Things have escilated with Kat.....

Thank you, for some reason it didn't post the picture I took and put with it, oh well. Since I am below 500 posts I can't include it in my comment. Hopefully this too will pass.

Thank you hun and at this point thats all I need is the support of my friends. I never thought it would come to this either. one minute everything is fine and the next its like this.

Yes she has, and I have tried counseling with several different counselors in the past. Nothing seems to help this kid. I hope that one day seh will grow up and realize what she is doing, and how she is hurting those around her.

Thank you Trish, I need all the support I can get right now, I have tried everything I can with this kid and have gotten no where with her. I can only hope that one day she will wake up and get through it soon.

You are welcome sweetie. Maybe she needs to be on medication to control her temper. I don't know if anger management will do anything without meds.
She sounds a lot like my cousin once she took the medication she needed she is ok now. I hope the same will be for your daughter. You don't deserve what she is doing to you.

I have had her tested for bi polar, for depression, and was told recently that she is probably sociopathic. The only real hope for that would be to keep her basically traquilized all the time. I can barely deal with her now I don't know what I would do if I had to take care of her 24/7 as well.

Oh wow yeah that will be very hard to deal with 24/7.
I wish I could be there to help I know it isn't easy
dealing with that on your own. I hope you have friends and
family that will help you with her.

I have you guys here, and I have my fiance other than that I am pretty much alone on this. I am very thankful to have you guys here. It means a lot to me that I do have the support of my friends here.

You are a lot like me then all I have is my boyfriend and my good friends on Mylot whenever I run into trouble. Thank goodness for our friends on Mylot we are always here when you need us!

Exactly!! I thank God for all of my friends here. I think I would have lost it by now if it wasn't for you guys! It definatly has not been easy!

Thank you for best response and I hope that things have gotten better
with your daughter. I do know how hard it is to go through.

Thank you hun, I can use all the love and hugs I can get right now. Someone had said something about her maybe being a sociopath, I looked up the defination of a sociopath and she fit every single sign. That scares me to death. I hope that they can straighten her out but I am afraid at this point there my not be any hope anymore. I just have to get through the next year and a half, since she can legally move out at 17 here.

Ok Sweetie then you need to get the Doctor so that he can transfer her to a Specialist it is to much of a Risk if she is one and I mean that as the next thing you know she will pick up a Knife so please you need to get help
Love and Hugs to you

I am scared for my well being believe me. the only time i really have to worry about it is at night and I keep my bedroom door locked. When we go to court hopefully I won't have to worry about it anymore and can finally get a full nights sleep again.

I really hope that they will sort her out Sweetheart I really do for your Sake
Hugs

The counselor we talked to yesterday basically told me that there is nothing more I can do for her, and will be making a report to the junivile justice system and then the judge will decide with the help of a panel of counselors what the best course of action will be for her. I was told that if she even raises her voice to me to contact the police and have them add it to the report. I just hope to wake up from this nightmare soon.

Thank you hun, and believe me I never expected to have to write it. I tried to post the pic of my bruised jaw but for some reason it didn't post with the discussion. Just to show the severity of what i am actually dealing with here. I am scared to death. I wasn't sleeping well before I am terified now.

I am not surprised, I would be too. Dont let her see that she has rocked you though, as hard as that may be do not let her think she has any power over you. Have you a good support network of friends and family to fall back on to turn too?

I have you guys!! My family and I don't really speak to each other much and most of the friends I had here I lost when I lost my job. So my only real support system is my fiance and the friends I have here on myLot.

I dont have much of a support system myself! But least you have everyone here to turn to and we will all be here for you as much as we can xx

And I am so grateful for that I love you guys!!!! You have no idea how much it does mean to me that I have you guys!!

Thank you and I have taken her to be tested for bi polar. I had been told that she was possibly sociopathic. I did a search and she fits every descrition of being sociopathic. There is no treatment for that unfortuantly. I pary to God everyday to help me get through just the day. I have been taking it one day at a time with her.

I have had her tested for bi polar disorder, as it runs in my family. I was told that basically she is sociopathic and there really isn't much that I can do with her. Hopefully going through the system they can either find out how to help her or she might realize what she is doing and grow up. I am scared to death that she is going to kill me one day. That is my biggest fear.

Thank you hun. I want to run away believe me. I have been trying and been trying to fight to keep everything all together, and i am afriad at this point I have nothing left to fight for. Hopefully going through the system will either get down to the root of whats wrong with her or she will grow up and out of it.

I hate to say this, but having had a lot of experience with delinquent kids, she really needs to be in a residential facility. Having her committed would probably be the hardest thing you could ever do, but it's the only way. Things have gone way too far, and that bell can't be un-rung.

You're a good person, and you have done all you can. It's beyond what you can do.

I'm so sorry. Bless you.

Thank you again hun, and I have come to realize that I am going to have to let go and have her get either the help she needs or at least an eye opener to what she is doing. It is defiantly something that I can no longer deal with on my own. Hugs and thank you for your support.

I hope this will finally wake her up to whats going on and what she is doing. She isn't showing typical teenage behavior, she is showing a very textbook definition of being a sociopath. Every symtom or sign she shows on a daily basis. Needless to say I am actually scared to death at this point.