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sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 25 Mar 11

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for...

yes

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sherylljoan Enjoy life when we can and whatever problem arises face your fear and find strength with it. It will help us overcome our difficulties. Throw away the word blame in your self... Set your self free from being too pessimistic about thing...

31 Mar 11

sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 25 Mar 11

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for...

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sherylljoan Blaming will not help through cleaning up our conscience.

30 Mar 11

sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 25 Mar 11

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for...

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sherylljoan I agree to your idea....

30 Mar 11

sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 25 Mar 11

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for...

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sherylljoan I agree...

25 Mar 11

sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 25 Mar 11

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for...

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sherylljoan Blaming is an immature behavior.. Why would we blame others? We may succeed in making other feel guilty about something by blaming, but it wont succeed in changing whatever it is about you as unhappy.

25 Mar 11

sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 25 Mar 11

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for...

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clandestinef @clandestinef (88) • Philippines 14 Jun 08

what is love to you?To me, it means having someone to grow old with, having someoen who sill listen, I mean, relly listen to you. Having someone you can have fun with, and loving them with not just your heart, but your whole...

love heart

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sherylljoan Love - is a tremendous thing that will ever happen in our life... It will never be measure by anything. Love is for everyone regardless of age... Its all about sharing and showing our affection.

14 Jun 08

naaadh @naaadh (217) • United States 13 Jun 08

This is something which happened a week back here in Maldives. A boy (i kindah know him, but not a friend of mine) was in love with a girl. And i think they have spent like 4 years together and they were a perfect match. I used to...

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sherylljoan Of course I will not suicide. Its not an excuse to everything you have encounter in life. Its escaping to your problem. We should have face all the circumstances we've been through in the journey in our life... Just have faith in God... God have all reasons to...

14 Jun 08

iskayz @iskayz (5420) • Philippines 14 Jun 08

Hi to all!! In courtship, who would you choose to have a relationship with? The person who loves you most... or the person you love most? Justify..

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sherylljoan I would prefer both.. I think its better to have those both because its kinda unfair in both sides if one of which is not present, right? I will not waste my time loving a person if he will not love me back....

14 Jun 08

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money_maker01 @money_maker01 (1097) • Malaysia 10 Jun 08

Hi guys, I need opinion from all of you of one case that happens in relationship. I have a friend and she told me that her boyfriend always make the comparison with his ex-girlfriend. he always told her that "you are so much nice...

hate for being compared

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sherylljoan Of course, I will get mad. Once is enough in saying those things to your gf or bf. But if its always, its no longer appropriate and healthy in talking about it anymore. That means he or she is not moving on...

11 Jun 08

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vamshi_1526 @vamshi_1526 (38) 11 Jun 08

Dont misunderstand me.If you get a situation that you select only one among the love or friendship. What you select among them.Be honest. I will make survey on it.Please give me the answer.

love and friendship

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sherylljoan Well for me, right now, I think I prefer more about friendship. In my experience about love its really kinda hard to think about it anymore. I should prefer spending time with my friends rather than a boyrfriend. Everything is going smooth and aside from that...

11 Jun 08

sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 11 Jun 08

In our relationship for two years with my boyfriend we always break up. I'm getting tired anymore. The problem is he dont have time with me. We always keep working things out. Right now, we just give time for our self and just go...

relationship

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rockrules2004 @rockrules2004 (79) • Pakistan 10 Jun 08

i just wanted to know how many discussions u reply in day. i reply only 6-7 discussions.my maximum number of response in a day is 15.whats your maximum number of responses in a day.

discissions reply in a day

maximum responses

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sherylljoan Im just new to MyLot and find this really interesting. I open it everyday and usually respond at least 5-10 discussions a day. However, I seldom find a discussion that I can get into or relate to the topics.

10 Jun 08

sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 10 Jun 08

Loving a person is not through to his or her perfections but Loving a person is through to his or her imperfections... Do you agree to this? What do you think? You can share your ideas and opinion freely...

mark as best discussion

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sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 10 Jun 08

When purchasing things on the store would you prefer to choose those with the quality or with the quantities? We need to be smart in buying things right now and its really necessary now a days because of the price hike. What would...

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sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 10 Jun 08

When life is so tiring, overwhelming and demanding, you search for something or someone that will strengthen you to go on... Who will be your inspiration in life? Or What would it be?

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clandestinef @clandestinef (88) • Philippines 10 Jun 08

The most important and the most critical component in loving is commitment.NOT love. It's easy to love without commitment. People do it all the time. But commitment implies bonding in such a way that one promises to keep the...

love and commitment

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sherylljoan I will just express my little opinion and ideas. When you are inlove, love UNCONDITIONALLY. You shouldn't ask for a return. Just wait that your partner will give it to you without pushing him or her into. As for me, when I'm into a relationship I make sure I...

10 Jun 08

maeannae @maeannae (4) • Philippines 9 Jun 08

this is a beauty pageant question: "what is the essence of being a woman?" why is is this such an important aspect in every female? hope that i can answer it this soon i am at the right age to explore the important of a...

essence of woman

pageant

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sherylljoan The essence of being a woman is when you have a family and when you bare a child with the husband you love.. The role of being a women is to multiply and to bare a child and without it we are nothing.. Women was created by God to cultivate the races of human...

9 Jun 08

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anneshirley @anneshirley (1516) • Philippines 8 Jun 08

Should I worry for not having a boyfriend at 25? My group is compose of ten girls, just recently my friend got married and I am the only single in the group. Its not that I also want to get married but I feel awkward whenever we...

boyfriend

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sherylljoan Well, you shouldn't have to.... Everything has its purpose whatever it is we wouldn't know. Your time is not up girl. Dont take it so fast and serious because you're still young and you can find a guy that is really meant for you, right for you and really...

8 Jun 08

sherylljoan @sherylljoan (23) • Philippines 8 Jun 08

Do you believe in past life? If not just give your opinion. Why you don't believe in it? And if yes, who you think you are in your past life?

past life

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