Your favorite Christmas

@JenInTN (27514)
United States
December 25, 2012 9:03pm CST
My favorite Christmas was one of my earliest as a child and, at the same time, a day of realization. When I found the presents, I knew it was my grandparents all along..but the caliber of it was amazing. They wanted more for me than for them. They had got me a TV for my room..better than the one they watched everyday. Now it seems material but it wasn't..they didn't care about that as long as I had it. I realized something about life that Christmas. What is your favorite Christmas memory?
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
mine was when i was in my kindergarten days and i could remember my mom baking and cooking dishes that i would really wait till midnight! lol and i could smell the aroma of it and me and my brother would wait for it and we were like salivating and the next day i would see socks with candies inside it
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
hahaha yes i had that feeling too! often times i am soooo full from eating all those desserts! my fave part of all.. the desserts!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
Oh I loved the Christmas dinners! The grandmother used to go all out. My cousin's grandmother was quite the cook too and between the two grandmothers...we could barely walk after eating.
@allknowing (130064)
• India
26 Dec 12
My Christmas as a kid and teenager had a different flavour - centred round eating, new clothes, putting up the star, working on the crib, helping mother with cleaning up, choir practice..... We were several siblings and the neighbours pitched in too as making sweets was a laborious process the number sometimes went up to 14 or 15 varieties and this would be the conversation when we went back to school.There was this system of distributing the goodies to the neighbourhood (that system is still there but I don't follow it) Those were the days Jen... And now my Christmas is not complete unless I have a 'do' for orphans each time a different location! Merry Christmas Jen....
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
Oh that sounds like fun. We used to have a huge dinner and I had a big family when I was little. They would all gather at my grandmother's house. The kids had a special mini table that we would sit to eat and all the grown-ups sat at a larger table just beside it. Those were the days.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
26 Dec 12
My most memorable Christmas was one when I was flat broke. I made everything I gave and it was a lot more meaningful to me and to the recipients (so they said). It sure made me stop and think about gift giving and what it all meant. Just buying something and putting it under the tree lacks something after that.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
I agree. I guess what made that stand out was the fact that they had to pay payments for it. They couldn't afford that gift any more than I could have myself at that age. They had a black and white TV and the one they wanted me to have was color. They would have done anything for me and, as a youngster, I guess that was the day I saw it. There is that moment of realization... consciousness I guess would be a better way to put it.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
27 Dec 12
Oh, yes, I agree. They made a deliberate decision to do it even if it was more than they would normally spend. They cared enough and that's what it's all about.
@hmkoct5 (2065)
• United States
14 Jan 13
That's a great memory. I guess I don't have any one memory. But, it is more cumulative. We used to go to see my grandparents (an 8 hr drive from where we lived) every year at Christmas. We would have Christmas Eve at my Grandpa's house and Christmas Day with my Grandma. I would get to see all of my cousins and aunts and uncles. It was just so special because we only saw those people twice a year. I loved being able to visit with everyone and watch all my baby cousins grow up. It meant a lot to me.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
20 Jan 13
I have great memories of the family coming together for dinner. Oh how I loved seeing and playing with my cousins. Thanks for sharing.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Jan 13
You must have been a really smart kid! To make that realization -that they wanted more for you than what they have. I think all parents secretly want their kids to realize this. So that they could feel appreciated for everything they do. I'm still hoping my kids would realize it soon.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
20 Jan 13
I call it the "moment of realization." One minute oblivious to everything and then the next it is like a light bulb. Everything around you starts to make sense or make you think about it. Of course that is the moment where you think you have it all figured out too I guess there are many more than one moment of realizations.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
26 Dec 12
Hmmmm my favorite Christmas present was when I got a piece of apple after I sang solo in the caroling. apple is the most expensive in our country before i so when a house gave me an apple along with the money because I sang very well that was one of the most memorable christmas experiences I had. Now apples here are too cheap and everyone can afford it whewww
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
You must be quite a singer and made a great impression. Times do change but it doesn't change what that apple meant at that time. Thanks for sharing!
