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myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life10 months ago

How old are you? 28.
Father with 2 sons: Oh gosh, you are in the prime of your life. So young, just like a baby.

I hate it when people comment on my age this way. 28 is certainly not young in my opinion. I feel as old as a wrinkled potato and I hate people reminding me of it.

How old are you? 28.
18 yr old teenager: Geez, I am so sorry! Uncle, I didn't mean to probe... I just thought you might want to do soccer one of these days but... guess you are too old for it.

Oh thank you kiddie. I have been 18 yr old before so I don't need you to remind me of the stage you are currently at.

Either way my age is perceived (I have yet to come across a response that says it is the perfect age for whatever), I would rather the question be not asked in the first place. It also irks me when people like to ask me my age (whether deliberately or otherwise) during my birthday meals. Then they will start to try calculate it out l-o-u-d when I try to shrug it off. Somehow, some people just don't get it.

So, do you like it when people ask you your age? A resounding YES!? A sombre no? Do you desperately try to raise the question yourself? Do you pretend your ears are stuck? What is your thought on people asking you your age?


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91. myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11449)   ranked 618 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

i could care less. hey, i'm just lucky to be 66. your age is just a number . mine just happens to be a big one.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

66 rocks. lol


myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11449)   ranked 618 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

thanks, i try. lol

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92. myLot reputation of 99/100. catdla1 (2739)   ranked 1,251 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

Age is relative. You can be young without being young, and you can get old without being old. At the wonderful age of 51, I have no qualms telling people who ask. People think I look a lot younger than I am, which is ok with me thumbup, but I don't really care if people ask or not. I am who I am.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

Well, I was really referring to the physical age of our mortal shells. I know I am as young as a toddler up in the brain but body-wise....


myLot reputation of 99/100. catdla1 (2739)   ranked 1,251 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

Body-wise there is a milestone involved. Up to a certain age (or appearance) every one thinks it's their right to know your age, and ask it freely and without hesitation. Then you pass this milestone, and people stop asking. They're too embarassed, or they're aftaid (suddenly) that you'll be offended. And you wonder what happened to that particular question (not that you dwell on it, but it does cross your mind now and again). At that point, there's one more milestone. It's when people think you're older than dirt and wonder why you're still alive. They, again, freely ask your age with the same awe that they wonder how old a mummy is.

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93. myLot reputation of 52/100. bestboy19 (1392)   ranked 1,762 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

Asking my age doesn't bother me. Saying, "Oh you're younger than me" with a confused expression on their face is what bothers me, especially when they are five or more years older.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

Hmm...

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94. myLot reputation of 90/100. aminul8427 (1261)   ranked 1,404 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

Hi friend! I think it is not a decent matter to ask the age of a lady or gent. Sometimes, someone try to make a person happy by exaggerating and telling his/her age as less knowing well that his/her age is more. Sometimes someone tells just opposite, when the the person who is asked, feels embracing and uneasy. We should talk in sense. If someone try to make anybody happy, it may be OK but nobody should put anybody down asking indecent question. Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

I heard of a rule (not sure how widespread it is) that we should not ask a lady her age.

Really, I think the same rule should be applied on guys as well... meaning everyone! w00t


myLot reputation of 90/100. aminul8427 (1261)   ranked 1,404 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

You are very right. There is a rule not to ask the age of lady and salary of an employee. Both are indecent matters. It is also my question, 'why people should ask the age of gents?'.

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95. aidnul (55)   ranked 8,796 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

i really do not mind when people ask my age. I have nothing to hide. When people ask me how old I am, I answer with a "How old to you think I am". I usually get involved in the comments that they make. "OMG you don't look your age at all" and I would go, "I know!" I am 23 and people think I'm 17-18. Last year several people thought I was not old enough to vote/drive. If I always look younger than my age, it's not that bad after all...i think.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

Yea...

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96. myLot reputation of 3/100. siamus (190)   ranked 37,347 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

28 is young. In my opinion it's at the like around the beginning of not being simply young. I'm 30. I feel the same way about myself. Not old but not really that young anymore. You having kids you in some way may be older than me due to the stress that comes with it. I don't have any, I want some though. Yeah, that's the kind of stress that I would welcome any day!


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

You are right. We are not exactly old but definitely not really young anymore. sad

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97. garychie (62)   ranked 22,969 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

For me, it depends on how people ask and on how they comment after they get the answer.
If i am asked politely, i would give a polite answer "22" but if i am by a teen and is being measured by that..haha..this will be my answer "Only Buffalos grow old daarling"


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

Some teens are really childish lol but they are supposed to be (lol I am judging here ha!). rasp

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98. myLot reputation of 64/100. Yori88 (1318)   ranked 5,018 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

I don't care if people ask my age because in the first place I am still young and in my early twenties. But I hate it when they comment negatively in such a way that they are hurting intentionally. I believe that answering the question depends on the intention of the one who ask you and on the way it was asked. If just for the purpose of knowing your age because of what you have accomplished in your life and they admire you for that then it is okay. I may be young but I promise that when I get old I will still be a person young at heart just like my husband who is very young at age and at heart.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

Keep positively. cool

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99. myLot reputation of 93/100. Erssyl (442)   ranked 8,500 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

I don't mind when people ask my age especially when they say I don't look old at my age.I'm proud being 54.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

That's cool. lol

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100. myLot reputation of 77/100. wxc6822 (113)   ranked 3,637 out of 38,421 in life   10 months ago

This is my frist topic.
I come from china.In our country,the people expecially woman will be very unhappy when people ask her age.However, there is an exception that is praising her looks very young.If you are a man,sometimes,it is not important to ask your age.when we konw the age each other,we call borther each.The felling is very affectonate.I am a man,so there is nothing worng when people asking my sge.
My english is poor,please help me! thanks a lot!


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 338 out of 38,421 in life  10 months ago

Hi wxc6822,

Welcome to myLot! Relax, enjoy and have fun! cool

Yup, especially for ladies, age might be particularly sensitive a topic. w00t

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