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myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life3 months ago

As some wit said, nostalgia isn't what it used to be. I'm as sentimental as the best of them but there are some things in the past that I don't care for too much. One of them was the preoccupation that the older generation had with long hair.

I remember those days when the Beatles and the Rolling Stones were groovy, there were endless debates on the demerits of long hair and tight pants in my country. Even then I thought this was boring. Since neither the Beatles not the Stones had the sort of faces that I found at all inspiring, I thought it was better for them to have the hair to hide their features. As for the tight pants, eventually they gave way to even more hideous baggies, bell bottoms and platform shoes.

What it might serve us to remember is that things like long hair, drainpipes, fringed vests, midiskirts etc. are just fashion and eventually they make way for other fashion trends. Such is the nature of the modern world. Where once a Stones song was deemed to be 'revolutionary', now it's pretty much mainstream. Who has not heard a familiar Beatles or Stones number in some elevator?

It strikes me as inconsistent that when long hair was in fashion, it was condemned and when it was followed by short hair as the new trend, short hair was not. Why should short hair be any more desirable than long hair for men?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. OpinionatedLady (627)   ranked 419 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

personally I don't care one way or the other as long as it looks good with the facial features and is kept up well. I think that it all matters what looks best on the person. My hubby has long hair and is often told he looks like the quintessential cowboy, but it works for him better then the short hair.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Long hair if he feels comfortable should carry on with that hair style.

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2. luminousent (52)   ranked 134 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

I like a man with good looking hair and agree that it should flatter the individual more than follow a trend. Right now both my man and my son have long hair and I love it on them. I also like the short, spiky look and bald is up there with my favorites also. However, why leave the ladies out of this discussion? Trendy hair for females is just as absurd as it is for men. Two of my daughters have short hair, up to their ears, and I don't really like it. But it is easy to take care of and a lot of their friends wear it short too, but I can't wait for them to let it grow out.
And, yes, I do let my kids decide on their own how to style their hair.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

I agree some males look cute with a ponytail tied at the back. They compliment with their good looking features. Girls should grow their hair long when they are still young and when their hairs are still strong and bouncy as they will not look nice when they are in their middle ages.


myLot reputation of 85/100. guapyero (965)  3 months ago

but the man should also keep on a male feature . so if this long hair made him look like a girl .. then,, why t o have it,,??

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. catdla1 (2611)   ranked 420 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

Hi Zandi! I can sort of understand why men would like short hair, or even a shaved head. It enables them to literally 'get up and go'. The style here if for men with hair that's between 1 and 3 inches long to mouse it and arrange it to have a 'tossled' look. If they hop out of bed and go the way they are...they end up with that look effortlessly. Back in the day, when more men sported long hair, basically they brushed it and tied it back. Most mens hair styles are designed around being easy and time saving to maintain. Obviously they are designed by men FOR men...lol.
Not so with women. We can spend plenty of time getting our hair to look 'just right'. Maybe men planned it that way...who knows?


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Men looks more neat in crew cut. There is less maintenance. No need to use comb but the hands is enough to go through their hair and they'll look well groomed.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. chosen9 (672)   ranked 422 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

ur right long hair is good for hiding ugly features and scars on the face...But as a style statement,long hair for men makes them look very feminine and thats not how men should be specially if they want to attract hot girls:D
Men should be man-ish and looking royal and dashing,thats only possible with smart hair locks and neatly combed short or medium hair!! but long I don't like on men!!


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

But the eyes of modern girls have changed and some prefer their men with long hair. They look macho!


luminousent (52)   ranked 134 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

I don't think long hair makes all men look feminine. For that matter I don't think short hair makes all ladies look masculine. But on some it does and you should be honest with yourself about your hair style choice.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sid556 (10463)   ranked 58 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

I'm 53 and for years...most of the men i've dated have had long hair...and they were not feminine at all in any way...promise. Let's not forget...george washington had long hair and so did jesus christ.

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. EnglishTeaDuck (725)   ranked 418 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

I really think for me it depends on the person - I have know guys who looked great with long hair, and other guys who just should not go there!

I suppose its not really for anyone else to judge.

Actually I have seen a photo of my husband when he was younger with long hair and he looks really good, I wouldn't mind if he grew it again 9he won't though...lol)


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Yes, those who are in the entertaining world looks right with long hair. They drive the girls crazy with their rugged long hair.