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
27 Dec 12
Lol no... No... No... Hahahaha. Their garage had a good acoustic ceiling I think hehehehw
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 12
My favourite Christmas memory was in the year 2002, my partner and I had not long since bought a house together, it was my first house, I had lived in rented accommodation up till that point, we had just got the house made to our tastes, normally I would spend every Christmas with my parents, I loved my mum, but I hated my dad, so it was always strained. It was weird to be honest, suddenly not spending Christmas with my mum, but my partner and I had a quiet Christmas together, sadly it was to be our last. It was the only Christmas I was away from home. I loved Christmas as a child, but now as an adult it's not so fun, mainly because my dad sits in front of the television and drinks. So I made the best of it with just me and mum, leaving dad to himself.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
1 Jan 13
I think that holidays sometimes has a way of magnifying things. Good and/or bad. Sounds like you had one of those in a mixed kind of way that really stood out. Christmases can be very different as an adult. I guess we are the ones that create them when we are adults but there are always those that have influences over them that we can't control. I hope you had a nice one. Happy New Year too.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
26 Dec 12
The last Christmas my Grandpa Kruse was alive....he was dying of cancer and lying in a bed in the living room. We went for Christmas day and he gave us each a gift. The guys all got billfolds...all the girls got a necklace except for me. I got a charm braclet...the one charm was big and shaped like a heart with my name engraved on it and another heart cut out with my birthstone hanging in the tiny heart space....it was special.......from him. He was my buddy..my pal. I still have the bracelet and that was about 50 years ago.....I still take it out and touch it and remember the special guy he was.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
Oh jill...that is a wonderful memory! I loved loved loved my grandfather too and we were very close. I have some picture of him that I cherish and great memories. Most everything in my life has been influenced by him in one way or another. Grandparents are so special.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
7 Jan 13
Well, there was the Basset hound trying to open the tightly wrapped and taped cannister of Christmas cookies. He didn't manage to get it open, but we found it in the back yard with the paper off.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
20 Jan 13
Nothing better than a good Basset Hound Christmas antic. They are such cuties.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
26 Dec 12
One of my favorite memories is shopping for a Christmas tree on Christmas eve with my dad and my two other siblings. It was snowing and we dragged that tree for blocks to our house because we didn't have a car. While dragging the tree home we were singing christmas carols all the way home. We then put the tree up and decorated it while sipping hot chocolate and eating cookies. I love that memory so much. Another was when we were able to buy christmas gifts for our parents from a paper route we had. We saved all our tips and went to the stores to buy what we wanted and it was just so exciting. I think that is why now I rather give then receive.Its just so more exciting to see the look on the person face who is receiving the gift. Hope you had a wonderful Christmas and I wish you a Happy Healthy New Year!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
That is a great memory lelin! I love to give too. I think my grandparents must have rubbed off on me a bit..lol. I remember how excited I was decorating the tree when I was little too. I loved to go through the boxes and dig out this plastic candy string. We would put it on the wall behind the tree but I got to play with it for as long as I wanted first..lol. I hope you had a great Christmas too. Happy New Year!
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
27 Dec 12
There is nothing really clear that stands out for me in my memory from childhood Christmases. I do have a vague memory of coming out into the lounge one morning and seeing a mountain bike that I received in my early teens standing proudly in the middle of the room all shiny and I remember riding it up and down the drive and street all excitedly. (well I remember photos of me doing that anyway) But I am not sure if I got the bike for Christmas or if it was a birthday gift. Either way, I remember thinking, "where did my parents have this hidden?"
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Dec 12
Parents have to sometimes be super creative when it comes to hiding those presents. I loved riding bikes when I was a child too.
@str321 (6)
• Hong Kong
26 Dec 12
Christmas with family is the best choice for myself. It is the happiest, most comfortable and enjoyable. It is the wonderful memory. I hope it is forever......
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
I hope to always have my family around me for Christmas too. It is not as big as it used to be but we are very close. Thanks for the response and welcome to myLot.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
26 Dec 12
well it has to be way back when i was 7 years old watching tv and waiting for the xmas gifts to pour on me with my relatives right next to me and it was pleasant also
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
"Pouring" presents is always nice to a 7 year-old. Thanks for the response.
