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myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people1 year ago

How many times a day do you hear this said. Store clerks, bus drivers, the bank! Have you ever met anyone (in commerce) that said it and you went away feeling that they said it sincerely and genuinely hoped that you WOULD have a nice day. Cheer me up. I have cynical disbelief in the phrase.

 
 
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Goodie123 (7548) response was accepted on 12/24/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 40/100. angel_of_god (210)   ranked 4,183 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

In NY it is said 10 times a second.

None of it meant but all said with a beaming smile.

I truely mean it when i say it now....HAVE A NICE DAY!

May the power of Christ go with you.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

Thank you.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (20143)   ranked 739 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

Same goes for "how are you doing, today?" Yesterday I have that question asked of me by a doctor and a pharmacist i went to to get some meds the doctor had just prescribed to me. I remember thinking "with the education that these two have had, and the professions they are in, you think they'd know what kind of a day I was having, or how I was feeling. Were I feeling any better, I woudln't have come to visit either one of them!" LOL


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

But they were following store policy. That's why they said such a daft thing. Mind you, I'm not sure that I would want the pharmacist calling after me "Hope the piles ease up today" either. LOL. Personally, I think that a simple "Thank you" does admirably. But then I'm old fashioned.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dizzblnd (1127)   ranked 1,582 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

I "love" that especially when I go to the store, all I have bought is maxi-pads, Midol, and PMS instant heat pads.~SMILE~ "How are you?" I glare at them, look at what is on the conveyor belt and glare back up and them and say "You REALLY have to ask?"

~Smile spontaneously mysteriously disappears~

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3. myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 3,739 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

And that's why I tell people to have a day. I never specify what kind of day to have. Just have one.
Having a day means you are still alive. And being alive beats the alternative.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

Sure does. I think that it was George Burns who said that when asked how he felt on his 90th birthday!!

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. OreoCookie3 (18244)   ranked 435 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

"Have a nice day?" Do they say that in England too? They say it here too.. and it doesn't mean anything other than goodbye. I have no idea why so many people say it.. it is just to have something nice to say in parting. lolDon't even get me started about the South here.. they confused me for the longest time when I first moved here.. they never say what they mean.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

In truth not as much as they used to. But it's still persists in some places. Is the South full of politicians. They never say what they mean either! LOL.


myLot reputation of 94/100. OreoCookie3 (18244)   ranked 435 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

I don't know about the politicians.. but some of the sayings here are: Y'all come back now, hear? and .. Don't rush off... and Get down. Get down means get out of your can and come in. Don't rush off just means see ya later... and the same with Y'all come back now, hear?


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

Two great nations divided by a common language Oreo. LOL.

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7548)   ranked 4,593 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

You can go to 10 different departments in one store,

And each clerk will say "Have a nice day"

All the while saying under their breath "Don't come back annoying me either".

They only say it, because it was part of their training for the job.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

That's it exactly Goodie. So why say it at all. The store doesn't go up in the customer's opinion because they say something fatuous. "Thank you, do call again" does for me.


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7548)   ranked 4,593 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

Yeah I would rather hear just a plain ole "thank you".


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7548)   ranked 4,593 out of 35,144 in people  12 months ago

happy

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6. myLot reputation of 82/100. rjscott (3074)   ranked 888 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

Not really, P1ke. Sure, I've had it said to me, but it always seems to be an automatic way to end a sale or a simple discussion that I've had with someone.

There's one person in Pennsylvania whom I speak with each week, Doris.

She ALWAYS ends our conversation with "I love you, have a WONDERFUL (emphasis on wonderful) week!"

I know that Doris and her husband Ben are sincere when they tell me to have a "WONDERFUL week," but not so in my general dealings with people in my regular week.

I can sense when someone is sincere or when someone is saying something "kind" to end a conversation or dealing ... I've never truly felt that sincerity from strangers.

Memo to self AND P1ke: Continue with your cynicism ... it's probably right on target. (C)2008 RJScott


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

That's it RJ. An auto-response. Not a genuinely held desire that you enjoy your day. The Doris's of this world and they exist everywhere are in a different league. They do care and that's why they say what they do with such feeling.

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7. myLot reputation of 81/100. cyntrow (2693)   ranked 2,082 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

Generally, when I say Have a nice day, I mean it. I'm a very upbeat kind of person and it's what I feel. However, if someone gives me crap and has made my day horrible, I do give them my biggest fake smile and say "have a nice day" which is a euphomism for "phuck off." they don't know, don't care, and we all walk away satisfied. LMAO


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

Seems a good ploy. Only you know what you really mean and they have heard something that is usual.


myLot reputation of 87/100. ladygator (1107)   ranked 5,321 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

So you are one that doesn't mean it... aye. HaHa. I am pretty much the same as this. However when I grit my teeth telling you have a nice day, you know I DONT mean it. However about 90% of the time that I tell someone have a nice day I mean it. I will go out of my way when I see someone down just to tell that have a nice day, week, evening..... I am a firm believer that one day when my times are tough, or my families someone will have smile and heartfelt smile.


myLot reputation of 78/100. debny711 (253)   ranked 6,239 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

I SAY IT A FEW TIMES A DAY AND I MEAN IT. I WORK IN SEARS AND WE HAVE TO SAY IT AFTER A SALE, THE CUSTOMER ALSO SAYS IT. SOME MEAN IT OTHERS ARE JUST BEING NICE. Sorry about the caps I just realized it was on.

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8. abigailcherry (90)   ranked 6,813 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

I have had a few experiences where a clerk or someone I was doing business with said it in a cheerful manner. However, for the most part, I think people just say it because they are trained to say it. It's sort of like people asking you, "How are you?" and you saying, "Fine." It's just a routine that doesn't mean anything. People very rarely want to know how you are really doing. In the same way, most people who say Have a Nice Day! really care what happens to you after you leave their store. Sorry to not have a cheer-you-up kind of answer, but that is my honest answer.


abigailcherry (90)   ranked 6,813 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

Oops, I meant to say Most people who say it DON'T really care what happens after you leave!


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

I think that your answer nicely reinforces my cynicism. People say it because it is expected and demanded by stores. "Thank You" would do just as well. Thank you. LOL.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. nannacroc (2354)   ranked 68 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

Sorry I can't cheer you up because I rarely hear this said in this area and when I do I really want to ask if they care. There is actually one bus driver that says this on occassions but not to everyone and not by rote, she really means it but she is in the minority.


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

Ah but Beduff is an imaginary place where everything is sugar and sweet. Grandmas are soppy and nobody has any problems. They don't need to say it, you just "know". LOL.


myLot reputation of 98/100. nannacroc (2354)   ranked 68 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

Letting your imagination run wild again or maybe thinking of the town in your younger days.

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10. myLot reputation of 94/100. gemini_rose (10117)   ranked 476 out of 35,144 in people   1 year ago

I have been sitting here trying to think of someone that may have said this to me. I have come up with nothing, no one has said this to me. Perhaps they do not want me to have a nice day!


myLot reputation of 95/100. dizzblnd (1127)   ranked 1,582 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww (((((((((((gemini))))))))))) Have a Nice Day. lol wink


myLot reputation of 94/100. gemini_rose (10117)   ranked 476 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

blush Awwwww, thanx!happy


myLot reputation of 97/100. p1kef1sh (5630)   ranked 108 out of 35,144 in people  1 year ago

Maybe folk are more down to earth in your part of the World. Next time I'm in Staffs I shall listen carefully!! LOL. You've not missed too much.

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