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myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life10 months ago

How old are you? 28.
Father with 2 sons: Oh gosh, you are in the prime of your life. So young, just like a baby.

I hate it when people comment on my age this way. 28 is certainly not young in my opinion. I feel as old as a wrinkled potato and I hate people reminding me of it.

How old are you? 28.
18 yr old teenager: Geez, I am so sorry! Uncle, I didn't mean to probe... I just thought you might want to do soccer one of these days but... guess you are too old for it.

Oh thank you kiddie. I have been 18 yr old before so I don't need you to remind me of the stage you are currently at.

Either way my age is perceived (I have yet to come across a response that says it is the perfect age for whatever), I would rather the question be not asked in the first place. It also irks me when people like to ask me my age (whether deliberately or otherwise) during my birthday meals. Then they will start to try calculate it out l-o-u-d when I try to shrug it off. Somehow, some people just don't get it.

So, do you like it when people ask you your age? A resounding YES!? A sombre no? Do you desperately try to raise the question yourself? Do you pretend your ears are stuck? What is your thought on people asking you your age?


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51. myLot reputation of 82/100. hiccup (6602)   ranked 6,445 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

Me, when I am asked that question, HOW OLD AM I, I think Im rude to people.

And Ask, whats it matter, Who cares, Tell you next time I remember, haha.

Im over 21 thats it or Im an adult.

HICCUP/


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

drool

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52. myLot reputation of 94/100. marketing07 (2358)   ranked 392 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

some of my student ask my age and i just simply told them to guess it..


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Yea, go figure lol. rasp

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53. myLot reputation of 93/100. mizcash (578)   ranked 8,192 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

It's none of their biz. I tell them, that's a personal question


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Indeed it is. Age is a private matter.

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54. myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10849)   ranked 177 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

When I was younger....I hated it. I looked like a little kid and got treated like one no matter what. If i was at a bar...had to show 3 forms of ID. My husband got weird looks as if he was robbing the cradle altho we were the same age. I was 30 and my 11 year old daughter was assumed to be my sister. No it did not feel like a compliment at all. No one took me serious or most people didn't. I was a woman and I wanted to be treated like one. I took offense at being treated as a child. Heck...I was 25, 26 and upwards and little 18 year olds were talking down to me...as if they were more world wise...they would be shocked when they discovered I was married and much older than them. Enough said...you get the picture. Then I turned 35 and I bought cigs and did not get carded. Great! Then I started getting carded less and less for alcohol! The clerk would look at the beer and then at me and ring it thru. OMG! I look old! Seriously...it hit me like a ton of bricks. went out and bought wrinkle cream and began scrutinizing the mirror. Then I got a grip on it all. I'm now 52 and I really don't care about that stuff. I look younger than 52 but not young. I really don't know. Worrying about those sorts of things will only create more wrinklys. happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

What an "adventure" you have had!

 

myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10849)   ranked 177 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Life is just one big adventure!lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

So it has been bandied around...


myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10849)   ranked 177 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

pretty much!lol

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55. myLot reputation of 99/100. zhuhuifen46 (2677)   ranked 1,085 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

I am ok if asked the question. The issue is whether we are satisfied with our appearance versus our age. It is said, you are as old as you feel yourself. As long as we keep a positive mood and care properly about ourselves in spite of the tedious chores, you will not get annoyed of the question. Take it naturally and face the future with head up in air.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

For me, it is not so much the appearance vs age thingy... I just don't want to be reminded.

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56. myLot reputation of 98/100. cindyhxf (861)   ranked 1,738 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

i don't mind too much if someone ask my age.but it depends on my feeling for the person.if he just a stanger,maybe i don't want to say,just say how old do you guess?or just smile.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Sure thing. If you have good vibes for that person, you will likely not mind as much.

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57. myLot reputation of 96/100. kun2349 (7333)   ranked 326 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

lol=D Age is just a number to me.. Some say, 26 is a young age, but to me, it's quite old^_^ Well, their perspective is different from ours and thus we cant stop them from asking.. hehe

Just take it in our stride, and if anybody were to ask me, i will proudly tell them my age as i'm proud of it.. Also, i dare to say, my fitness level is even far better than those teenagers now, and i will even dare them to challenge me.. lol=D Thus, u see, being old to those teenagers, do have certain advantages to me^_^ hehe


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Yah, 26 is so young LOL. rasp

You fit lor, everyday go gym. blink


myLot reputation of 96/100. kun2349 (7333)   ranked 326 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

lol=D U'r only 28 mah, also very young still.. lol=D I dun go gym everyday, but every other day.. lol=D

There's an advantage of being old, and once u know your strength in your age, u will be able to make use of it, expertly.. lol=D


