Gittsandbags is hospitalized.....

@bjc66bjc (6745)
United States
January 16, 2012 6:30pm CST
Hi everyone, and this message is only for those who cares,,,but I just want to let friends her at mylot know that Gifts was taken to the hospital this morning and admitted... The chit with her daughters boyfriend finally broke her down,,,when I left her about an hour ago she was doing ok,,,she just really needs a break from the bs.... I will be back tomorrow with another update.... She request that her friends here at mylot keep her in thier thoughts and please pray for her... Have a good evening!!!!!!
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@carmelanirel (21108)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Oh no, bj, tell gifts I am praying for her and thank you for letting us know and keeping us updated..Here are some hugs you can give her for me,
@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Hi carmelanirel, you are so welcome ...I will definately relay your wishes to her and keep all updated... Now about those hugs...I will give her most of them but, I am letting you know that I am keeping one for myself....LOL.... I just reached 500 yesterday I know that I am able to copy and paste but how do I get those little hugs and things I see on mylot...or is it a secret???? Have a good night....
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@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Oh OK carmelanirel, thanks so very much for the 411 and the hugs... I truly appreciate it...
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@GardenGerty (93713)
• Marion, Kansas
17 Jan 12
Hugs all around for you guys. I am glad you got the word about the code.
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@sid556 (31018)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Hi Bjc, Tell Gifts that my thoughts are with her and give her {{{HUGS}}}}. She did the right thing by not allowing KK's boyfriend to stay with them but Gifts is the type of person that will feel bad and KK plays on that. She is trying to do the tough love and she isn't so tough yet. Still...she is doing the right thing. Hope she hangs in there as hard as it is. The Gifts I knew even a few months ago would have let that guy in claiming it was cold outside and she didn't want her daughter to leave with him etc.she's come a long way. She stood strong this time. Now I only hope we were all right with our advice. Please keep us posted and do tell us what happened but make sure that Gifts is ok with you telling us. ok?
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@wysecom (346)
• South Africa
19 Jan 12
The problem with most of you is that you rush into giving advice without getting the full gists from the advice-seeker. Again, many of you do not have the right mental capacity to give advice in the first place. I can assure you that GIFTS would be back and better.
@suspenseful (40326)
• Canada
17 Jan 12
I will pray for her. I read about the trouble she had with her daughter's boyfriend. That is too bad because of her daughter. Thank you for letting us know what is going on. And am looking forward for the update.
@velvet53 (15231)
• Palisade, Colorado
17 Jan 12
Thank you so much for sharing this. I do hope she is doing well. I know she was going through a lot with everyone. Please let her know that my prayers are woth her.
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@WakeUpKitty (8709)
• Netherlands
17 Jan 12
OMG I really hope she will have some time for herself and that terrible heartless bf of her daughter will leave! I also hope this will open her daughters eyes. She is in my thoughts, blessings for her.
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• United States
17 Jan 12
Well i am hoping that the daughters silly boyfriend really did move to Boston she needs to let him go and go find someone else to be with. Her daughter would be better off with out him and im sure the mom would be alot better without him in her daughters life too. I hope Adrian takes good care of her and hope she is doing well and can come home soon. I will miss her on mylot and will wait for her return and to respond to her discussions when she is back. Hope she is doing better all ready.
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@ckciasigurl (1570)
• Vienna, Austria
17 Jan 12
hi bj! thank you for informing us! gifts is so nice to me i hope she is okay right now i will pray for her get well soon gifts!
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@TrvlArrngr (4058)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Praying for her! It's amazing what stress can do to you!
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@AmbiePam (46971)
• United States
17 Jan 12
I wish her daughter thought more about her mother than herself. The daughter's boyfriend is not only poison to her daughter, but to giftsandbags. If someone was having that affect on my mother you can be sure I'd get rid of him.
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@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Sorry to here about Gifts! Gifts has had it rough lately! I hope she is feeling better and is able to get out of the hospital soon! Thanks for the update!
