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myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life3 months ago

What can i do to get my husband in a good mood after he comes work???After a long day at work i know my husband is tired and wants to just sit a home and not do anything he also is a little cranky when he gets home too from being at work all day...
So my questions are to you are: how can i get my husband in a a good mood after work??
How can i get him to want to do anything after work???How can i get him interested in going on a date with me???
I want my husband to be happy as i can't make him..


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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. bigtom1 (831)   ranked 5,296 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

You should know what your husband likes and doesn't by now. lol. its hard to answer if you dont know their personality. I say suprise him with some Flattery!


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

Thank you for advice.. Thank you for you the response...

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. ishralene09 (1106)   ranked 5,155 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

Hmm...surprise him? A little surprise would do. If he's really tired then...Nah, I'm not good when it comes to moods but cheesy ones like aromatherapy candles and dinner combined might work...talk to him in a very passionate way? Haha, or give him a massage or something, to loosen up the tension. Sometimes cheesy aproaches are, well cheesy, but sometimes they do deliver good results.


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

Thank you for the advice.. And thank you for your response..

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. katsmeow1213 (1814)   ranked 77 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

You need to let him relax and unwind without nagging him to go out somewhere. He spends all week being out, and just wants to be in his house relaxing.
To get your fill of going out, you should do so with your girlfriends while he is at work. That way once he gets home, you will want to do nothing but relax and watch TV as well.


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

thank you i will let him relax than... No rush in going out... Thank you for the advice and thank you for that response..


myLot reputation of 98/100. katsmeow1213 (1814)   ranked 77 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

If you really want to do dates, ask him in advance if he will take you out somewhere on one of his days off. That way he will know in advance instead of assuming he can relax, only to find you want to go out.


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

Okay thank you i will let him know in advence.. thank you very much for the advice thank you for the response..

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. Remembering1996 (1498)   ranked 4,596 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

I can understand how you feel but after a long day at work I know I don't want to come home and want to run right back out again I want to sit and rlax. Maybe afer a few hours then I wouldn't mind it but an hour after I got home no I wouldn't.
Let your husband come home wind down a little maybe get a shower in relax a little then try asking him if he wants to go out. I know I would just be glad he was home with me maybe you can just sit down together and watch a movie or something play some cards or talk with a couplpe of drinks and just relax. I do hope he does decied to change his mind for you and go out but if not then try the other things I mentioned I wish you the best of luck and have fun in what ever you two do together.


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

Knowing that it is friday and he doesn't have to work i think it would go for us to go one a date while we still have the money.. I haven't been on a date in awhile so i was thinking tonight could be a special for us..

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. ljegbers (5761)   ranked 221 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

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myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. bamakelly (2080)   ranked 264 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

I am also a married woman. I have always went with the idea of just letting him go for a little while and let him be cranky. It is probably nothing personal although sometimes you might take it that way. I take it personally sometimes.
Sometimes people just need some space to collect their thoughts at the end of the day. Everyone has a bad day from time to time. It is just normal.
Just prepare a nice meal or have a cold drink ready for him when he comes home.
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myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

No i would never take is that way i know its not my fault that he is in a bad mood.. So i don't tkae it that way... I know that it is work that has put him in such a bad mood.. I know he has a bad dad fro time to time i just want to know how to make it better for him when he get home... Thank you for the response....

 
7. myLot reputation of 93/100. sedel1027 (11908)   ranked 926 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

If you are home, make sure he has a cold drink and dinner is well on its way to hitting the table. His fave desert or alcoholic beverage will go a long way. My husband actually likes to go places after he gets off of work. When we have the money we do go out to eat almost as soon as he gets home.


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

See we really don't live alone we live with another couple for the time being and i really don't cook cause the other wife does the cooking.. I do know how to cook just don't do much cooking here.. Thank you for the response..


myLot reputation of 93/100. sedel1027 (11908)   ranked 926 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

Wow that must be tough. My ex and I lived with another couple for awhile while waiting for his spousal military benefits kicked in so we could afford the place. It was really hard. I always felt like we were in the way even though we - or at least I - was more than welcome to stay there as long as we wanted.


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

Yeah we are military to my husband is in the marines... and we though this woud be bes for us to get on our feet and not that i am on my feet i want to move out..


myLot reputation of 93/100. sedel1027 (11908)   ranked 926 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

LOL I had a feeling. There was just something in your m=post that rang military wife to me.

My current husband is ex Army and almost went into the Corps last year. They messed up his paperwork and stopped calling, only to call back 2 months later and say that they were sorry that the was lost in the shuffle and he could leave whenever. At that point he had a new car and was making $60K a year - I think not. I am so glad he didn't though. I didn't like the fact that they couldn't say that he could send money home to me to help cover the rent and for basic and combat training he would be gone for so long. The upside would be that we wouldn't be so screwed right now since he lost his job.

We have a good friend who has been in the corps for about a year and he is so miserable. He like military life, but doesn't like the people round him (apparently where he is station they have a huge drug and under aged drinking problem).

 
8. myLot reputation of 93/100. Vladilyich1 (772)   ranked 4,203 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

I come home pretty much the same way. My wife greets me naked...that usually perks me right up.


myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (14726)   ranked 182 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

Usually? I'd say ALWAYS!:)

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myLot reputation of 89/100. alori61 (232)   ranked 1,800 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

LOL you two are too cute! But if this is your routine uh you must not have young uns running around. But you know I would make it a habit of coming home crumpy if I thought I was going to be greated like that.:)


myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (14726)   ranked 182 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

Actually I am the youngest person in my husband's family!! tehehehehe I'm the "younger woman." He's been married before, and I'm younger than the kids. LOL LOL LOL

No, we have our own apartment, and only the dog and cat to intrude (which they do, at times). LOL

Thanks for making me laugh.


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

You know i have never thought about greeting him naked when he gets home...I should try thatlol.. I will try that and see if that works if it does than i will do it everyday, well not everyday only on the days that i think he has had a bad day... Thank you for the idea and thank you for the response..

 
9. myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (14726)   ranked 182 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

As you can see, my husband responded to this comment right above this response. When he comes home from work and sees me sitting there, he completely forgets all about his crappy work day.


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

You know i have never thought about doing that... thats is a great idea....I will try that the next time that i think he has had a bad day.. I don't wanna do it everday cause it might wore it out and i don't want to do that... I want it to work every other time.. thank you for the idea and thank you for the response...

 
10. myLot reputation of 95/100. wisedragon (2185)   ranked 4,919 out of 27,785 in life   3 months ago

While he's sitting down, stand behind him and give him a massage on the neck/shoulder/upper back area. If he doesn't appreciate that he's hopeless!


myLot reputation of 82/100. pixiedustforyou2008 (1018)   ranked 736 out of 27,785 in life  3 months ago

I guess that i should start doing that more often again.. I use to give him a massage every weekend when he would come down and see me when we lived two hours away from each other but no i don't do it as often as i use to before we got married... So i guess i shoud start doing that again..

 
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