My interpretation of a participating in mylot discussions.

Hi there!
Many thanks for appreciating my analogy of home and guest. You are right that sharing our thoughts is more important than earnings. Earning, I suppose, comes as bonus. Thanks again for being the first one to respond.

its always be my pleasure deepak to be in your 'home'...participating in your beautiful discussions to the best that i can...
i am really guilty of not being courteous to some of my 'visitors' huh! but anyway, i am learning now little by little on how to entertain & welcome my 'guests'...
and that's why i think, whenever we start a discussion...we must always be ready...ready to entertain our respective guests and friends...

Hi ckyera!
It always feels great to see you in my discussion and reading your responses/comments. You write beautiful, as you yourself are.
Yes, you are right whenever we start a discussion, we should be ready to entertain our guests and should welcome them in the best possible manner.

oh thanks for that my good looking friend...(according to the miror!) haha
yes we should always be prepared just like the boyscouts! hehe but sometimes its really not easy to be the 'host' hehe
even in real life, i find it difficult to be the 'host' but i need to learn to be good in that coz in my husband's nature of work..our house needs to be always open to all kinds of visitors...

its friday today...and weekend is coming over...time for you to enjoy your Sunday? hehe or try to do those things that your wife wanted you to do?
happy weekend my friend!:-)

Hi ck!
Many thanks for your wishes and I also wish you a very weekend.
You are right that sometimes, due to some circumstances of compulsion, we find ourselves unable to play the role of a good host. Nonetheless, we can always try it honestly, is not it? Those who are close to us know about our nature and if on any given one occasion, we could not play a good host to them, they would understand our position, hopefully.
Thanks for your suggestion regarding giving a helping hand to my wife, I always try my best to do that (it appears that you are taking her side.......... LOL!)

haha...coz i feel for your wife! huh! that's also my secret wish...hehe for my husband to do some households without me asking....hehe

but anyway, all of us still have some room for improvements...huh! and so i will try my best to have an improvement day by day here in mylot as well as in real life...
for those people who already know us and are close to us, usually when they visit our place, i just tell them to feel at home! hehe
its Monday now, means start of your week long work again! hehe and as for me, yesterday & today, don't have much difference...except that yesterday i attend our church worship...and today i am alone for my husband needs to attend some meetings!

Hi ck!
You being a woman would feel more for a woman (in this case my better half), it is understandable..... . Also, I think all women think or wish that their husbands should also support and share their work at home.
Yes, I completely agree with you that there is always scope for improvement for us in real life and on sites like mylot and we should keep learning from our day to day experiences and should not feel that we know everything. My philosophy is to keep learning in my life, till I am alive.I know that you are feeling 'Monday blues' on this Monday (and may be on every Monday) because yesterday was a day for relaxation.

yes deepak...woman understands woman! hehe, we are on the same shoes!

life is indeed a never ending learning process...coz e will just end to nothing hen we stop learning... we can learn in everything around us...even on the smallest things...we can learn from the people that we meet everyday..we can learn from each other...its just that we must be open for learning and changes if possible...
well, well...monday blues!well, not really busy, coz after my husband left the house, i am already free to do whatever i want and still can relax if i'd like to...haha
and you know, sometimes, Monday is also a day to unwind for me and my friend...
yes, Monday is an opportunity for me & my friend to go out together, go malling and just relax...haha while our husbands are in their meetings...

I know ck that a woman understand the feelings of the other woman and she will take her side........LOL! Life is like a river, which should accept (read learn) everything which comes on the way to river. Very true, we can learn from people around us, even our children and people who are unknown to us or look to us unimportant. I do not mind learning from anybody and for this I keep my eyes and ears always 'open'.
It is good that when your hubby is away, you are enjoying yourself and you can party with your friends. Keep enjoying..........LOL!

hehe...very understanding and open minded deepak! huh!

so are you a type who just go with the flow? or you are not afraid to go in the different direction? taking the challenges of life?
coz me, sometimes, i just go with the flow...hehe coz sometimes i am afraid to go in a different direction...but as i can see it, sometimes its better to have a courage to try new things...coz that way, we can learn better...
but sometimes, it difficult when we learn in a hard way...you know...

well, well, i thank my husband that its just okay with him...hehe and actually, that's hat he wants me to do...

Hi ck!
Yes, you can say that I am an understanding person and am very broad minded. I to not think too much about trivial issues. Yes, I love to go with flow of river.....LOL! You see facing challanges is a different aspect of life. I believe that 'if you cannot change the circumstances, either try your best to change it or accept it'. I do no mind experimenting.

It was so nice of you to welcome me into your home, not only once but too many times. Thank you and have a nice day, my friend.

You are most welcome and the pleasure is mine, dear friend. It is an honor to be a guest to your home. Nice chatting with you, my friend, have a good day.

It is my honour too to welcome and entertain you when you come to my 'home'.

Thank you my freind, have a great weekend!

no words to say

It is your greatness, when you say 'no words to say'.

Your comment is correct sometimes. But it's nice when replying to someone that has the same thought like mine!
Have a nice time

The beauty is we are having international guests to our house everyday and this represent the world community in our beautiful home. We learn and we earn while being a good host to a multi racial community.

Very TrueZandi!
We are lucky that we get opportunity to welcome 'guests from international community' and they make our house more important and graceful.
Undoubtedly, we get to learn a lot when our guests interact with us.
Deepak

Yes, you are right that same thing cannot be expected from everyone, yet we can make efforts. Thanks for joining us.

There may be some similarity in comments, however, I try to comment as per response. Your point has been well taken and noted.

Hi Lori!
Thanks for your very kind words about me and it is always great fun to see you in my discussion and to welcome you as an honoured guest.
Deepak

Hi Misterwit!
What a beautiful entry (read response) to my house from you. You are most 'welcome' in my house (read discussions) and it good to read your meaningful responses. I am really thankful to you for appreciating my idea of this discussion. I buy your argument that we should have a list of good friends, however, we cannot stop the intruders from entering our houses (read discussions) uninvited. Many thanks for honouring me with your presence in my house and for lovely response.

Hi Irene!
There is incidentally a friend on mylot whose screen names appears similar to your and her response is on the page -2. It is good that you want to share your opinion with others and wish to put forward your views so as to learn. You are always welcome in my home (read discussion). Thanks for sharing your opinion with us.

Thank you and looking forward to befriend. Really? My name is very common and I never encounter yet same name with me here in mylot.

You are always welcome in my discussions. You may see a response by a mylotter, whose name is similar to you (not exactly like you). Her name is Iriene.

Yes. I saw her in some posted discussions and we have the same name but the spelling is different. Anyway, thanks and have a good day to you!