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2504)   ranked 69 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

Hi zandi,

Though not all you portrait trends did I see myself making the street hot I obviously remember the bell bottoms and the baggies. I was still in my high school when they were making the noise all around and I remember wearing a couple of beggie shirts.

These are all past and now every fortnight pushing the current fashion into the background and new and trendy things are making their ways into the life specially of the teens.

As for long hair for men I think I am not so much competent to comment on this. As this long hair trend is like pop in and pop out I see some people with long hair quite smart and some not suiting into it. Mine is curly hair and have never ever tried to grow it longer and I do not think even if I put them long it would make a poor show.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Hi raj, the bell bottoms and the baggies have in fact came back in fashion not too long ago. But it disappeared as fast as it resurfaced. Maybe the bell bottoms look so awkward that the new generation did not fancy wearing them unlike yesteryears when bell bottoms that sweep the road are viewed as the most-up-todate. When my sons look at my pictures in bell bottoms they couldn't stop laughing. But the hipster jeans now is no better then the bell bottoms. Long hairs are not for everyone. Professional man like you should have neat short hair like the picture you have now. You look much younger than your age. thumbup


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2504)   ranked 69 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Thank you zands for the compliments. blush


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Oh was this picture taken years ago?


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2504)   ranked 69 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

No, it was taken just three days back with my Kodak digi camera. Hmnnnn you suspected. rasp


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

ya...you look boyish here...baby face huh!


myLot reputation of 90/100. krajibg (2504)   ranked 69 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

No, not at all. Look from close range and you would notice the slap of time and scar of age. And that is me. BOyish??huh....

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7. Tallygirl09 (41)   ranked 421 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

My beloved had short hair when I met him then for many reasons he grew it out over the last 2 years. I like him better with it short since he's a cutie and looks better that way. But I accepted that he wanted to grow it out. Won't lie and say that I didn't encourage a good haircut tho!
He's getting it cut short again this week and I'll be very happy! Love him with short hair or long but definitely like the short best. I think Men should decide what looks good for them, Bald, Short, Long, whichever they prefer and of course consider what their significant other prefers too! As long as it's well groomed it's a personal preference thing or should be. One of the reasons that Fashion changes constantly is to keep us spending more money!


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Men with short hair are neat and tidy. But some looks nice with shoulder length hair. I agree with you fashion changes just to keep us from spending.

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8. myLot reputation of 70/100. cupkitties (544)   ranked 692 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

Its all about how they wear it and it needs to flatter the face shape. Seems to me that most females I know of prefer a short haired man but I've seen many guys that look 10x better with it long and when they get it chopped off it looks sooo goofy and ridiculous on them. If you're going to have long hair take care of it too. I've rarely seen a man with long locks that weren't nasty and greasy looking.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

If he can take care of his long hair as women with long hair does, keeping it long shouldn't pose a problem. They still look cute.

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9. adiel35 (65)   ranked 716 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

I thought about the matter long hair or short depending on each individual not only in men also in women, may lenghten or shorten their hair juct to follow fashion or trend of the time or it was their own desire to lenghten the hair,but when we look at history, man in ancient times many have long hair,wether it,s because of trends or to show the characteristic themselves,or maybe at the time there was no hair salons or not many people can cut hair;D


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Long hair in men has always been the trend even during ancient time. I think people then was not into trend but more of lack of fashion ideas or probably have no means to cut their hair.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. thea09 (4069)   ranked 527 out of 1,154 in life   3 months ago

Hi zandi, well personally speaking I've always gone for short hair on a man, and never given a consideration as to why. But it has to be dark though. In fact I couldn't even picture the men in my life with long hair, they just wouldn't look like them anymore. Not that I have anything against long hair on a man, in fact two younger acquaintainces of mine both had long flowing black locks which looked great on them and when they both went for the shop they actually looked smaller in height which was a bit weird. But my main priority remains that a man should always have chest hair. happy


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Hairy chest.... wink the real macho man. I think most girls dream of wanting to have men with hair sprouting in their chests. lol


myLot reputation of 97/100. thea09 (4069)   ranked 527 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

I just hate the new craze of shaving it offthumbdown


luminousent (52)   ranked 134 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Men are shaving their chest hair?!?! Wow.


myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5713)   ranked 1 out of 1,154 in life  3 months ago

Men....take note...DO NOT shave!rasp

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