Are People REALLY This Stupid..??

Well,those are different cases, of people abandoning their kids, i don't know which one is worst, to misstreat them or to abandon them...actually that's not even abandoning,it's throwing them away:(
I see such cases quite often here on tv also,it's sad... i couldn't throw away a kitten,in the middle of the street,or at the garbage...but a baby??? if you don't like him, give him to adoption, take him to a church..do something good for him...if you are that selfish..
ow well..i have seen even worse case scenarios,where mothers deliberately suffocated them,or placed them in garbage bags and take them to the garbage can.. or putting them in the toilet vase...and flushing...and many many other cases,where not only your stomach but your heart is messed up..
Should we make a law,of giving people tests they have to pass before making a baby?>lol..

people are so very careless with the lives they create. why do they even have them when they dont want them?

You know,that's a good question... how could that mother go through all the pregnancy problems for 9 months,and then when a little human being is finally here,to treat him that way?... why did she go along with it in the first place...

Most of the mothers who do this were either influenced by drugs or have a serious case of post partum depression. in one government hospital here, 3% of infants were abandoned and end up in orphanages later put to adopion.

My youngest daughter was given to me because the mother only wanted the fun part of having babies and never the tedious task of taking care of her. She was given to me when she was 2 months old and she is now 14 years old!

i dont understand it either.. my ex girlfriend, tried forever to have her fourth child. 3 miscarriages because her body wasnt producing the right hormones in the first trimester to keep the pregnancy viable. when they finally found the problem and she got pregnant again.. she suffered from toxemia and they had to induce her labor because her blood pressure became too hgh for safety. being a preemie, he had alot of starter problems with his lungs and nearly didnt make it.. was in neonatal ICU for a couple weeks afterwards. and when he finally did come home.. ALL she did was call him a monster for waking her up crying in the middle of the night.. wouldnt let her sleep.. whine b*tch moan complain!! i told her she should be grateful he cried.. that hearing him scream should be the most enjoyable noise in the world as opposed to the silence at a tiny gravestone.. and it was ultimately why her and i broke up. i couldnt stomach her attitudes towards this child.

Wow! I can not understand these people. they think that marriage or building a family is a bed of roses.

I have a funny feeling, too, that the net and compters have a hand in this problem. When we stay in fromt of the computer, we tend to be alone and less interaction with other people, less exchange of ideas and less learning in how to do things like child rearing. I could be wrong...

welll think about it.. what are we doing right now? are we not exchanging thoughts and ideas? interacting? i dont beleive the internet or any other technology plays a hand in people being heartless a55holes.. theyre just heartless a55holes to begin with.

i am angry to be sure. im a fulltime mommy and housewife.. i take great pride in the carreer ive chosen. im also actively trying to have another child (#3) and all these people having them without thought without want who downright HATE being a parent because of how much time it takes just piss me off to no end. same as you.. i couldnt toss a kitten or a puppy away.. hell even some bugs get some TLC from me alot of the time.. but a baby?? one that spent near a year growing underneath my heart that*I* created?? its unfathomable.

The press brought some attention to it,and they still happen... I think the ones seing this should be those kind of parents,but even so they wouldn't understand much of it..i am sure they wouldn't behave like that if they had a little glimpse of a brain

regardless of the weather.. how bout not leaving a child unattended in a vehicle in the first place? i was waiting outside of a pharmacy once.. and watched this woman pull up curbside.. throw the van in park.. and dash inside leaving her two babies in the backseat with the motor running. she was in there long enough that if id been some psycho. i couldve very EASILLY gotten into that van and drove off. i actually considered driving the thing around the block and parking it there leaving a note on the windsheild reading "you got lucky this time.. dont leave your babies alone" but instead watched that van like a hawk to make sure no one DID actually run off with them and tore her to shreds when she came back out. she blew me off saying "i was only gone a couple minutes!" i wanted to strangle her.

i was a "young" parent.. i was 20 when my first daughter was born. and i was alone with her as her sperm donor (who was 35) didnt want any part of being a father. and while it was hard.. and i didnt have a clue how to change diapers, or fenangle that nose aspirator thingy when she had a cold.. i knew damned well that her crying was simply because she didnt have any other way to communicate to me what she needed and we learned together.

Really?wow,what a sad case... but does she want the kids now?or it was just the judge that took that decision and she has to deal with it?... i hope everything gets solved in the end, and you manage to make a good life on your own,so you can take your kids back
:(

;sigh;

i understand that there isnt wany real way of truly knowing until yer doing it.. but when i hear things like "i didnt know theyd cry so much!!" or "i didnt think id have to change diapers so often!" WTF did they expect? babies are little drooly squishy poop machines! that much at least should be common knowledge.. and if you cannot hack it.. dont frigen have them!