Update on my granddaughter Melanie.

@amadeo (111948)
United States
July 16, 2018 3:03pm CST
an update on my granddaughter.She try to do away with her self again Right now she is in the institution She was supposed to get out today.My daughter is taking her in. The other grandmother want no part of this. Not sure what happen today but we will see. Very sad a 13 years old child want to do away with herself. My daughter is going to take a lot of responsibility with her not sure how this is going to work out.Just hope for the best This is one of the nicest photo.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
16 Jul 18
That's very sad for a 13 year old wanting to end her life. What can be so bad or sad? Does she suffer from depression?
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@db20747 yes your right here.Tough age etc.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@1hopefulman not sure we are waiting answers from the Dr.
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
17 Jul 18
It's so difficult in the world today!! It's very hard 2 make the connections with friends and people at school!!! The pressure is immense!!! People aren't as friendly as they used 2 be!!! Very hard for kids!!! When U don't make the connections with others with very hard!
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@Juliaacv (48447)
• Canada
16 Jul 18
I'm so very sorry. She must have such a troubled heart to feel that there is no way out of it. She's a beautiful looking girl and I hope that your daughter can help her.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
16 Jul 18
@Juliaacv she does not like her other grandmother.My daughter is going to take her in when she get out. But this is going to be a lot of work for her.Not sure how this will go.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@kobesbuddy yes.They have so much to live for.How is she doing now?
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@kobesbuddy (74569)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Jul 18
We went through this with our granddaughter Kaitlyn, last year. Those were the saddest days, for me and my daughter(Kaiti's mother). She was hospitalized, but still spoke about dying and said nobody would care. It's painful, to see a child so despondent and unhappy. I will pray for Melanie:)
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@AmbiePam (85497)
• United States
16 Jul 18
Bless her heart, and your daughter's. That's terrible.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@AmbiePam thank you.
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@much2say (53958)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Jul 18
Gosh only 13 . . . my daughter is 13 - so, so young. I really hope she can get help and support she needs - such a difficult time for her.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@much2say this is also a rough age.Thank you
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
17 Jul 18
I hope she will have the time to think about her life.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
17 Jul 18
@amadeo I hope she will not do that.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@Shavkat not sure.she is not out yet.She try to cut her self again on the day being discharge.
@kobesbuddy (74569)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Jul 18
Love is the magical healing balm, that will help Melanie through this very rough time. Your daughter will give her the love she needs and really deserves.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@kobesbuddy I hope this will work.Not sure.If she can handle it?
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@kobesbuddy (74569)
• East Tawas, Michigan
17 Jul 18
@amadeo As much love as your daughter has for this precious little girl, she will do just fine:)
@snowy22315 (169965)
• United States
16 Jul 18
Poor baby..I can't even imagine. She needs a non judgmental person she can trust and confide in.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
16 Jul 18
@snowy22315 yes she does.This will be a lot of work for her.she will get some support there
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
17 Jul 18
that is so sad. such a beautiful child like that. you just wonder why they have so many problems these days when they have so much entertainment and people who want to help them along and all. makes me think of how we had to work for so much at a very young age and never had so many gadgets and such. must be the problem these days.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@bunnybon yes.I do not know the whole story on here.But something is not working.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
16 Jul 18
Oh my. I hope this time she will recover and get herself together. She is so lovely.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
16 Jul 18
@rakaski this is the second time around.Very scary
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• United States
16 Jul 18
I am so sad to hear that Melanie is still trying to harm herself. My prayers for her Wouldn't it be nice If we could show these children that life is worth living and that her future is bright ...maybe a crystal ball
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@Marilynda1225 yes it would be very nice.Thank you
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
16 Jul 18
OH dear Alfredo. I am so sorry. I hope that she is able to get the help that she needs. Sending blessings to help!
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
16 Jul 18
@garymarsh6 thank you and yes she is getting help again.
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@DianneN (246838)
• United States
16 Jul 18
She is a very beautiful girl with such a sad soul. I'm so sorry to hear this, Fredo. I truly hope she gets serious help.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@DianneN yes she is.she had been knock around with her other grandmother.Not she does not want her back. My daughter is taking her in.I do not think that she can do it.Will see
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@DianneN (246838)
• United States
17 Jul 18
16 Jul 18
I’m sorry to hear this. The times we are living is so tough on everyone and especially on youth. I’m glad that she is getting the help that she needs and I hope she will continue to gain a great support system to help her along the way.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@katherinerose she has lot of support from us.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
16 Jul 18
Very nice photo of your granddaughter. I am sorry to hear this ..i am hoping for the best too God bless her.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@Icydoll yes.Thank you.she is lovley
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@LadyDuck (458192)
• Switzerland
17 Jul 18
I am so sorry Alfredo, she must feel so depressed, I hope she can get the necessary help.
@LadyDuck (458192)
• Switzerland
17 Jul 18
@amadeo I hope you can get soon news.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@LadyDuck It is going to be awhile there.That I can see.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@Ladyduck so do I.Have not a chance to speak with her
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@NJChicaa (116002)
• United States
16 Jul 18
I am so sorry to hear this.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@NJChicaa this is very tough to handle.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@NJChicaa thanks.How are you doing with your visit to the doctors
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@NJChicaa (116002)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@amadeo I understand
@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
17 Jul 18
@amadeo I am so so sorry. I wonder what is troubling her that life is so hard for her. I hope someone will figure it out. I hope she gets the help she needs.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
18 Jul 18
@Hannihar she is getting out today so I hear.Both grandmother will be sharing this.Not sure If I liked it or not
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@Hannihar First her mother could not support her.Grandmother is not any better.My daughter lost custody of her Her mother is in jail.coming out.But do not trust her.How is my daughter going to handle this?tough I could not do it.
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@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
18 Jul 18
@amadeo No one your daughter is doing what she does. She has had a very hard life. That is so so sad that people cannot see what they do to others. I did not have a happy childhood either but I guess I did not grow up so bad. I still have baggage but I never wanted to do those things to myself. I feel so bad for your granddaughter and thank you for explaining that then I understand more of what she must be going through.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Jul 18
I'm sorry to hear this Fredo. And she is now?
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@JustBhem not sure what her real problem is.Her mother is in jail.An addict,robbery etc. The grandmother she does not like.Not my daughter. I have not seen here or talk with her.My daughter is taking all in. It is just a messed up things..who do you believe.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@JustBhem she is still at the hospital and cutting her self again
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Jul 18
@amadeo Oh, sorry to hear this. What is her real problem?
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
17 Jul 18
Pretty girl. It's sad that she is that upset about something in her life... I am amazed that they release her so soon. I hope the best
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@FayeHazel she is still in the hospital there.Still cutting herself
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Jul 18
@FayeHazel Right now my daughter has share custody for now.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
20 Jul 18
@amadeo Oh no. Well I am happy she's still there so that there is help readily available
@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
17 Jul 18
I am very sorry to hear this. I hope she will turn around on this Fredo. You must be so distraught. She looks lovely in the photo.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@Courage7 thank you.Yes taking a toll on the family
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
18 Jul 18
@Courage7 I will.The latest is coming out soon from the hospital
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
18 Jul 18
@amadeo Surely pray for her Fredo. Let us know how she is doing please.