@ma3791 (58)
26 Dec 12
im jewis so im less familiar but i have friends celebrating, and they are simply waiting all year for this day
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
People that celebrate do love and wait on the day. You have an 8 day celebration around this time of year though...you can share moments from that if you want to.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
26 Dec 12
I was nine adn I slept in the room where the tree was and I saw my dad put my bike bythe tree. went to sleep and never told any one what I saw I kept up th e SAnta thing for my brother who was 5 years younger than me I would watch him open ppresents before I opened mine watch his face at all he got was a pleasure think I was 15 when I let them know I knew and momma had wondered why I hadnt caught on before then tol dher I wanted to keep brother beleiving as long as I could
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
It's hard if you've been told there is a Santa and then find out it is make believe. It was nice that you let him believe a little longer. Kids really love the idea. Thanks for sharing. You are a great person.
@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
26 Dec 12
In 1983, my dad's last Christmas with us, my parents gave the 3 of us kids photo albums that included old family photos and some typed up history of the family. Then they had split the photos so that they were personalized to each of us, photo's of us taking front and center. Very awesome!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
That is awesome! One of the most special gifts I have ever got was a scrap book that my estranged grandmother had made me. I didn't have pictures of myself as a child or of anyone in the family after I left. She had gathered some pictures and put them together for me. I had kind of the same idea except mine was catching her up on the time we had been apart. That was a great Christmas for me too.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
26 Dec 12
Dear friend, Wish you a merry X'mas. As a Hindu we hardly had Christmas, but it changed when we had new Christain neighbors and they celebrated Christmas and we were also invited. It was way back when I was schoolboy. That was the special Christmas, that too my first Christmas celebration. But unfortunately when I was in college we had to shift to another place. But our beloved neighbors made us know the value of Christmas...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
Hi SHAMRACK! I think it is great to mingle cultures and feel how important certain celebrations are to one another. I am always open to experiencing the way others celebrate. It can bring special feelings. Thank you for the well wishes and take care.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
26 Dec 12
After my parent were divorced money was short, so my part of that small family made up our minds to save to the next Christmas for something special. We made plans all year for what we would do together for Christmas and then the three of us went into the larger city, we stayed in a fancy hotel and saw a wonderful stage show. My brother and I had also saved to get one present between us for my Mom, so we went shopping in the large city and bought her a beautiful bottle of bath salts. We both agreed on the present, it was one of hte few times we agreed as children. My Mom and brother are gone now, but I keep the bottle and each time I dust it, I remember that Christmas and how we loved each other.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
That is a beautiful story. I think that being together, planning together, and enjoying each other is what it is all about. I knew my grandparents couldn't affors that TV. You know how a child one day suddenly has consciousness? I think that was my day.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
26 Dec 12
Hi JenInTN We arent Christians and so Christmas was not celebrated in our family when I was a kid and normally we did get x-Mas vacations in the schools. But we had exams starting from the first working day of Jan next year. So the travel too did never happen. After studies when I moved out, professionally, I found the culture out there was quite different and we could celebrate almost every function - maybe not with the true spirits but they said - every celebration and festivity should be seen as a celebration of life. So why not. I too joined in. Lots of yummy food specially the cakes and sweets... Then in 2008 when I started to walk again, I had realized the importance of life. That year, I did not have enough money, but still was able to purchase a cake and a larger pack of Cadboury Eclairs (these are chocolates) for the 30 odd kids at the orphanage. I was scared to ask the Priests and Authorities to celebrate with them but when they agreed, I felt so happy. And that Christmas was my best yet. Since then, I have tried to get to the kids there every celebration and festival - even if that is for a mere 30 minutes. It truly is something which makes me feel contended and happy from within. At least, I am able to do some good within my capacity without harming anyone out there
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
I think that is wonderful thesids! I love the fact that you spend time with those children. They will one day share their most special Christmas and I bet you will be in that memory.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
26 Dec 12
My favorite was my first with my son Miguel. Even though he couldnt pen the gifts, just sitting there infront of the tree with him was great for me. Now 14 years later, xmas is still great for me and him. Hope you had a great xmas there.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Dec 12
Oh..to see the children with bright little eyes was great for me too. I was as excited if not more than they were. I would wake them up in the wee hours of the morning..lol. Thanks for sharing.