When family come to visit you, how do you decide where each one sleeps?  |
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| As some of you already know, my Mum and Aunt are visiting from New Zealand in July. They will be staying with my Aunt and Uncle in Connecticut and then driving down with them to visit us in DC for a few days (hopefully a week at least). We live in a two bedroom/bath apartment building. We have one king size bed in our master bedroom and a bunk bed in my son's bedroom. We will be housing 4 adults during that time and I am not sure how to go about arranging the sleeping areas to accomodate them as well as my hubby, son and I. What would you do? I want to make sure they ALL are comfortable during their stay here with us as we don't mind bunking on the floor anywhere. Should I put them all in both rooms and we sleep in the lounge area? If so, what should I do about the bunk beds? should I just have one sleep on the bottom and buy another matress or airbed for the other to sleep on the floor? or should I buy a double airbed and have them both on the floor and move the bunk bed to the corner and we can use the matresses for us in the lounge? Who should I put in our room? My Mum and Aunt or my Aunt and Uncle? all are 60 years + and my Aunt that is coming with my mom suffered a severe stroke 6-7 years ago but is doing great now. OR Should I not even worry about it and make sure there are enough beds for them all and they can choose where to sleep? How do you go about deciding where each visitor should sleep or do you let them decide for themselves? Thanks for sharing. | | | | | |
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1. cupid74 (4713)
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4 years ago
| | Well first its great that ur parents are coming to meet u along with ur aunt and uncle Well dont worry much about it Well if i would be u i would be working on two options 1-I would Say That Give Bed room to Parents and Son room to uncle and Aunt on Aired Mattress and family stay in lounge 2- All ladies in Bed Room, Males in Son Room and Lounge and adjust accordingly as it will be martter of 7-10 days and when u will be meeeting after long times, i am sure you would have lot to share and enjoy so you wont be having much time to sleep. and when they are coming they know where u live and accomodation u have so they must be mentally prepare for that wish u all the best and happy time take care | | | | | | |
cupid74 (4713)
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4 years ago
| | oops just want to add one thing when we have lot of guest home we go for option 2 if beds are not wnough than we use floor or Lounge Drawing room etc | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | I like your first option cupid and probably will go with that and buy an extra air-bed/matress for my Aunt and Uncle and my Mum and Aunt can sleep in our room, and we can use my son's bunk bed matresses for us in the lounge. Thanks my friend! | | | |
cupid74 (4713)
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4 years ago
| | Thats good that u like it wish u all the best Take care | | | |
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2. nice030481 (903)
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4 years ago
| | we have only two rooms, my father sleep on the other room, me and my husband on the other, my mother on the sofa, and my baby beside her. | | | | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | Seems it works out ok for you and your family. Thanks for responding nice :) | | | |
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3. ellie26 (2056)
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4 years ago
| | There will definitely be some adjustment made to your son's room. To be able to make them feel comfortable during their stay, you need to buy the double air-bed and have them both on the floor and move the bunk bed to the corner. You can use the mattresses for your husband and son to sleep in the lounge. If you like you can share the master bedroom with your mum and aunt, if you don't mind sleeping with them. | | | | | | |
madlees (1119)
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4 years ago
| | If I was in your place I'll do as ellie says. I would also like to sleep with my mum and aunt so that I'll be able to catch up with them since they are visiting after such a long time. Men sleep in the son's room and son in his bunk bed moved to a corner. If you can arrange like this you can avoid the lounge. You'll have to get some beds etc That's all. | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | I agree that I would probably have to buy a airbed or matress for my Aunt and Uncle to sleep in my son's room, use the bunk bed matresses for us in the lounge and have my Mum and Aunt sleep in our bedroom. Thanks ellie! | | | |
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4. Feona1962 (3333)
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4 years ago
| | We don't get much company but one year my two Aunts came to visit..I offered them our bed and we slept on an Air Mattress in the spare room. That was only two people though..I would suggest just letting them choose..Depending on how easy it is to get up and down an air mattress might not be right for them..and you never know..one of them may be happy just sleeping on the couch...and who knows maybe one of them is springy enough to get on the top bunk...LOL..Don't stress...Everything will work out.. | | | | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | I never thought of that Terry thanks. I would think my Uncle and Aunt would be ok to sleep on an airbed/matress but not sure on my mum and my other Aunt. We shall see when they get here :) I think I'm going to go with my mum and aunt in our room, my uncle and aunt in my son's room on a airbed/matress and we can use my sons bunk bed matresses for us in the lounge. I don't know why I am worrying about it now, I think I'm still overly excited my mum is visiting :) | | | |
Feona1962 (3333)
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4 years ago
| | You're welcome..I think you are just more excited than worried..and you want everything to be just right..and because they are family, everything will work out just fine..The way you just explained what you want to do sounds really good...*smiles* | | | |
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5. kimbers867 (1331)
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4 years ago
| | I would ask them who wants to sleep in the king size bed and then who would want to sleep on the bottom bunk. Then I would buy an air mattress for you all to use in the lounge room. If you need to I would buy a second air mattress and see which room they are comfortable sleeping in. | | | | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | Good idea kimbers. After reading a few of the responses I've decided to put my Mum and Aunt in our room, my Uncle and Aunt in my son's room on a airbed/matress and we can use our son's bunk bed mattresses for us in the lounge. Thanks for responding. | | | |
kimbers867 (1331)
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4 years ago
| | Good idea about the mattress from the bunkbed. Didn't even think of that!!! | | | |
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6. whyaskq (5741)
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4 years ago
