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myLot reputation of 94/100. mommyboo (3290)   ranked 987 out of 38,119 in life3 months ago

I'm talking about coughing, sneezing, runny noses, congestion, etc.

I ask this to all and implore an honest answer. My daughter now has a cold because EVERYBODY is at school sick. This gets passed to everybody. It's getting passed to the parents too. I consider myself lucky so far because whatever I have is mild and isn't affecting me enough to call myself 'sick', but you should see and hear these kids! They may not have fevers and they may not feel miserable but 90 percent of them are coughing and hacking, have runny noses they don't wipe, they sneeze snot on each other, no wonder I sent along a bottle of hand sanitizer and a packet of kleenex in my daughter's pencil/marker box so it's on her table at school!

Should people be keeping their kids home for these colds since they spread like crazy? Or do you think it's okay to send kids to school this way just because it's not a fever, a flu, or something worse?

Another point - the schools try to tell you that it's SO important for your kids to be at school every day - but then this happens, cold season means one kid at school with a cold makes the whole class sick in short order.

What's the answer to this? I'm not keeping my daughter home because who is she going to give the cold SHE caught to? Everybody else already has it lol.

 
 
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1. AmuletGirl (72)   ranked 5,360 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

Hey what a coincidence! I'm a highschool student, and as I'm writing this response, I'm staying at home exactly because I am sick! I don't usually stay at home for coughing or sneezing, but this time, it's really serious, and I have a fever. Our family's policy is to stay at home only when I have a fever. Also, during these days when the swine flu epidemic is going on, our school actually suggested us to stay at home if we are sick, because we don't want the potential swine flu viruses spreading around the school. So I would say... let the children go to school if it's just runny nose or sneezing and coughing occasionally, but if the coughing gets serious and they get a fever, that's when you should consider keeping them at home. This way, they get more rest at home so they can recover quickly, and they won't be spreading it to other people at school.


myLot reputation of 94/100. mommyboo (3290)   ranked 987 out of 38,119 in life  3 months ago

For fevers and anything that causes stomach upset or behavioral changes, I keep my kids home. Fever is one reason I'll pick them up too. I don't pick up for 'I just don't feel good', especially for a high school student lol. I look for an actual reason.

The reason it isn't the same for the little kids is because they seem to make each other sick and it happens over and over and over. I wish the school would not harp about wanting people to be there all the time because if it were acceptable to stay home when you have a cold so as to not SPREAD it to the whole class, then maybe fewer kids would get sick. I think sickness, even colds, interfere with kids' ability to learn, and so this is bad for everybody. sad I don't think it interferes as much when you get older, but for kindergarten and first grade, it's kind of a big deal.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (4256)   ranked 618 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

happyhello mommy boo,

I don't have a kid but if i ever had one or two i would surely keep them at home just to prevent them from spreading the illness towards other people. of course, if they do go to school, probably i should have them wearing mask and using hand sanitizer to keep others from getting infected. but it's better if they stay home. happyhappy


myLot reputation of 94/100. mommyboo (3290)   ranked 987 out of 38,119 in life  3 months ago

I think so too, but in my case after the fact I was thinking - well WHY? I mean if there was something in place to protect parents and kids from getting in trouble for missing school so they could stay home a week and NOT spread a cold, that'd be fine, but we are too concerned about the kids missing important things from one missed day of school. Plus now that they are all sick, what's the point? LOL!

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (14517)   ranked 1,528 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

hi mommyboo I dont have kids but if I had kids I would not let them go to school once the nose is really running like mad and the kid is coughing all the time, fever or no fever.
Simply as my mom worked as a nurse and my dad was a doctor. Believe me I did not have the possibility to stay home with nothing just so I would not have to go to school. My mom was a bit too strict with me oftentimes when I was a kid but much later she was the one telling me off for not going to the doctor when I had a severe cold no matter whether fever or no fever. I think its not good for the bronchial system when you work or go to school in such conditions. My aunt was a teacher and dragged herself to school too with colds and what is the outcome? She has asthma now in her old age.
You know, we adults have a hard time concentrating and working with a cold and with coughing. Its even harder for kids. I would not do that to my kids. Real cold means bed for a few days. And what you miss in a few days in school cant be that bad.


myLot reputation of 94/100. mommyboo (3290)   ranked 987 out of 38,119 in life  2 months ago

If the school system was set up to ENCOURAGE people to stay home when they are sick, it would be easier, but it's almost like they punish you for being sick, just like some employers do. For instance, if you have no sick pay and have to use your vacation if you're sick, aren't you more likely to just go to work sick if you can't afford to skip a day?

