When does a job stop becoming just a paycheck?

job - just a paycheck? - treating your job as just a paycheck
@bounce58 (17387)
Canada
February 13, 2012 2:36pm CST
I work with people on the floor who live from paycheck to paycheck. Although I may have been just like that in the past, I’ve always strived hard to get ahead. Coming from somebody who always worry a lot, I know how stressful it can get. Now I’m currently in a job where it isn’t just a paycheck. There’s a goal that I need to fulfill, or else life would be a lot more miserable for me. Although I like the added responsibility, I grow quite envious to people who just clock in and out of work. I bet they enjoy their family lives more! How about you? Is your job just a paycheck? Do you enjoy your work, and look forward to it every day? How do you know that your job isn’t just a paycheck anymore?
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
13 Feb 12
I think my job is just a paycheck. For me, any job would be just a paycheck. There's nothing I really want to do with my life. There's nothing I can see myself loving to do. So I guess that makes it just a paycheck. It's not my passion or anything like that. I think when a job becomes more than a paycheck, it has become a passion or a way of life. There's nothing wrong with jobs like that, but I think people who find their work to be a passion have less of a social life because they're so involved with their work.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
14 Feb 12
You are a cashier if I'm not mistaken? It can be very tedious and stressful work. Customers just don't understand the job of a cashier sometimes. I think that there can be some "passion" jobs that are more leisurely, but I agree that a lot of times it takes up too much of a person's time and doesn't leave much of a social life. Those kinds of jobs are better only if they pay well.
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• United States
14 Feb 12
I work in a bank.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
14 Feb 12
I think that people who work in whatever industry that they are in, and call it their passion are in a double-edged sword. Yes they may love what they do, and they may not call it 'just work', but like you said they may not have much of a social life. Even their family lives could also suffer. Thanks kat, SCG!
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@GardenGerty (157652)
• United States
13 Feb 12
I have had jobs that were not just paychecks, but it has been a really long time. My job is stressful, there is a lot of responsibility, and a lot of variables in it. I was flattered when asked if I wanted it, but it messes with my family life and the schedule is very irregular. I would like to get back to just a paycheck, I think, although the job is challenging and varied.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
14 Feb 12
I've been asked before, by friends online, if I'd like to do something in management as a job and I always say no I wouldn't. It just seems too stressful for me. I like a job where I may have responsibilities, but not heavy ones. I don't do well under stress as I am sure my discussions have shown.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
14 Feb 12
Except for a couple of jobs in the past, I've always been on the management side of work. With it comes responsibilities and stress. And then I see people on the floor who just treat their jobs as a source for paychecks. I sometimes get envious that they always seem to be the 'happier' lot. Thanks GG and SCG!
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@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
14 Feb 12
I do enjoy my job, and the pay isn't always my primary concern. At the same time, i am having trouble balancing family life and my job, and I'm not entirely certain how best to find this balance. My job is also a paycheck. While we're not living paycheck to paycheck, if we ever want to get ahead and save more than a little bit each month, I have to work.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
18 Feb 12
Glad to know that you're not living 'paycheck to paycheck'. I guess you're one of the lucky ones. And it's great that you even enjoy your job. That's a bit hard to find. Thanks!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
15 Feb 12
My job became more than a paycheck the moment I was responsible for other people. When I became their voice, that was when it was more to me. Even if I was living paycheck to paycheck, it would have to be more than that because of the responsibility that I have taken. I have to say that I feel as though I am doing something good when I can lead them to where they want to be. I am so proud that I have had two people promoted from my department and working on three others. It is a great loss for me..but they are better suited for the other positions and if they want it and I can lead them there...it is much more than a paycheck. It is alot easier to be responsible for a smaller area but it is fulfilling when you are able to make a difference.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
22 Feb 12
One of the very first jobs I had was heading a small inspection department. The staff I had were all production employees. Just before I left that company, I succeeded in dissolving our department and promoting all of my staff into management. That was a great accomplishment for me. Like you and your experience, that's something I am most proud of.
• United States
15 Feb 12
A job stops being just a paycheck when you are doing something you love, when your work fulfills what you want out of a job, when you no longer think of it as a job, but as a privilege to be where you are - doing what you're doing. A job stops being just a paycheck when you have no wish to watch the clock, when the end of the day means you're looking forward to getting up tomorrow so you can go to work. A job stops being just a paycheck when you experience a happiness that doesn't go away, but saddens you if you think about leaving to do anything else.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
22 Feb 12
You're exactly right mysticmaggie! I was once in a job like this. But I had to give it up for a change in lifestyle. So, now I wish I could find something like it again. Thanks for the response.