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Yah lor, flaunt flaunt flaunt lol. Let me guess.. you have gym buddies? Otherwise how to motivate yourself? I can't even force myself to go run nowadays. I used to be able to do it sometimes then go mad with running then fall flat into slack mode. It's really crappy since I used to train competitively for half-marathons and running was literally no sweat for me. Last time 5km feels like a stroll; now 2.4 is like marathon in hell. blink


myLot reputation of 96/100. kun2349 (7333)   ranked 326 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

lol=D Literally opposite.. I dun have gym buddies.. haha=D I motivate myself by not allowing my hard work to go to waste.. hehe^_^ That's why i'm proud of myself for that as i have the right discipline.. lol=D

U trained for half marathon?? That's cool wor.. I have not compete in half marathon yet, but i believe i should be able to do it soon.. hehe^_^ I'm the opposite now..

2.4km is a marathon in hell for u, but it's a breeze to me.. haha=D While 5km to noww is also like a stroll and no sweat for me either.. haha=D

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58. myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2451)   ranked 64 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

I good question. I teach English in Thailand, mainly to university students and working adults. No kids. When we start a new class, we have a getting to know you, and your teacher. Well two questions that come out very early are how old are you? and Are you married? Both considered less than polite in English, but quite natural in Thai.
I answer this in different ways, but usually either tell the truth, or have the students guess. Most guesses are flattering. For your information, I'm sixty-eight.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

I wouldn't really say that age is particularly a taboo topic for the "English culture". I think it is more a universal thing.

If you are a teacher though, I think it is quite acceptable for a student to want to know your age and for you to volunteer it freely (even if you might hate it lol).

68 and going strong! Way to go!! cool


myLot reputation of 98/100. mipen2006 (2451)   ranked 64 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

I have to disagree with you. I would never had asked my teachers their ages. I think it's most impolite, and that's the way I was brought up. Incidently, my mother was a teacher too.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Sure you are disagree. I think we have different mindset all over the place. I guess I just happen to be one of those who think a teacher should freely reveal his/her age. happy

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59. shubham444 (83)   ranked 7,706 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

Yes i like it because i am very much young compared too my class because many are there who hide there age in class and look like uncle in a tudent class.

So if anyone ask my age i love to tell my age.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Gosh...

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60. myLot reputation of 91/100. LisaHW (1511)   ranked 4,675 out of 38,471 in life   10 months ago

If children ask I don't mind, because children tend to ask that kind of stuff. I don't think it's very polite for adults to ask another adult. The people we're close to know how old we are, and the specific age shouldn't matter to people who don't already know. After all, they can look at us and get some rough idea of whether we're student-age, young-parent age, grown-kids age, or grandparent age.

That's all the really need to know. In fact, if we're lucky enough to look "parent of young kids" age, when we're really "parent of grown kids age" - all the better.:)

It gets awkward if someone asks your age, though, because if you look younger than you are their jaw drops when you give them some "horrible sounding" number. If you look far older than you really are, their jaw will drop as they realize how bad you look. It's a lose/lose situation.:)

My thing is I remember what it was like to be 10 or 28 or 35. I remember that 10 isn't a baby but it's a child. 28 is very young, but it isn't a teenager. etc. etc. I don't want to "put down" an adult of 28 by saying his age is "like a baby", but I also don't want some 25-year-old knowing my "number" (take a look at the birthday cake picture on your post and add a couple of years) and imagining that I'm "over the hill".

Then again, I know a lot of elderly people who have kids my age - and they treat me as they treat their own kids (as an adult but as a still-young-side one) - and that's kind of nice.


myLot reputation of 91/100. LisaHW (1511)   ranked 4,675 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

(By the way, I don't think 28 is really the prime of life.:) The best is yet to come.)


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

Indeed, that's why I rather they didn't pop the question in the first place. angry

Lol, sure, the best is yet to come. rasp

 

myLot reputation of 99/100. dana234 (1355)   ranked 1,196 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

I couldn't agree more, Lisa.
It's a question of comparison. I've seen a lot of jaw dropping,lol.


myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 339 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

But it's so so so cliche.

Either you catch someone older than she looks then you go all gaga and get into the act of PLEASE TELL ME HOW YOU KEEP SO YOUNG or you find someone who looks older than his age and you will pretend your mind drifted away and try to change the topic.

So moral of the story: Quit asking about age! rasp


myLot reputation of 91/100. LisaHW (1511)   ranked 4,675 out of 38,471 in life  10 months ago

I agree about "quit asking". If someone thinks it's important for you to know whether they're 30 or 34 they will let you know.

(And by the way, "What year did you graduate from high school" and "How old were you when your 21-year-old child was born" are nothing more than disguised versions of "How old are you?":) )

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