| | For us, we are almost rather automatic if we were to visit. We would rather put up at the hotel first. At most, cancel the hotel if we are offered accomodation. Normally, if there is only one person, it is fine to have the relative sharing a room with us. Often, it depends on who the relative is closer to. Of course, we decide and dictate where the visitor is going to sleep :P | | | | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | There is a hotel right across the street from us but since my Mum is only visiting for a few days, possibly a week, I would rather have her here with me so I can spend as much time with her before they leave. It's been two years since I last saw her and not sure when the next time will be after this visit :) | | | |
whyaskq (5741)
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4 years ago
| | In your case, perhaps you may make a room for her. Maybe not Maybe not one room to herself if you do not have spare rooms, but I guess sharing is not an issue ;) | | | |
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7. vipulchawla (1047)
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4 years ago
| | Well i have been away from home for around 7 years now. In my college and school days i used to stay in a hostel so none of my family members were allowed to stay with me. So i always used to prefer myself going home rather then my parents visiting to see me. Now i have started working and i stay in a flat with my friends. And my parents have decided to come over here for 3-4 days. As it was already planned, we are 5 guys staying together in a flat. And i had already decided that i would be staying a single room so that my famil can easily stay with me. So when my family comes, they would be sleeping in my room ( i have to get it cleaned by that time..lol) and i could adjust with my friend in his room. this is a mutual understanding so that next time if any of my friend's parents come over here, the same thing can be done.. | | | | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | Sounds like you have it all planned out. Good idea to get your room cleaned out before they visit too hehe. | | | |
vipulchawla (1047)
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4 years ago
| | My parents always kept me triggering for the same issue. They wanted me to live in a separate room so that it would be easy for them to have a stay here. Moreover my brother is also planning to settle in this city itself. His wife has already reached here. So may be we may think of taking a different flat altogether when he returns in 6 months or so.. | | | |
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8. PamE53 (1539)
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4 years ago
| | Inflatable air mattresses. THe best way to go when you need extra room. We were fortunate and found one that is acutally on a stand. Found it at Walmart. It's a king size so we sit it up in the dining room area (no table in there) and we fold it up at night. I'd give my parents my room, uncle/aunt the other room, and my husband and myself would sleep where ever we could. Have a great visit and don't worry about the sleeping arrangements, they will work themselves out! Have a great day! | | | | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | Thanks Pam, I'm going to look into getting one or two from Walmart. I hope they are not too expensive. I'm going to go with what you suggested as it sounds very logical/reasonable to me. My mum and my Aunt in our room, my other Aunt and Uncle in my son's room and us in the lounge :) I don't know why I am worrying about it because it's months away but I started thinking about it last night when I was in bed. I think I am overly excited my Mum is coming to visit :) Thanks again, appreciate it! | | | |
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9. patgalca (6610)
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4 years ago
| | If I were to give up my bed, I would give it to the married couple - your aunt and uncle. My parents slept in bunkbeds in their retirement years (when visiting friends) but not sure how old they were at the time. Your relatives might be too elderly to sleep on the top bunk. Personally, I cannot give up my bed to relatives because I have a sleeping disorder and find it difficult sleeping anywhere else. This is why we have a futon couch in the family room - it folds down into a double bed. We are expecting guests at the end of May. When my parents or my husband's parents have stayed we have put them on the futon in the family room but I have felt rather uncomfortable about that lately because there is no door. Well, there wasn't. DH went out and bought an accordian door and installed it so whoever sleeps there will have some privacy. We also have extra mattresses that we can throw on a floor. They're old but they are better than nothing. My oldest daughter has a double bed but it is not on a frame, it sits on the floor. She says she doesn't want a bed because then she will just shove stuff under it. She can give up her room, but I have problems with needing to get into our own rooms to get clothing. We have 3 of my husband's sisters coming to stay with us. I will probably put two up in the family room and one in my younger daughter's room (or 2 in there if one doesn't mind sleeping on the mattress she has on the floor). My girls love sleeping on the futon in the family room because they watch tv until they fall asleep. That's just on special occasions like a long weekend or something. But these people are younger and yours are older (though age doesn't really say much these days). How do you think these elderly (?) people would feel about sleeping on an air mattress on the floor? Would they find it difficult getting up? If they are spry folks then put the aunt and uncle in your room and your mother and aunt in your son's room and you and your family sleep in the lounge however you can work it. If they are staying for a week not only do they need to be comfortable, but so do you. One or two nights doesn't matter much, but a whole week does. | | | | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | I think my Mum is in good health and won't have any problems on a mattress, but I am not sure about my Aunt (who is coming with my mum) that had a stroke 6 years ago. She is doing much better and is able to get about but not sure whether she will have any problems getting up off the mattress on the floor. I know my Uncle and Aunt are also in good health, probably better than my Mum and Aunt so I think I am going to go with them on the airbeds in my son's room and have my Mum and Aunt sleep in our room, with us in the lounge. I am happy to give up whatever to make them more comfortable. I don't know when the next time I am going to see my Mum so I would rather they all be comfortable and enjoy their stay. Thanks for sharing Pat. | | | |
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10. kimlot (4365)
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4 years ago
| | Hi maddysmommy, if you and your husband are in pretty good health I would give the beds to the visiting family and buy those blow up mattress. That way you and your husband and son can sleep on the blow up mattresses and still be comfortable. Have a great time with your family and enjoy! | | | | | | |
maddysmommy (10969)
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4 years ago
| | Hi kimlot, I was planning on giving up our bed without a doubt. The issue I had was which room to put them in. Either have my Mum and Aunt in our room on the king sized bed, and have my Aunt and Uncle in my sons room on air-bed matresses, or one on the bottom bunk and another on a single matress on the floor. I think I'll go with my my Mum and Aunt in our room and my Aunt and Uncle in my son's room on air bed matresses :) thanks for responding. | | | |
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