• Canada
13 Feb 12
I;ve had jobs that were just a paycheck for me but now that I graduated in the field I liked and have gotten the job related to it, I find it very satisfying. I now look forward to going to work and accomplish my tasks. Also, my coworkers and boss are very nice people so it is a nice working environment which makes it easier to spend the day at work and so I enjoy my work a lot more. I guess when you don't have to drag yourself to work everyday or dreading to go work is when you find out that your job isn't a paycheck anymore. You'll know the inner satisfaction from a job which isn't just a paycheck anymore
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
15 Feb 12
Very well put mariab2000! People who strive to get to a job they want, or they like, and are fortunate enough to land one with a good environment are the lucky ones. Their jobs wouldn't be a paycheck anymore. Glad to know that you're one such lucky person. Thanks!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
14 Feb 12
My job is becoming "just a lousy paycheck" now. There are times I don't want to go to work, and then times that I do. They aren't treating us as good as they used to, and I don't think it's just because we are "regular" now, it's well change of people managing front end, and that can be stressful. It's not enough money anyway, not even enough to live paycheck to paycheck on, so I'm looking for another better job. Looking for that "paycheck to paycheck" job that can become more then just "another paycheck".
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Feb 12
I think you've got it figured out. Yes this job you have right now may have been good, but it shouldn't stop you from looking for something else. Something that would be better than just another paycheck. Hopefully you find it soon! Thanks.
@MandaLee (3758)
• United States
13 Feb 12
Hi, I love my jobs. I look forward to them each day.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
15 Feb 12
Hello Mandalee. I guess you're one of the lucky ones to have a job/s that you look forward to each day. Thanks.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
14 Feb 12
Good discussion. This is what I'm lacking, goals and purpose in my job. My job is essentially a glorified cashier (although my duties are varied), but each day is monotonous and I have no goals within the company. There is an incredible lack of 'room for advancement' in the company I work for. I could be a store manager (as currently I am store 'assistant manager') but there are only about 20 positions for those - and most of the store managers are what I call 'lifers', meaning it's rare a position opens up as most managers have been there 10+ years. I don't think that's worth it to me, but heck, I've already been there for almost 5. Beyond that there are two supervising managers, one general manager, and then the company owner herself. Anyway, I am somewhat unhappy with the fact that I don't enjoy my job, and I don't have any chance of being 'promoted'. I am definitely paycheck to paycheck as well. This is something I definitely need to change, as I am TERRIBLE at managing my cashflow. . Anyway, it's nice that you have something to look forward to each day. That must be a priceless feeling, to actually LOOK forward to working! How amazing that must be! It seems like me, and just about everyone else I know really hates their jobs and don't look forward to anything but a) PAY DAY or b) the weekend! I don't think that your 'added responsibility' should make you envious of people who dislike their jobs or are unhappy with their jobs.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
15 Feb 12
It sounds to me that you are definitely ready to look for something else. I know that you might feel a little bit comfortable there already, but I think you need to see what's out there to shake things up. I think you can use your 5 years experience already to be qualified for something else. Maybe something that you would like to do. And look forward to. And it can all start by updating your resume...
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
i have been working in our company for the 9 years already. this my first and most probably my last job. many opportunities are coming my way but i can not leave my work because i love it so much. i love my co workers at our laboratory and our boss who are always considerate of us. i think if you want to be successful, you should find a satisfying job not just for the money but for its quality and the satisfaction it can give you. you will know it when despite the difficulties in money you are going through and the personal problems you have, you still manage to wake up early in the morning and go to work happy. yes, most of us are practical in life and get high paying work without considering the self satisfaction they will have. that is not wrong though. when you are young, you are like that but as you get age, your vision in life will be different too and you'll focus more on work satisfaction rather than the money it will bring you.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
15 Feb 12
The second job I had after university was the most satisfying one I've ever had. It had everything! Money, the chance for advancement, and the most wonderful people to work with. I stayed there for 6 years. If not for an opportunity for a better life, I wouldn't have left that company. So, I don't think it's an age thing for me. Thanks.
• China
14 Feb 12
working for living, living for working. choose what you want to as your job, so that you are looking forward to working everyday.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 Feb 12
Hello mickeypeng. I think working and living go hand in hand. For most of the people in this world anyway. You can't really enjoy a good living if you don't work hard for it. Unless of course you're one of the lucky few who were born with a silver spoon on their mouths.
@menajo (7)
14 Feb 12
All the jobs I've ever had were paychecks. I always knew I didn't really fit into the whole corporate world and that there had to be something better out there for me. Now I work myself. For the first time in my life I don't feel as thought what I do is a paycheck. In fact I'm currently earning a lot less (I'm only just starting out), and I have to say I'm loving my work. I no longer watch the clock. Although sometimes I'll look up and it's 1am and I have no idea how the day just flew by so fast.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 Feb 12
It's funny that you mention this menajo! Because I've always thought of myself as fitting the 'corporate world'. It's only recently that I've been entertaining the thought that I should be out of it. It's great that you're your own boss. Thanks and welcome to myLot!