feel my enjoying days are finished

Hello Surekha, Your friends say it right you look good with smiling face don't be sad. Why you feel sad?.It happens with everyone when problem comes people become sad but then when we overcome problems we get back to our nature of smiling & laughing hope soon you will fight back to the sadness and become happy soon and so as we listen to you funny incidents.

Why are you talking like that my friend? what happen?...I would recommend you keep on talking and having fun remember there is more to life than work!

hello sis, Long time..and yes, where is my laughing sister? What happened dear, why you are saying that enjoying days are to end?

Good to know that your laptop can last for 5 years. I shall expect my 11 months old laptop can also be the same too. About repairing a 5 years old laptop, I do not think it is wise to do so. It is better to spend a bit more to purchase a totally new laptop. About the desktop, I do have a new. But most of the times, it was fully occupied by my children and it was very hard for me to use it. May be, I shall get another one with a 20 inches monitor because at my age, I need a larger screen to view the contents easily. ha! ha! We shall have both to meet our needs.

Oyyyyyyyyeee talkative women why you are feeling this and your friends are saying true you are looking good when your are laughing dont feel sad. What happened why you think this.

Hello friend. Though we have not exchanged very few comments in each others discussions I know you have always been very lively and active here! And I also notice that you have a lot of friends & admirers. You have been here fr a longer time than I have. I am just about three months or a little more older at myLot. I feel sorry to note that you are sad because you feel you may not be with friends here as much as you would want? Take heart and keep smiling. Good friends will not be easily forgotten by your best friends here. It seems to be happening to me too. With too many things to do and change in place of work, I feel I will find less & less time myself too. We should keep our attachment with good old habits and activities even if of a lesser intensity. I am sure you will keep people happy with your lively presence here.

Thus life. Sometimes we laugh, sometimes we cry. There are times when we are excited, sometimes we are lazy.

Even though we all work hard, we need to rest now and then... that's when you can sneak onto mylot and keep us entertained, my friend! Hopefully, you will be able to find a few minutes each day to stop in and say, "hi"! I know I do not have the time that I used to spend here. But I manage to at least come in most days. However, I am very busy and sometimes I may miss a day. But I try to check it out at least once a day or so....

I think that all people look a whole lot better when they are happy and smiling than when they are depressed. You see, I've spent the majority of this year being depressed because of all kinds of things that have been going on in my life this year. With that said, I know that there is a happy ending waiting for me somewhere, it is just a matter of finding that happy ending and then I feel like I will be able to enjoy my life again.

Hello Surekha, In these days you are talking in different tone. In you last post you said that I don't like to join mylot. And now you wrote here that you forget laughing. What happen with you so you are talking in such a serious mood. I know you are working lady and you have also have duty to see your family as well. But you can manage these all, it is my faith in you. Good luck have a loud laugh.

Hi sis! Oh, it's not the end of the world. So don't shed your laugh and smile away from your face. Mylot will lost one of the member who love to laugh if you not enjoy your day. Even if this is not a funny discussion but just looking at your smile face of your picture will make me smile with you. What happen to your laugh class? The teacher who once want to start a laughing class suddenly have no mood to smile??? That is weird sis.(^^) Get back your smile and do not lose your laugh. We need that to overcome the stressful day of ours.(^^) So say CHEESE!!!!!...I am sure you are smiling when you say that word~ CHEESE!!!!!(^^)

Hopefully, being on myLot is not the only thing which gives you joy. Long ago, I found an unusual way to keep my sad feelings away - I started a journal which I called "My Gratitude Journal". Each night when ready for bed, I wrote at least three things or incidents from that day into the journal - things which brought pleasure (no matter how small). Even the receipt of a note from a long lost friend, a call from someone who cares about me, or in the event of these not happening, I dwelt on other things I was (am) grateful for, as in: The fact that I have two healthy young men (at the time, 23 and 19 years old); the fact that my then 2 y/o grandson was alive and healthy, etc. (I had just lost my middle son (almost 21) in a car accident and felt that I didn't want to live, either. I was 43 y/o at that time, now I am 70. I trained my mind to think only positive thoughts and shoved even the slightest negative thought from my mind quickly. This method worked wonders in making me think of the good things which surrounded me and boosted my will to live. Unfortunately, life is not all fun and games as some people seem to think it should be. If it were not for the bad or unhappy things which happen to all of us, we would not be able to appreciate the good and happy things which also happen. I have found that some people tend to dwell on the bad and unhappy which prevents them from even seeing the good and happy all around them! Trust that God will bring you through all the rough times and bring much joy into your life all along. May you be blessed with a return to normal - dwell on the positive, push the negative away and help Him!

Sorry to hear that you are not finding things to laugh about,and be happy!I suggest that you concentrate on little things that make you smile,and take it from there!Start small, and look for enjoyment in everything around you,that should help you to get back your smiling self!

Maybe you don't enjoy your job? Even though most of the responders say that it's always a bit sad to have to leave your online friends due to real-life responsibilities, it's unusual to be so sad that you forget to smile or laugh. I think this is a sign that you don't like your job. Maybe you should start looking for another one? Life is too short to work at a job that makes you so depressed that your friends and family notice you don't smile anymore!

Well, you have to think of what is more important and what is a priority to you, that's part of growing up.

Well, sometimes we get busy and cannot always do the things that we enjoy. It would be wonderful is we could enjoy everyday as we wish. But don't feel bad, things always change. So, if you're busy for now, so be it. There will be a time when you are not so busy. It is nice to smile and laugh, but I guess we cannot do that all the time. I totally get the whole stress thing.

If you really want you must be able to find 20 min a day to relax and have fun at mylot. Lot's of luck with your busy life, hope you still have fun without being on mylot.

Well,life is balance..there are times to be sad,to be happy,to be in pain.Life is loaded of many thing..thinking is more busy and also working..hope life enjoy ,and have fun.

surekharathi how depressing do you sound. I don't know your age but why on earth would you say your days of enjoyment are over...As long as you are alive there is room for improvement. Life is not all laughs but I can't believe you have nothing to laugh at anymore...If you are that depressed because only a depressed person would feel like that, (my opinion and I am not a dr.) You need to surround yourself with people who are more up beat and have a desire to live life....If you think that your life of happiness is over you are truly mistaken..C'mon girl pick yourself up and get with you..There is a lot of life,and laughs out there awaiting you...GO GET THEM!!!!!!!!

When you laugh, you release chemicals in your body that make you happy. To be happy, we must think about things that make us happy. Kids running, laughing and playing. Watching funny movies on the television or old family home videos. Birds chirping in the morning sun, eating fresh fruit off the trees. When we think of sad things, we are sad. We really need to make an effort to think about all the good things in our lives, so we can be happy. Talking and laughing are great ways to feel good about ourselves and others.