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myLot reputation of 91/100. Bd200789 (1969)   ranked 799 out of 38,061 in life1 year ago

Last night at the debate John McCain mentioned people who are "pro-abortion" several times. I honestly can't understand why he calls people who are pro-choice that. I don't agree with abortion, but I don't feel it is my place to tell another woman how to live her life. What do you think? Do you feel that there are people who are pro-abortion?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 81/100. Barbietre (1237)   ranked 2,303 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

You are absolutely right. I do not know if I would ever do it myself, but I think it should be a woman's choice. I had my tubes tied when I was 26 so I would not ever have to worry about making that kind of choice. Personally I am insulted by McCain's calling anyone that name.


myLot reputation of 90/100. mcat19 (1021)   ranked 5,687 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

I'm also insulted that he sneered at a woman's health being a reason to have an abortion. When I was in high school, a friend of mine died from a back room abortion. I will never allow that to happen again if I can help it.


myLot reputation of 73/100. thedogshrink (685)   ranked 2,695 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

There is a reason for the sneer at "for the health of the woman". That is a loop hole of sorts that Democrats put into legislation because legally it can mean anything. Legally, she just didn't want to have the baby. Republicans are completely FOR a clause which says for the life of the mother, or other specific physical health. But health of the mother just basically means that if she doesn't want the baby a doctor can just say it's not best for her health. This is a trick that the Dems keep using to mess up bills and legislation, and make pro life people look like they don't even care about the mother, which is so far from the truth it's ridiculous.


myLot reputation of 81/100. Barbietre (1237)   ranked 2,303 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

That is nonsense. And no offense but why is it always blamed on the DEMS? You are a fool if you think all Republicans are all anti choice or all Dems are Pro Chice. And we are NOT for abortions we are FOR you or anyone else not making a personal decision. What right do you have to tell a peraon what to do with their body, that is a personal choice, not yours or anyone else.


myLot reputation of 73/100. thedogshrink (685)   ranked 2,695 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

Why so angry? First, I never said all Dems are for and all Repubs are against. I just stated a simple fact -- and it is a fact -- of what the argument is about the phrase, "for the health of the mother".


myLot reputation of 46/100. GloomCookieLex (2193)   ranked 5,260 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

No, it's not a fact, it's your interpretation. There are hundreds of things that can effect a woman's mental and physical health that aren't life threatening, they are quality of life threatening. And putting "to save the life of the mother" literally means only that. If you're going to die, you can get one. If not, then just suck it up. That is BS.

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. mcat19 (1021)   ranked 5,687 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

No one I know is pro-abortion. That's totally absurd. Pro-choice folks believe that the government has no business making these decisions for a woman. She should make her own decisions about how to run her life. She can consult her doctor, her religious leader, her family and her conscience. Saying pro-abortion is a rightwing distortion of truth. They are very good at grabbing the message.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Bd200789 (1969)   ranked 799 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

That's how I feel. I don't think it's the government's job to make that decision. I was appalled that John McCain would say what he did last night.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Celanith (1852)   ranked 2,153 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

I have to agree with this 100% it is not the business of the government to interfere in our personal choices and lives of anyone yet consistently they do in many areas of our life. From having children, to raising, educating them and training them. The interfere in the moral and ethics of peoples beliefs and rights. This is exactly one of the reasons our forefathers made the much abused and mis-used 1st amendment. Women have a right under the first amendment to chose. It has to do with belief, creed and yet we have laws that consistently undermine this amendment. It is time we tell government to butt out. Why because even God gives us the freedom of choice. There maybe consequences for the choice sooner or later but it is a right and freedom that is even God given. Well said Mcat19

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. gitfiddleplayer (5050)   ranked 2,526 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

