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myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love2 months ago

I'm in love with another and my husband isn't even jealous!

Now, before you get the wrong idea, it isn't a man, but a machine. LOL To be more specific a vehicle!

For those of you that have seen my discussion a few weeks ago about having to buy a used vehicle, my husband and I finally got one tonight! OMG, I'm totally in love with it!

My husband and I were able to sell his old truck and my broken down Ford to get the money. We also sold his baby (his motorcycle) that he's had for a few years now. I hated to see it go, but we needed to buy something reliable for the family to get around in. For the past week or so, we've had to rely on a friend of the family so that my husband could get to and from work and to the grocery store once or twice as well. Before that my husband was driving his old truck the way it was. I even took it up once to the bank. That was fun, especially when it started overheating and I didn't even make it there.

Anyway, the past few days have been really stressful on us. I've been busy looking at vehicles for sale online. We found a few, but some of them were through dealers and they wouldn't take the amount we had in full. To make matters worse, just when we thought we found a vehicle we liked though a private party, they got weird and starting giving us all these conditions. My husband was really discouraged, but I was determined to find something immediately so that he wouldn't have to rely on getting a ride anymore.

I found another that I liked, again through a private seller. The only problem was they were asking $300 more than what we had. When my husband saw the amount they were asking he got discouraged again, but then I pointed out these three little letters O-B-O. I ended up calling the seller but had to leave a message. Long story short, my husband ended up getting it! And the best part is it's a Nissan. Not just a Nissan though, but a 2000 Pathfinder! OMG, I drove it around after the previous owner and his dad had delivered it to us, and I have to say that I am in love!

So, have you ever been in love with another that wasn't your spouse/significant other? How did they feel about it? Were they jealous or did they not care at all?


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paula27661 (5215) response was accepted on 10/28/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. fjaril (4316)   ranked 461 out of 2,044 in been in love   2 months ago

aaah congratulations on your new baby!! Isn't that great and a nice looking one too. I hope that the frustration level for you and your husband drops considerably now. I too know how it is and life just is tougher and we.. NOW.. back to a little more convenience, eh?

so.. how are you celebrating??wink


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Hi fjaril, I know we probably shouldn't have, but we celebrated with a...are you ready for this?... pizza! LOL

After I got insurance for it I was able to take it for a spin. I had a few things to do, including going to the bank and getting fuel for it. I usually don't like getting gasoline, but tonight I was too psyched out to care! Once I was done I just had to pick up a pizza to help celebrate the occasion. I really know how to live it up, eh? LOL

Yep, the frustration level has gone down considerably. I'll finally be able to sleep for a change. What a wonderful feeling it is to finally be relaxed.

I'm sure my husband and I will find other ways to celebrate later. As for now he is asleep. But I think he's actually excited about going to work tomorrow. After all, he gets to take his new toy! LOL

Happy mylotting!

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4987)   ranked 159 out of 2,044 in been in love   2 months ago

hiya sacmom

I hope things get easier for you, what a hassle! cars are worse than computers rolleyes My ex was jealous of my kitten! Said I gave it more attention than I gave him! ROFL... I made the right choice thumbup lol

Alice happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Thanks Alice! I hope so too!

Yep, cars can be a pain in the @$$ sometimes. doh If my husband and I didn't live out in the country and he was in a different line of work we probably wouldn't have even worried about getting a vehicle. At least not right away anyway.

LOL! It sounds like you made a wise choice. Best of all kittens don't talk back...other than with the occasional meow, that is! wink

Happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5215)   ranked 137 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

My husband is still jealous of one of my cats and the funny thing is the cat doesn't like him either! He will sit between us and I will pat him, if my husband tries to touch him he'll get bitten; I find it amusing, hubby not so much!


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Hahaha! I find it funny too!

Fortunately for me, my husband loves critters. It's one of the things that attracted me to him when we first met. His brother on the other hand is the opposite. Critters don't care for him at all! Boy, some of the stories I could tell about that! There are some good ones! LOL


myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4987)   ranked 159 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

lol Now that IS funny!
Do you think cats could be jealous of humans too?


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Possibly! lol

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (525)   2 months ago

Hi,

Congratulations for your new car. I am totally in love with my car, but since I am not married so the question of jealousy doesn't apply to me. rasp lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Thank you bodhi. happy

Looks like you have nothing to worry about when it comes to jealousy and your car then! w00t wink LOL

Happy mylotting!

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. shibham (1180)   ranked 950 out of 2,044 in been in love   2 months ago

hi sacmom. sometimes we get busy with our items of better commodities. it makes our partner or someone else near to our lives envy. say, in my home i spend much time wth my laptop although i go to my home only on weekend. so my little sister want to take some time with her but when she sees my business she becomes angry with my laptop. result---- a resturant tour for coffee or noodles. hahaha..

anyway nice car.it is my dream now. hahaha....

thanks.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

That's true. We should try to make time so our loved ones won't get jealous. LOL

Thanks shibham! Good luck in obtaining your dream. happy

Happy mylotting!

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5. myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5215)   ranked 137 out of 2,044 in been in love   2 months ago

Congratulations for getting a brand new car that you love, it's a beauty! My love affair began about a year ago when I got my new laptop and, although we didn’t hit it off immediately due to a few issues that we had to work through called Vista, we eventually fell in love and we spend many hours together every single day. We meet here at MyLot and that is where our rendezvous usually start. My husband suspects something is going on but has not caught on yet...No doubt he will and I will have to make a choice...Oh, dear what is a girl to do?confused


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Thanks Paula. It's hardly new. It's 9 years old! lol LOL But it is new to my family and I. And best of all it looks new, even if it is not. And it drives just as good as it looks, if not better. I couldn't ask for a better car. I just wish my husband didn't have to use it for work! I want it for myself! LOL

Wow, a mylot love affair? It sounds intriguing! blink I'm no good in the affair department. The last time I mentioned one my parents got divorced! doh LOL

Good luck, whatever you decide.

Happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5215)   ranked 137 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

I just realized how my response came across! It's not a man I'm in love with, it's my laptop I was referrring to! I was trying to be humourous but didn't quite pull it off! Oh dear...If my husband was to read this he may not see the funny side at all! blush Truth is I'm in love with my laptop!


myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (10266)   ranked 128 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

PAULA! Your response came across just fine, i knew exactly what you were talking about... I cannot blame you i would have a love affair IF i were to get a new laptop also....LMAO...lori


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

LMAO! I wasn't sure if you were talking about your laptop. That was the first impression I got as I was reading your response. But when I read this sentence "We meet here at MyLot and that is where our rendezvous usually start" it threw me for a loop! LOL

I guess I should have went with that instead of thinking what I thought. It's also what I get for responding while I'm half asleep! LOL Sorry about that Paula! And here I thought maybe there was some sort of secret naughty side to you! wink LOL

Happy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5215)   ranked 137 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Phew! I'm glad I set that straight! (LOL) I wouldn't have the energy for another man, I'm too old and too tired! lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4987)   ranked 159 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

lol I knew it was the laptop too thumbup make the right choice and do what I did Paula! choose the laptop over the man! lol


myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5215)   ranked 137 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

I tell you Alice, we get along just fine and never fight...I think I found 'the one' (LOL) much less complicated than those male things!lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4987)   ranked 159 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

male things?!!! w00t whistle lol

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6. myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (10266)   ranked 128 out of 2,044 in been in love   2 months ago

Aha sacmom 'I wonder HOW many will only read your title & respond to this discussion, having NO IDEA what it is really about'...lol I know exactly HOW you feel sacmom, it is a wonderful feeling to love another so deeply & knowing you are NOT cheating...lol....I had a very similar LOVE in 1981, You see i was newly divorced, & had bought myself a beautiful 1981 Z-28 CAMARO!!! I LOVED that car, it was so HOT looking, i wish i had a pic of her, you would have loved her too.. ENJOY your new love, have fun with her....lori


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

There's only one way to find out Lori, and that's by keeping an eye on this discussion! LOL Fortunately for me I usually get the responses in my inbox.

Yep, it's always interesting to see who responds to the title alone. Especially when the title can be so misleading! whistle LOL

My mom went through the same thing in 85 after divorcing my dad. Only difference was it was a Cadillac Fleetwood! LOL I'm pretty sure it was an 84 (I'd have to ask her to be sure). It looks just like the one pictured below (if it works). It was even the same color!

I will Lori. Thanks!

Happy mylotting!

 

myLot reputation of 99/100. Aliceinwebland (4987)   ranked 159 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

'I wonder HOW many will only read your title & respond to this discussion, having NO IDEA what it is really about' A few already, judging from the responses! whistle I had to go-ogle a few images as I am hopeless with cars. Yes, your camaro is 'hot' lol. I like the look of a delorean with those fancy doors... wub

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. dragon54u (9543)   ranked 287 out of 2,044 in been in love   2 months ago

I'm so glad to hear that you got a good vehicle! It's almost impossible these days to get around without a car, as everything is so far apart. When I was a girl, everything we needed was within walking distance but that was in the 50's and now we have shopping malls and centers, all spread out, and neighborhood houses are built in huge spaces miles in diameter with no facilities within walking distance.

It's even better when you love your car, isn't it? Congratulations!


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Thanks dragon! happy

It's even harder since I live out in the country. I can't even catch the city bus here! And it is too dangerous to ride a bike. Maybe I should have just gotten a horse instead. LOL But then where would my husband put his tools that he needs for work? He's got a ton. LOL

Yep, my family and I definitely needed a car to get around in. I never expected it to be an SUV though! w00t I couldn't be happier!

Happy mylotting!

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. Shar19 (2770)   ranked 953 out of 2,044 in been in love   2 months ago

I'm glad to hear that you found an awesome vehicle. I know some people that have the Pathfinder and they love it. I also had a car that I was totally in love with. It was a black 1996 Mitsubishi Eclipse. I really miss that car. sad

Good luck with your new love of your life!


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Thanks Shar. Me too! happy

I don't usually go by reviews but I decided to read some from actual owners and they were all good! thumbup

Oh, I will! I will!

Happy mylotting!

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3960)   ranked 16 out of 2,044 in been in love   2 months ago

Hmm.. I think it's different when you're inlove with a material thing than how you'd be in love with someone else. You see, the material thing cannot 'posses' you but a person can truly steal your heart away.

There will be jealousy, but I guess he doesn't see the point of expressing it because it's not really something one should dwell on. How sure are you he's no in love with that car as well?

And besides, both of you bought it, so I guess he likes knowing you approved of what you guys bought.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

Hi Laydee. I'm fully aware of that. lol If you noticed I never said whether or not my husband is in love with it. But just for the record, he love it too! happy

By the way, you never answered my question. Have you ever been in love with another? And if so, who (or what) was it? whistle

Happy mylotting!

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10. myLot reputation of 82/100. JohnJeff (505)   ranked 949 out of 2,044 in been in love   2 months ago

Hi sacmom, have a nice day.I think you are busy right now.Busy with your new car.it does not matter new or second car.As long as you like it and don't bring much trouble it's o.k.I also looking another car.I plan to trade in my 7 years old car.I hope world economy will fully recover soon.See you again.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sacmom (5820)   ranked 43 out of 2,044 in been in love  2 months ago

I hope so too JohnJeff.

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