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myLot reputation of 89/100. beautyqueen26 (7387)   ranked 328 out of 18,100 in relationships3 months ago

Tonight, my spouse left for work as usual, for night shift.
And about an hour later, there he was again, knocking on the door!

And of course, you know what I was thinking!

I figured that maybe he got laid off work or fired.

A million thoughts racing through my mind.

He didn't make the matter any better.

He had six bags of groceries (bought at all night Walmart)
and he acted so happy!

I couldn't figure it out. If he'd been fired, he would be all mopey.

Turns out they only need him three days this week.

Could be worse! At least he still has a job.

What would you think if your spouse came home early from work?

Would you think he or she had lost their job?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. sid556 (5152)   ranked 933 out of 18,100 in relationships   3 months ago

With my ex husband...yes, that is exactly what my first reaction would have been because he got fired from so many jobs. He was an alcoholic and was constantly getting caught...getting fired. I did live with a man for several years whom if he had come home early, my first thought would have been...are you sick? hurt?. He was an excellent worker and so I would have been shocked had he been fired. Even when his place had a lay-off, he was one of their top guys so he never got laid off either. If he came in all happy with lots of groceries, I'd just have to hear the story.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. Ruthep (3311)   ranked 239 out of 18,100 in relationships   3 months ago

Fired or put out.
Where he works it doesn't take a whole lot for them to give people their walking papers so I know there is a chance that could happen anytime.
They like yes men and my honey is definitely not a yes man.
So if he came home early that would be the case or the casino caught on fire.


myLot reputation of 89/100. beautyqueen26 (7387)   ranked 328 out of 18,100 in relationships  3 months ago

I worry about my guy.
He doesn't like playing yes man either.
It's not good for finances.

I try to help him work out the rough spots
of his job and deal with the pressure.

But it's tough, you know!

They wanna be themselves, but they have
bills to pay.

I guess if he were in his dream job, he'd
do everything he could to hang onto it.

Right now, feels like this is just an in-between
thing until his or my business takes off.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Ruthep (3311)   ranked 239 out of 18,100 in relationships  3 months ago

Mine would just like to tell them to shove it but he stays for us.
But someday he may snap. He has taken it a lot longer than I ever thought he would.
Yours knows how important it is to have money just like mine days. He'll take it as long as he has to.


myLot reputation of 89/100. beautyqueen26 (7387)   ranked 328 out of 18,100 in relationships  3 months ago

It's amazing what guys do for their families
and the junk they put up with!

 
3. myLot reputation of 34/100. Swede_59 (152)   ranked 12,482 out of 18,100 in relationships   3 months ago

There can be many reasons why a person come home early from work.
It doesn´t always means that you have lost your job.

But these days,it´s quite popular that many of us have been fired


myLot reputation of 89/100. beautyqueen26 (7387)   ranked 328 out of 18,100 in relationships  3 months ago

The fear of job loss is constantly with us
cause it's happened before.

Noone's job is safe anymore!


myLot reputation of 34/100. Swede_59 (152)   ranked 12,482 out of 18,100 in relationships  3 months ago

And it´s harder for us who are elderly.
Too many employer want to have only young staff.
Beacuse they are cheaper to engage.
And often,they don´t argue.


myLot reputation of 89/100. beautyqueen26 (7387)   ranked 328 out of 18,100 in relationships  3 months ago

The youth culture rules, especially in America
and some of the other countries.

Noone values experience anymore.

 
4. elaine5004 (59)   ranked 12,664 out of 18,100 in relationships   3 months ago

I finished working for a Company that sent people home early when it was slow. It is hard not to think the worst when you get sent home early in the current economy. It is great the Company does try and keep staff when it is slow, although it may cut the hours. Try not to jump to conclusions, if the hours are cut back, try and figure out how to adjust for the loss of income, enjoy the extra time you have together and try to be as supportive as possible, I know it crossed my mind a lot if they went around letting people go home early if I would be looking for a job sooner than I wanted. I am sure your spouse has that in the back of his mind too. At least he stocked up on food so the two of you wouldn't go hungry. Mine wouldn't have thought about groceries, stocking up at the beer store maybe, but not groceries. That's why he is my ex.

 
5. myLot reputation of 98/100. moneyandgc (2908)   ranked 1,472 out of 18,100 in relationships   3 months ago

Well, my husband is military so no I would not think he lost his job. I am always really happy when he gets home from work early. He came home from work all week at least a couple of hours early. He gets paid the same, so it is always a bonus.

 
6. myLot reputation of 79/100. notlistening2 (3284)   ranked 5,473 out of 18,100 in relationships   3 months ago

Yes that would be my first thought, I would ask him why is he home so early?

 
7. myLot reputation of 91/100. zandi458 (1776)   ranked 792 out of 18,100 in relationships   3 months ago

That is the last thing that cross my mind if my spouse suddenly appears at the front door. Employers would not hire and fire employees at their whims and fancy. They are answerable to the labor law if they dismiss an employee on a 24 hours notice. He could be feeling unwell so taking an early off. wink

 
8. myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7203)   ranked 942 out of 18,100 in relationships   3 months ago

On the times my partner has come hoem early from work,
I yell Yahoo you have been fired.
No such luck, he had been to the doctors one more time for stitches.
I hate the job he does at the moment.
He is always getting injured.
He is not the only one either.
Almost every week, one of the workers need stitches.
The company he work's for are horrible to their workers.
He was in a much safer job when he was working several hundred feet up in the air.


myLot reputation of 89/100. beautyqueen26 (7387)   ranked 328 out of 18,100 in relationships  3 months ago

Oh no! That is so sad.
I'm sure that it's hard to have him leave
everyday, wondering if he will be safe.

 
9. myLot reputation of 73/100. everlasting (10037)   ranked 261 out of 18,100 in relationships   3 months ago

No. I will just assume something happened and not that. He owns the shop where he works and being out od job is put of the question.

 
10. myLot reputation of 84/100. chandu245 (170)   3 months ago

I don't think so if my spouse come early from the work then i think she may forgotten her bag or her napkin or any file which is important to her to their company. I never think that she had lost her job. Because i hab confident that she was that much of good in behaviour and sensior in her work.

 
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