Because if you're pro choice then the majority says you're going to have an abortion. Pro choice makes it so friendly, call it what it is. Either you are for abortion or against it, pro life. It isn't the point of telling someone how to live their life, it comes down to the choice they make with a pregnancy, notice I didn't say unplanned pregnancy, we as humans do not decide when a child will be conceived, sure there are ways to make conceiving more targeted but we do not decide when human life will be created. That's for God to decide so to call those people pro abortion instead of pro choice really puts a face on it. Its not PC and who frickin cares about that anyway, its the truth, its designed to make people think about somebody besides themselves. Also, Roe v. Wade was not about a womans right to choose, its about when human life begins. People need to read that law to know what the heck it really says, but try saying that to a person who doesn't know, they will just shout louder about some silly slogan on a sign. Those people who have had no remorse will wish they had listened when it all comes down.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Bd200789 (1969)   ranked 799 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

I completely disagree. "Because if you're pro choice then the majority says you're going to have an abortion."? I am against abortion, but it isn't the government's place to tell another woman what to do with her life. So, yes, I am pro-choice, but I could never have an abortion myself. Look, I am not the only woman in the world. Not everyone agrees that abortion is morally wrong. You cannot legislate morality.


myLot reputation of 96/100. gitfiddleplayer (5050)   ranked 2,526 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

I agree, God and government don't hold hands. Then you should be pro life instead of pro choice if you don't agree with abortion. How about pro adoption, where's the argument for that worthy cause?


myLot reputation of 65/100. anniepa (9190)   ranked 1,647 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

I say if you don't agree with abortion then don't have one. You have no right to tell anyone else what to do if they're faced with what to them may be a desperate situation. Those who can't just mind their own business regarding this issue could put their time to much better use by working to decrease the number of unwanted pregnancies as well as improve conditions for those who feel abortion is their best or ONLY real option.
Annie


myLot reputation of 92/100. Celanith (1852)   ranked 2,153 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

First let me clarify I am totally against abortion for any reason. However I am also against the government telling anyone what to do in their personal life.
We have the political vs the moral ethics.

Here is the situation. Under our constitutional laws of the USA we have freedoms. Amendment 1 part one Says "Congress shall make no law respecting the establishment of religion (meaning they cannot make one religious order over and above the others) or prohibiting the free exercise thereof. (This gives people the right to choose what they believe and why) The rest of us have no right to impose our values, belief or creed or morals on others anymore than they have a right to impose it on us. That is why the government should not be involved with a womans right to choose they violate the 1st amendment.

Second lets look at it from a moral, religious view what does God have to say about it? Matt: 7:1 Judge NOT that you be not judged, for with what judgement you judge it will be judged. Judgement for what people choose is reserved for God. We have no right to judge others choice; We have the right to disagree with them and the right to choose different than them but we have no right to impose our belief on them.

God knows why a woman chooses to abort an unborn fetus a child his gift. He will judge them and we don't have the right to do so. If they were or are wrong he and he alone will deal with that. It is NOT between you and them. It is between you and God. Some may not believe in God that is their right and choice.

So though I do not agree abortion for any reason is Okay that is my belief and my right to believe it. If my sister believes the opposite it is her right to choose and beleive abortion is okay. I believe it is murder she may not. God says in Romans 12:19; Repay no one evil for evil, Have regard for the good things in the sight of men. If it is possible as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men (women) Beloved do NOT avenge yourselves but rather give place to wrath for it is written, Vengeance is mine, I will repay saith the Lord.

What some are point out in the discussion is the government has no right to impose a law one way or another under the 1st amendment laws. They are not supposed to make these type of decisions, yet they do.

A Christian has no more right over a Buddist or a Buddist over a Muslim, Or a pro-choice over a pro-life. That is the problem with Obama and McCain and all politicians who should never have got involved in ethical and moral religious affairs in the first place.


myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,390 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

What does God say about it? Thou shall not kill.

You are mistaken in your interpretation of not judging, the injunction is not to judge the person, not against judging the act.

all the best urban


myLot reputation of 87/100. shewolf52002 (622)   ranked 1,868 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. drannhh (7358)   ranked 1,114 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

Yes, there are people who are pro-abortion. These include the zealots who want schools to arrange for secret abortions for children who don't want to tell their parents they are pregnant. The parents are legally responsible for their children, but the school steps in and not only usurps parental authority but hides the fact that they did it.

There are also zealots who are anti-abortion. Some of them also commit despicable acts. What people need to understand is that the term pro-choice means by definition that if a woman wants to keep her baby, she has that choice, too.

