UPDATE on : I want to save my marriage - ideas?  

It isn't exactly what I want I mean moving back to FL means a lot of changes for us but I truly think good ones. I understand your not really getting it because even the people close to us don't. But the only way I can say it is there is him, me, and us. He is happier in FL, I am happier in FL, WE are happier in FL. So because we will be happier the US will be happier.

Maybe I will not really be able to figure it out myself. The important thing in here is that the communications line was opened and emotions flowed out of it and you are happy with the results of that communications. Sometimes its all about communications that link a marriage to grow. That is why make the line always open to each other and be mindful of what you and the other feels. Congratulations for that big effort of yours

Thank you again for all the words of encourgement! In a month or so we will be leaving for FL so I will update again same discussion tital!

Said a prayer for that house to sell. Be sure to bake something(loaf of bread, cinnamon rolls, sugar cookies) on the days you show it! It's said to influence the buyer by an amazing percentage. It gives them a 'homey' feel to the place. No fooling, try it! God bless!

Funny you say that my real estate agent was over last night and asked me to get some apple pie scented candels for the days that he is showing the house. I can't bake LOL! He said the sented candels would work just fine. So thats next on the list of things to buy.

There ya go, anything cinnamon or vanilla! Try sugar cookie, cinnamon roll, or pie ones. Also get the ones that really smell like the real thing. Those others are so off that they smell nasty instead.

Perfect - thank you!

ANY advice you give me is kept close to my heart! Thank you again. I will email you later with more info.

Excellent point red! Wise words from a wise woman! Aren't we proud of this gal-eb? Woohooooo! Holding on to keep holding on!

Believe me things aren't perfect yet they are far from it. But this is truly our new begining. Things will be as good as they once were. Thank you again for your post on the first discussion.

Thank you again for the words of encourgement! I will update again in a few weeks.

All the best with organising your move back, too. Again, I can't tell you how happy I am for you.

Yes it is going to cost us a lot of money to move BUT we are lucky enough to have my parents there to help. My parents own a condo as well as the house they live in. They have been trying to rent the condo so they said they are willing to continue to pay for it until we get on our feet.

I grew up in Cape Coral 20 years there! (I'm sure you know where it is) We met there and moved here to PA about 2 years after that. Now going back to the Cape. Hope it turns out alright just scared about the job hunting at this point. I know there isn't a lot down there. He has a few leads already I don't but I'm sure some thing will come up. At least its a pretty good place to raise a child. I think my daughter will love it.

Yep, I know where Cape Coral is. I've never been there ... but there's always tomorrow.

Next time I hit the lottery big, I can take a side trip from Fort Meyers to Cape Coral.

:D

Where in PA were you?? I have found that a lot of people here in Pittsburgh either have places in Cape Coral / Fort Myers or go there for vacation once in a while. Its like the cities are paralle to each other.

EB, I was in Whitehall, but not the Whitehall in the Pittsburgh area; the one in the Allentown area ... nestled about halfway between Philly and New York.

eb you live in the pittsburg area. I love going shopping there during the weekends. LOL!! Again congrats on keeping it going and I hope the move works. I live in a smaller town about 45 minutes to and hour east of Pittsburg. Pm and we can talk more if you want ebaysharer.

My husband and daughter are leaving the first week of Septemeber and I will follow once he finds a job that way we will continue to at least have one income the whole time. We are going to Cape Coral / Fort Myers area in Southwest FL. I grew up there and its where we met also is where my family is. We still have a house to sell here in PA I am hoping that it sells as fast as some of the others in our neighborhood. Cross your fingers for me! We are lucky enough to have my family there in FL that is willing to help a LOT! My parents own a townhouse and it has been sitting so we will move into it. Funny we are going back to where we started. That was our first place together and now could be the last. If we make enough on the house we are going to buy the town house. Wouldn't that be nice! Anyway theres another book for you thank you again for your well wishes and words of encourgment.

I live in southeast palm bay, it's good that you have family here. good luck with everything.