Why girls are like this?

its funny that you fell for a cats claws even before you met her..surely kuwait& france..thats a pretty long distance to trust someone you havent met in person! boy sorry but next time know that we all love strangers.,dont fall for anyone next time..sorry.

Do not get emotional. There is no point in feeling sad about it. If one girl goes, other will come.There are lots of women in this world who will be much better than her. It is good that you came to know it before marriage . So now start again fresh and begin your search for other girl/ girls. Life is too short to cry over a girl.

Blood sucking devil what a description! Not all girls are 'vampires'. Accept the fact that she is not fated to be yours. I know how heart broken you are but this is one lesson you learned 'not to attach too much hope on girls you just meet especially online'. There are merely for entertainment in the virtual world. Life time partner is something you have to be quite selective as it means someone that can be with you in good and bad times and that can compliment your character well.

I understand you are devastated. But look at it this way. She was honest with you and told u before you were married. Isn't that better? Maybe it just happened and she didn't plan it this way. Long distance relationships are very hard to keep up and it takes a lot from both sides....maybe she wasn't as strong as you are.
When I was living in Kuwait, I had a long distance relationship with someone in the UK. And he did break my heart. He didn't even bother to tell me and just stopped all communication even after he got back to India. Though I was heartbroken then, I realized it was better than spending my whole life with such a swine...and moved on with my life.
Not all girls are like that. But it is human nature. Maybe she fell in love with someone...from what I understand, you two never really met and she probably did like you....but she probably met someone she liked better...and you know a real relationship is always stronger than an online relationship. A long distance is usually stronger when the people concerned have already met and established a real time relationship before they move. Then there are more chances of it working (but not always necessary that it should).

Take it easy.....dont think that all girls are like that. But you will get
characters often like that. She could have told you this much early,when the
parents approached her.It is better you are saved now. Otherwiase, she would have married you and continued the affair at France. Search for a better girl. You will get a better match to share your joys and sorrows

No, all girls are not like this, but I think it is somewhat difficult with a long-distant relationship, with two people living in different countries or miles away from each other.

In love, there is rarely rhyme or reason as any one of us can fall in love with somebody out of the blue, as it has indeed happened to me.

I can remember a time when I thought I was never going to meet anybody, and then in a chance meeting, I met the girl who was to become my future wife. However, I have always been aware that where feelings are concerned, there are no guarantees as before getting married, I had girlfriends I was deeply in love with, suddenly meet somebody else and I was dumped.

As I look back on it these days, I can accept that life is like that. I believe there is somebody out there somewhere for each of us, and I hope you will soon meet the right person. I think the secret is not to go hunting, but just stay in contact socially, and one day it will happen for you.. - Derek

No all girls are not like this. First you don't know when the girl met the other guy. Did she know him all along or just recently met him? It's hard to have a long distance relationship, especially when you haven't even met the other person. I'm guessing this is what made her choose the other guy over you...he was there and you were miles and miles away. I hope you find a nice girl locally so you can build upon your relationship before you marry. Good luck and have a great day! And...don't give up!!

not all girls are like this...at 27 you should not even have to ask this question. Long distance relationships are hard and difficult to maintain. Ifthelove was not there to begin with it is hard to stay connected. Also nnections donot always happen the first time......sometimes you need to check more people out first. It is alot easier to connect with someone much closer...maybe have your parents look for a girl that lives alot closer to home. Try that and see what happens.

Hello sudhibus,

I pity you but one thing for sure, not all girls are like that. It is the same as men, not all men are bad, aren't they? You can't judge all women just because this girl hurt you so much. I think there are many good girls out there and it is just that, you have yet to find the right one. Maybe you should forget about her and stop looking for the perfect one. When the time comes, the right person will just appear right in front of you. Good luck in your next search and I hope you will get a better person to share your future together.

No, not all girls are like this! Thankfully you found this out about her before you got married, because she might have cheated while she was married to you, and that would have been worse! You will fnd the right girl to marry. This one sounds very immature and not ready to settle down at all. I know it hurts right now but, as they say, when you fall off a horse, you should get right back on and try again. One day you will be so grateful this happened because you will meet an even better woman. When one door cloases, another one opens. And if you stand too long looking at the closed door, you won't see the door that has opened for you.