Pro-choice does NOT mean that women have ONLY the right to choose to abort. That is not a choice. The door has to swing both ways in a free society. People need to cast aside the hatred they have for the so-called opposite political parties which if they only knew it a pretty much the same under the skin, and to work together to safeguard all of the rights we all cherish. Otherwise, homo sapiens are going to be the next endangered species.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Bd200789 (1969)   ranked 799 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

Thanks, drannhh! I wish other people felt that way.


myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,390 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

All who advocate the freedom of woman to choose to abort are by implication pro-choice. To say they are not is dishonest.

all the best urban


myLot reputation of 95/100. drannhh (7358)   ranked 1,114 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

Yes, but my point is that it is also pro-Choice to have the right NOT to abortk, and it is as important to safeguard the rights of one view as of the other. Thanks for your input.


myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,390 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

oops my previous post should have read;

All who advocate the freedom of woman to choose to abort are by implication pro-abortion. To say they are not is dishonest.

all the best urban

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. jerzgirl (2719)   ranked 149 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

There's a fine line of distinction between a lot of things, but I do generally believe that to be pro-choice, you must approve of abortion as a method of birth control, which I don't. So, I guess that would make someone who's pro-choice also pro-abortion. I do accept abortion as a medical necessity in certain situations and I can even understand why someone would get an abortion after learning they're pregnant. What I do NOT understand is why anyone would regularly choose abortion over prevention or why anyone would wait until late term to decide to terminate when the baby is fully viable, when you can feel the life inside you. cry

I'm not sure what that makes me, although I'm sure in the eyes of the far right, I am pro-abortion. I seriously do hate the idea of killing a child (and it IS a child! I'm sorry, but being a "product of conception" only the day before your birthday is semantics - not reality). I don't have a problem with emergency contraceptives (morning after pills) or even IUDs because many a fertilized egg passes from a woman in her life without her even knowing about it, simply because it didn't adhere to the uterine walls. I don't believe it was become "life" yet. Each of our cells are "alive", yet they aren't "life". But, once that zygote is implanted into the lining of the uterus and has begun the process of forming a placenta and embryonic sac, then it is a living organism - perhaps in need of its host more at first than later, but still living, growing and feeling. Despite this, I recognize instances where an abortion may be an unfortunate necessity. And, even then, only early in the term. sad

I won't go into detail of my thoughts on late term abortions, but the rare instances of acceptability for the procedure do exist; however they are so few that I can't see a huge need for it at all. At that point, just give the baby up for adoption! People already know you're pregnant. It's too late to save face now, so give the child a chance for life. So many people would LOVE to love your child. confused


myLot reputation of 65/100. anniepa (9190)   ranked 1,647 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 91/100. Bd200789 (1969)   ranked 799 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

I can't believe anyone could choose abortions as a method of birth control.


myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,390 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

Yet many do

all the best urban

 
6. myLot reputation of 65/100. anniepa (9190)   ranked 1,647 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

I can't imagine that there's anyone who is actually "pro-abortion"! In my opinion that phrase is an inaccurate as the anti-choice crowd calling themselves "pro-life" because for some reason many of them don't seem to realize that life continues after the pregnancy has been brought to term.

Notice McCain wants no part of working with the "other side" on decreasing the number of abortions and the reasons some women and girls feel the need to seek abortions. That's because, in my opinion, they don't want the issue to ever go away because they want to continue to use it to divide people. Now that's what I call "pro-life"!
Annie


myLot reputation of 73/100. thedogshrink (685)   ranked 2,695 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

Who said McCain isn't interested in working to resolve the reasons women and girls feel the need to seek abortions? Why are you putting words in the man's mouth?
McCain believes it is a matter for the states to decide, and he said that during the debate last night. He said NOTHING about not being willing to work with anyone to decrease abortions and the reasons some women have them! He's NEVER said anything like that! AND in fact, McCain's record shows he is ALWAYS willing to work with the "other side" on every issue.