Then you have parents who work, and daycare and other people won't take sick kids, so.... they send the kids to school.I know it sounds creepy but that's how it seems.


myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (14517)   ranked 1,528 out of 38,119 in life  2 months ago

hi mommyboo feared something along these lines when I read your discussion. But I personally would rather take a day of unpaid leave and leave my sick kid at home. It doesnt happen every month that kids get sick (my colleague is a single mom and its really really seldom she phones and says she cant make it to work as her son is sick).

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. Mickie30 (1798)   ranked 2,074 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

A little sniffle. A slight cough then I would send my child to school. If my child has cold symptoms with a fever too, then I would keep her at home. If I was in doubt, then I would call my child's doctor for advice.


myLot reputation of 94/100. mommyboo (3290)   ranked 987 out of 38,119 in life  2 months ago

I keep my daughter home if she has a fever and/or she puked and it's affecting her behavior.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. dreamr802 (755)   ranked 1,579 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

I think it really depends on how sick the kid is and feels. I mean sometimes my mom would send us to school if we had a cold, but the minute we had a fever, we stayed home. I'm very prone to colds, so if I stayed home everytime I had a cold, I don't think I would've graduated from high school lol. But yeah colds do spread like wildfire...and there really is no way of stopping it with younger children.


myLot reputation of 94/100. mommyboo (3290)   ranked 987 out of 38,119 in life  2 months ago

I think kids get sick more often because of school - because so many kids are in close contact with each other. I don't get sick anywhere near the amount I did when I was a kid. The fever thing is usually the difference - a fever means your body is fighting an infection, and it's better to stay home then so you don't spread whatever it is to others. I think it's too bad the schools (and jobs) don't TELL people to say home when they have a cold so they don't spread it, but it seems to matter more that people dont miss school or work than it does that they might make 30 other people sick...

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6. myLot reputation of 82/100. Xemnas12 (411)   ranked 8,374 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

If i had kids and they were genuinely sick I would keep her/them/him home. No the reason for keeping her home is not because she's going to give it to other people, you should keep her home because with a cold its slightly more diffcult in concentrating and learning.

No doubt your probably exaggerating slightly, not everyone in an entire school is going to have the cold.


myLot reputation of 94/100. mommyboo (3290)   ranked 987 out of 38,119 in life  2 months ago

LOL! I'm talking mostly about my daughter's CLASS, not the whole SCHOOL. The kindergarten pod is pretty much separate from the rest of the classrooms/areas, but all the kindergarteners play in the same area. Enough of them are coughing and have runny noses that it seems like ALL of them.


myLot reputation of 82/100. Xemnas12 (411)   ranked 8,374 out of 38,119 in life  2 months ago

Lol oh rite that makes sense.

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7. myLot reputation of 72/100. irishidid (3038)   ranked 6,813 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

If my kids were sick to the point of not being about to do their work or concentrate I kept them home.
What really irritated me was the parents who made their kids go to school when they should have stayed home because they wanted to brag about their kid's perfect attendance.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. sanell (1706)   ranked 1,265 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

with all the flus and stuff going around I am keeping my kids home as long as I possiblhy can if they have a fever they stay home and since their immune system is weakened due to cold I try to keep them home at the worst weakness and as it builds up strength then I will send back but I just can not handle taking them to school to just have someone call me and tell me they need to be picked up when they probably should have just stayed home in the first place. Anyway that is my two cents. My oldest was home last week and now my youngest is home and i feel pretty crappy so whatever...colds are not fun and this season is not fun. Oh well it happens.

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9. StonedEmoKid (63)   ranked 30,530 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

No! Do not send them to school! I'm currently a Sophmore in high school and I got sick because everyone that was sick showed up at school. I missed almost 2 straight weeks and I know they stress that you should go to school but three days home sick recovering is better than making 12 other kids go through the same thing!

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. moneymakingtoday (1689)   ranked 2,514 out of 38,119 in life   3 months ago

cough and colds are easily transmitted. it is important for school administrators and teachers to give reminders to their students on what to do if they contract these, from time to time to prevent rapid spread. with fever, it would be advisable for our kids to stay home and quarantined for a few days, what with the H1N1 virus still around.

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