Connection...

I have this sense of familiarity with some of the members here. It's like i have known them personally for such a long time.

hi LMB, Even me when I met jaiho personally I knew we will have a long way to go it's 6 years now since I met her at first I know we have a strong connection happy mylotting

It's truly wonderful having someone on the same wavelength as you, you feel a solid connection, you don't always have to meet, you can just get the same feeling whether you are online or offline. You can relate to them. With discussions you can learn so much more about the person, because sometimes it's easier to be open and honest online than it is offline. I know I can turn to my friends here on Mylot, because they know me, the support, advice and warmth I get is always unconditional. It doesn't matter where the person is residing either, you can still feel a connection with someone who is halfway across the world.

I can relate with you my dear. I also feel the same with other mylotters. There is something that words are not enough to explain. A feeling of closeness- a relation without a name :)

i understood everything you were trying to say i have done that...the falling for someone online. i had that uncontrollable feeling that had no explination or reason but it was there. i wanted to ask does this persn know who they are? i think it is normal and nothing wrong with this. many people meet online and make great connections!! i hope it all works out for the best for you!

It is a natural thing but if you think you are having that feeling, I believe its wise to split it out, perhaps there might be a coincedence of feelings. For me, I would rather say that which occupies my mind and you never can tell, it might end up working out for the better.

Yes. I do it so often that it doesn't seem strange or unusual in the least. Some people are just on the same wavelength; some are not.

Have you ever heard of 'Deja Vu'? It is like you describe. Who is for or what? A connection to someone for unknown reasons? I would try some meditation and see what comes to you. Make take several times.

I think that when you've shared a lot of conversations here from different users, you soon realize that you are actually sifting through people. And then you find that the ones that you have the most in common, or the most 'connection' to are the ones you most like having more conversations and discussions. I think this is what makes the connection more prominent. Also, it's nice to know that somewhere out there, there is another soul who have almost have the same views as you.

There are people who feel connected for many reasons. One main reason is point of view. And some connections are comfortable as well. I find it normal for you to be connected to someone here. It is not impossible. I have a few connections amongst a few sites I use. So it is normal. Thats why the internet is so powerful. We would have never known these people if it were not for the internet. Think of it as knowing them in real life and growing up with them. Its the same thing.

Yes there are a couple of people here that are just like sisters to me. I'm very connected to them.

Generally speaking, I believe we are all interconnected somehow. Even with the environment, all our action will have some kind of consequences too to the environment. While if we restrict such connection to the one between people, yes I do felt that I am connected with someone I do not know of. I believe it may be that the person somehow has certain characteristics which someone I knew before had. This creates a feeling of familiarity between people.

I have read that sometimes we feel attacted or connected to people who have the similar face or features to us. Or maybe if he or she has the similar personality to us. Usually that is why, which can explain some of unexplainable attraction.

I believe that we find love in any form from any place including here on the net I have found two people that I have feel in love with on the net and care about and talk to them every single day

I felt that way the very first time I met Elaine. It was like we'd been friend's since the beginning of time! It was a lot like that when I met my friend Maggiepie, except we were more like sisters. But not so much the first few times, just the first time we got to actually talk without anyone else around.

We can never underestimate the power of words as words do have magical power to create special feelings that draw people together. We are in the fantasy world so no harm in enjoying that fantasy feelings for the sake of entertainment.

I know what you mean. There are some people that I just feel like I've know forever.

It happens. I have had similar feelings plenty of times. That feeling that you want to talk to them, meet them, and if it weren't for the fact you were pretty sure you've never met they just speak to you in ways that call to you. It is hard to understand why but at the same time it is usually because when you are down or even just being silly, the person tends to think along the same wavelength that you happen to be on. Someone who has experienced things in life similar to yours and it is easy to obtain that connection to them.

i can relate. as if i am affectionately involve with that person. maybe because simply i just like him or her like my younger sister or brother. and that there are really times that somehow you have connections and as if i know this person and have seen or met him/her already even the two of you just see each other in that moment. and not only that, i had this experience some experiences that seems already happening to me before or that kind of feeling; reminding you and made you think and said - hey, it happened to me before, just felt that. so thanks for this :)

It has happened to me several times.When I met my husband I had the feeling that I had already known him.May be from previous life!May be the same vibrations!I don`t know but it is amazing!