 
7. myLot reputation of 74/100. JoMarch (2207)   ranked 3,093 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

you know, those people who call pro-choice people "pro-abortion" are the same who call themselves "pro-lifers" and yet go around bombing cliniques with pregnatn women in them...i too am pro-choice and yet consider abortion close to murder...yet i have NO right to tell another woman what to do with her utero...i didnt want to have a said in it even when my gf was faced with that decision, i only wanted to give her my support no matter*HER* choice, so i dont see why i would have to decide for someone else...but this doesnt make me pro-abortion...actualy pro-choicers are more pro-life than the self-appointed pro-lifers since by giving a woman the right to abortion you give her the right to live and not die of a backalley abortion!


myLot reputation of 73/100. thedogshrink (685)   ranked 2,695 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

I think you'd be very surprised to read the statistics on how many women die from/during abortions, now that they are legal, NOT when they were illegal.


myLot reputation of 74/100. JoMarch (2207)   ranked 3,093 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

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8. myLot reputation of 50/100. Taskr36 (4565)   ranked 16,804 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

I will say YES, there are people who are PRO-Abortion. I've even seen several on mylot. I consider there a difference between pro-abortion and pro-choice. If someone insists they would never have an abortion and they don't support it but they don't feel they have a right to tell someone else what to do, I can understand that as being pro-choice.

When a woman says it's necessary as birth control, or starts referring to unborn children as parasites and benign tumors, that makes them pro-abortion. Granted, those statements are pretty extreme and not all pro-abortion people will be that blatant. I have seen those statements on mylot numerous times. The people who speak that way are more common in the religion part of the forum so you won't see as many of them in politics.


myLot reputation of 79/100. RaiscaraAvalon (161)   ranked 6,256 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

Lol I called my daughter a parasite throughout my pregnancy. You'll be pleased to know that she is a healthy and happy 5 year old.:p

But I get your point.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Bd200789 (1969)   ranked 799 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

"When a woman says it's necessary as birth control, or starts referring to unborn children as parasites and benign tumors, that makes them pro-abortion. Granted, those statements are pretty extreme and not all pro-abortion people will be that blatant. I have seen those statements on mylot numerous times. The people who speak that way are more common in the religion part of the forum so you won't see as many of them in politics."

I've never seen those statements on here. It's hard to believe anyone could say such a thing.


myLot reputation of 50/100. Taskr36 (4565)   ranked 16,804 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

It may be hard to believe, but it happens. Trust me, I couldn't make that kind of crap up.

 
9. myLot reputation of 79/100. RaiscaraAvalon (161)   ranked 6,256 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 73/100. thedogshrink (685)   ranked 2,695 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

When Roe vs Wade happened, science was unable to determine when life starts. It was up for debate and opinions, because they really just didn't know. They didn't know if it was just cells until a certain month or what. But now they do know. I don't believe you can any longer find a medical doctor or scientist stating that the fetus is not a life from the moment of conception, a human life.
You said "it's not a living, breathing entity for pete's sake." Yes, it IS. It IS a human LIFE, end of story. Whether it is moral or OK, to end that life is the question, NOT is it a life.


myLot reputation of 79/100. RaiscaraAvalon (161)   ranked 6,256 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

Wow, did you waste 5 minutes of your time.:p I was discussing that the CHOICE isn't a living, breathing entity, not the fetus. Please point to one section when I disavowed that a fetus was living? Thanks for your comment though.:)


myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,390 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. tamarafireheart (12494)   ranked 397 out of 38,061 in life   1 year ago

Hi Bd200789,


I really don't understand al this politics but I do agree with on you, its up to the women, its their bodies.

Tamara


Lilchele36 (64)   ranked 15,849 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

How can you say that it's up to the women? Who speaks for the child? NOONE has the right to kill another human being! "their bodies"? That baby is not "their body"!!!


myLot reputation of 16/100. ColdSunshine (513)   ranked 9,880 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

"not their body"

But the FETUS is a parasite living off of the mother's body, therefore, like a cancerous tumor, she can do with it what she pleases.

Don't like it? Then don't get an abortion!


myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,390 out of 38,061 in life  1 year ago

No, go look up the definition of parasite. The foetus is not a parasite.

It is human and it is alive, by any definition. Killing it is taking human life.

all the best urban

 
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