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myLot reputation of 90/100. CJscott (1009)   ranked 141 out of 3,170 in me4 months ago

To me it is the constant improvement of my attitude, behavior, actions and character. It is what I do to make myself a better person in my eyes. To become smarter, more successful, more pleasant. So that people are more comfortable working with me, and that I am more comfortable working with them.

As part of my personal development I read books on the Law of Attraction, and similar motivational such things, and I participate in a master mind group, that studies Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, which just happens to be one of those books, with this master mind group we also study listening skills, and go over the ebb and flow of chance.

On top of that I speak affirmations to myself, write down my goals and plans for achieving them, review them from time to time - to make sure I am on track. I will soon be building a vision board as well, just a big board full of pictures that inspire me. Keeping these kinds of things out in the open where they are seen helps greatly to keep my mind where I want it focused.

What does personal development mean to you? How do you perform yours? Do you think it is a bunch of mystical junk?

 
 
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11. myLot reputation of 94/100. UltimateAsoka (1039)   ranked 1,224 out of 3,170 in me   4 months ago

I donot think it is a mystical junk for sure.Well, sometimes you need people to tell you to focus on things and show you the bigger picture.It is always nice to understand how other people think, respond to situations and words.The motivation could also be given externally to go through a tough period.Basically, for me personal development is to focus on weak areas of one and to strengthen it and to refocus on strengths and sharpen it.Thanks!


myLot reputation of 90/100. CJscott (1009)   ranked 141 out of 3,170 in me  4 months ago

I have many mentors who say "focus on your strengths, and your weaknesses will become stronger" or something very close to that effect, if you do something well, but other things poorly, still focus on the things you do well, and the things you do poorly can't help but improve as your self confidence does.

Cheers.

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12. myLot reputation of 86/100. commanderxo (471)   ranked 2,140 out of 3,170 in me   4 months ago

My friend, you ARE on the way to a brighter future. What you are studying IS NOT a bunch of mystical junk, as you put it.

As an extra bonus, you may want to indulge yourself in reading up on some N.L.P.
(Neuro Linguistic Programming) Any book on this subject will do.

Personal development BEGINS with keeping an open mind, and...imagination/ visualization, is key!

Good for you!

cdrxo


myLot reputation of 90/100. CJscott (1009)   ranked 141 out of 3,170 in me  4 months ago

Thank you graciously for your kind encouragement. I will definitely have a look into neuro linguistic programming, thought it is my believe that this is an almost constant thing in todays society with TV and radio and what not.

I do my best to train my mind on visualization, and open mindedness has never been a problem.

Thank you so much for the extra information you have given me.

Cheers.

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13. myLot reputation of 46/100. visaseetharaman (171)   ranked 2,141 out of 3,170 in me   4 months ago

I also believe that personal development is an improvement in attitude,behaviour,characterand in our day to day life.After reading your discussion I have learnt to follow your way of developing myself .It is a superb guide to me .


myLot reputation of 90/100. CJscott (1009)   ranked 141 out of 3,170 in me  4 months ago

I completely agree that personal development is an improvement in character, to change your character you need to improve your attitude and behavior. Follow my way, it is a nice start, but for it to be more effective you should choose your own way, of a sorts, I do not recall if I mentioned the website for my favorite mastermind group in regards to Personal Development - http://30daycleanse.com - We study and talk about and analyse Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, it is a really uplifting experience to me, I strongly encourage you to check it out.

Cheers.

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14. myLot reputation of 86/100. zigzagbuddha (1833)   ranked 716 out of 3,170 in me   4 months ago

It is not possible to abstain from growing and developing. Therefore I take a much more relaxed approach to my life than many others do who are efforting at growth. I am finally relaxing and ALLOWING my life to unfold.

Of course I deliberately choose the thoughts I entertain to ensure that it unfolds in a way that is pleasing to me. And I diligently examine my beliefs and change the ones that do not serve me to more beneficial ones.

Do I think developing into the new and improved version of myself is mystical? Yes I do!!!


myLot reputation of 90/100. CJscott (1009)   ranked 141 out of 3,170 in me  4 months ago

As always, you give me much more to think about then what I had planned on, and I love that about you!

I completely agree, we can not not grow and develop, but we can grow down as easily as we can grow up, and we have to choose how, where and why to grow.

You allow your life to unfold around you, yet, you choose, how that happens, that is a simply fantastic way to look at it. It is mystical, and practical at the same time, I always through in a question, to see if someone who disagrees with what I have to say will take the bait, and you know what happens more often then not?

The responders answer that question in complete agreement with my views, it is odd, but it amuses me, so it stays.

Cheers zigzag - getting through your book slowly, not as much time as I thought I would have lately. And I should be moving into my new house on Thursday, if it all unfolds as it should, just got a few loose ends atm.


myLot reputation of 86/100. zigzagbuddha (1833)   ranked 716 out of 3,170 in me  3 months ago

So, does that mean you have found a good house to buy? Are you moved in yet?

I might be moving too.

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15. ainneburke (1)   3 months ago

Personal Development for me is about taking me from where I am in my life to where I want to go. I am at cause in my life and not at the affect of it when I engage in personal growth. I identified personal development curricula that facilitates and suits my personal learning style -motivational, inspiring and stimulating DVD's, a personal and practical 180 day home course where I follow a series of exercises and journal everyday...for the rest of my life now that I find it a consistent way to be in touch with where I am in relation to the vision I set for myself. Then I go to motivational conferences three to four times a year anything from one day to a five day program. I am fully alive again and feel that the possibilities for me are whatever I want them to be so long as I take action everyday to achieve my goals -to relax more, be fully present with my family and friends, mindful when I do my Tai Chi and exercise, appreciate the world around me and radiate positive energy to the Universal store that keeps us all going. I have committed to this journey and that is the difference between now and before. I used to practice parts of this program but never integrated it into my life so its who I am being every day...that is the difference...making the choice to be responsible for my own happiness and success in my life. Despite all the adversities there is a way to stay focused and make them possibilities for change and that is the magic dust...always evolving...what a great feeling it is.

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