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@GardenGerty (93713)
• Marion, Kansas
17 Jan 12
thanks for being a good friend to her. I am not really up to date on everything since I started working. Did KK quit school and move back?
@GardenGerty (93713)
• Marion, Kansas
17 Jan 12
Thanks, stowyk
@sid556 (31018)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Yes and she was staying with the loser boyfriend who got kicked out because he was staying in a condemed building...not paying rent or anything. She let KK in but refused to let the boyfriend stay...we all encouraged her to do that and Adrian put his foot down too. Last discussion that I read, the boyfriend had taken up post outside KK's window and kept them up all night and then called gifts and said rude things because she was refusing to let him stay...if I followed the story correctly. last I knew, KK was on her side and was not upset with her for this. Not really sure what is going on but until I hear otherwise..don't believe it is KK that is to blame for her stress this time around.
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@GardenGerty (93713)
• Marion, Kansas
17 Jan 12
I had caught one of the discussions where KK understood. I sure hope that girl wises up and gets rid of the abusive, manipulative loser. Gifts has been working so hard. I do appreciate you guys helping me get up to speed. My scheduled weekends I work two twelve hour shifts and that does not leave much time for anything else.
@celticeagle (115499)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Jan 12
OMg! Thanks for letting us know.
@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
17 Jan 12
you are so welcome celticeagle...it was the least I could do... I will be posting her progress tomorrow....
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@celticeagle (115499)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Jan 12
I just feel badly that she has to put up with all this. It is tough. I know! I've been through it.
@wysecom (346)
• South Africa
19 Jan 12
Matters of the heart are difficult to handle except the girl gets the best counsel and yields to superior advice. As a myLotter, I wish her the best and soonest recovery. Print all these responses of well wishers and give them to Gifts. Other mothers and single parents, take note.
@sid556 (31018)
• United States
19 Jan 12
Hi Wysecom, this is in response to the response you left under mine...Gifts asked for advice and we all gave her advice based on what we know and believe to be true.
@airkulet (2705)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
I hope that she will be fine and will recover soon
@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
17 Jan 12
thanks aiekulet for your concerns and I will let her know that you responded to the post and I will post her progress tomorrow to let every one know whats going....
@ShepherdSpy (8563)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
17 Jan 12
I'm sorry to hear the issues with Her family She'd been discussing here has resulted in her getting hospitalized..I hope the family can straighten themselves out and help her in her recovery. My best wishes to her at this time!
@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Hi ShepherdSpy, thanks much for your concern...I will definately let her know of your concerns and best wishes. Just stay check back tomorrow when I will post her progress...
@rosegardens (3044)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Thank you for the information. I am praying for her and hope that she is ok. Please let her know Rosegardens is praying for her. Thank you bj! That is very kind of you to let us all know what is happening with her.
@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
17 Jan 12
Oh no problem rosegarden, I know that this mylot is her life other than her daughter and Adrian...so I thought it was the least I could do was to let her friends know what was going on... I will give her your message... Keep her in your prayers....tks
• United States
23 Jan 12
oh wow..i hope she feels better soon. constant stress can be hard on anyone.
@marguicha (84078)
• Chile
21 Jan 12
Thanks for telling us, bjc. I havenĀ“t been much here these last days so I did not know something was happening to Gifts. Send her all my love!!! She is always in my thoughts!
@Thoroughrob (11771)
• United States
21 Jan 12
I hope she gets well soon! She just may have to wash her hands of all the things she is not able to do anything about with her daughter. She has tried and tried and it seems her daughter does not want to listen. It is sad, but sometimes the only thing you can do is step back, or you will totally lose your sanity.
@carolscash (9502)
• United States
18 Jan 12
So sorry to hear this and I will certainly be keeping her in my prayers. I hope it is not long before she is home and doing good. I wonder why she broke down so bad. I know the boyfriend had cussed her out and all, but she needs to learn to just let it go and realize that he is not worth worrying about.