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myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind10 months ago

Many of us fail to realize that life for most people has its unbearable moments. We must face a constant parade of self misgivings, temporary lapses of confidence, and momentary glimpses of failures and defeats. Each of us wants to be helped over life's rough spots. And it is often said that God gave burdens, also shoulders.

Is there someone whose shoulder you can lean on, even cry on? Are you a good shoulder for your friends? There is a popular saying "The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love." I hope this prove to be true for all of us who are beset with today's life maddening problems.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. riyasam (10895)   ranked 2 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

i do agree with that but usually i find that i am not able to unburden myself completely whrn i am with human friends.thats one of the reasons why i find so much of solace in the chruch and my mother also gives me comfort to some extent.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9087)   ranked 7 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

Welcome back!happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. riyasam (10895)   ranked 2 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

happyi am so glad to be back.


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

Welcome back riya. I hope you are recovering. I am happy that you find solace in the church and hope the good Lord will protect you from all dangers


myLot reputation of 95/100. riyasam (10895)   ranked 2 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

happyhappyhappy

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2. wenwenwang (89)   ranked 126 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

Yes, I have some shoulders to lean on when I'm at my unbearable moments. I don't know whether I'm a good should or not for my friends, but if they have any problems I would like to help them with my best.
Happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

It is refreshing to know that when we are down and out there is someone whom we can count on, as it will undoubtedly ease our pain.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. salonga (4656)   ranked 46 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

Well I think I've been doing my best to be the best friend I could ever be to my friends. I'm glad that whenever they have problems, confidential issues or any prayer request they go to me and ask my help. I may not be perfect but I think they will not trust me that way had I not been a good shoulder for them.


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

Thanks for being wonderful to people who are in problems. They need people like you who are so willing to lend your shoulders to cry on and to give your words of encouragement.

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4. myLot reputation of 79/100. quinnkl (1473)   ranked 93 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

I agree. It is absolutely essential to have the good shoulder for all of us. Though, unfortunately, some of us don't have one. I am fortunate that, although my great friend and shoulder (whose should I gave as often as I received) moved quite a long way away from me many years ago. The internet gave us the shoulders back! You can get through and accomplish so much more with friendship and love. It is so true.


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

Yes, I agree even virtual friends can be a source of confidant when we are at a loss. And mylot friends do it wonderfully if only you reach out to them in trust.

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5. myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9087)   ranked 7 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

Hi! Zandi!
Yes, I can say it with conviction that I could be a good shoulder for my dear friends, whenever they need me. I believe in the philosophy that a 'Friend in need is a friend indeed'. Whenever any of my friends approaches me for my assistance, help, advice or he/she simply wants to share his/her grievance, I remain there for him/her. I know that friends approach me because they trust me and they have faith in me that I'll definitely provide them with some relief. I try to do my best to lessen their problems and difficulties with the my available resources. Like-wise, when I am in trouble or need their help, I approach them, without any kind of hesitation. I think it is mutual and it takes two to tango.


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

I know dpk, you have what it takes to be a trusted friend in all seasons. I have no doubt about thatthumbup. Your smiles bring the world to a standstill, it is so infectious that others just come to you without second thought. You are their source of inspiration and hope. You have the heart for people in need.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9087)   ranked 7 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

I feel flattered and humbled after reading your observations about me. happy Many thanks for the same. thumbup
I did not know that my smile is infectious and it can bring others to standstill. lol

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6. myLot reputation of 88/100. srisankeerth (869)   ranked 127 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

hiiii friend Gud discussion..Yeah offcourse i am the best shoulder for my friends..they will call me where ever they are going and we all be unity..When ever there a problem exists we all become unity and we solve that...And also the first person in my friends..I am the best shoulder for them i think..Gud discussion..happy mylotting..cheers.. happyhappy


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

That is the way it should be.

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11450)   ranked 20 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

everybody nheeds a friend that has a good shoulder. i do have those kind of friends. i have big shoulders for them to. i'm a very good listener.


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

A good listener is a good counsellor. And definitely you have that both.


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11450)   ranked 20 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

thank you. try to be.

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. ivan2000bd (475)   ranked 94 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

oviously i am a good shoulder of some of my frineds. i always want to be there when i see sufferings of my friends. i can give a lot examples in favor of that. few days ago i donated my blood to save mt frieds life and collected money for him. he is ok now.


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

Great, you are a real true friend for those in need.

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9. myLot reputation of 69/100. shiwangipeswani (542)   ranked 52 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

YES iam always ready to help my freinds in anyways.And that saying is absolutely correct no one can take place of a freind.as it said that all other relations are made by destiny but only freindship is the one which we choose.


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

You really have that soft spot in you.


myLot reputation of 69/100. shiwangipeswani (542)   ranked 52 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

thanks,but how can you say that

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10. myLot reputation of 78/100. Nan110 (342)   ranked 79 out of 256 in freind   10 months ago

I'm always there for my friends and I have a good shoulder. I have a very good friend that I can lean on and cry on her shoulder. She's always there for me. We have a special bond between us.


myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5899)   ranked 3 out of 256 in freind  10 months ago

Hi Nan, great you've found a true friend whom you can rely in times of need.

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