Are you afraid of being alone at you own house?

some benefits e? what would that be for you? hehe. well, im used to having some company, you know whenever i go to the living room, i see someone, everytime when i go to the kitchen, there my mother is, but now no one is here and im all alone. well i dont think scary things stuff like ghost or a white lady, nothing like that. it just im not used to be alone.

yeah, im mylotting now, no one will annoy me to use the computer after me, hehehe

Hahaha. So that one benefit there. Nobody will disturb you. You can myLot all night long. Hehe. There's a lot you can do that you can't when there's somebody around. Privacy and freedom. Isn't it nice?:p

shadow41

privancy and freedom is no question in our house, my mother us to be respect each one's privancy, we do have freedom but we also knows our limitations. i do mylotting at work, remember im working in a net cafe so, i can mylot 9 hours in one day. hehe

Wow. That's lot of time. Hehe. You must be earning huge here.:p

shadow41

actually no. im just starting to be active now, this is my 7th day here, my two days i earned 0.29 dollars, my third, fourth and fifth day, i havent really log in, my sixth day, i spend all my 3 hours replying to others post and i got 0.37 that day. hoping this 7th day will turned as good as the sixth. im thinking to spend all my 9 hours posting new discussion and replying to others post.

I see. I thought you are active for nine hours straight. I usually spend 3-4 hours a day and I don't earn much either. Oh well, see you around.:)

shadow41

That's true. It's quite peaceful and you can do anything.

how old are you? i do also watch scary movies but its not my thing to get afraid of that kind of stuff anymore, its just being alone in a big house all by youself while trying to be busy (the more i try to do stuff, the more time slowed for me) its almost 2:00 am now and no one is still home!. i do hope my brother is safe. my mother called every 15 minutes to check me, isnt she sweet? but its kinda annoying me now because im busy mylotting, when she call my connection goes off and i have to start all over again (writting, all will be gone when the connection goes off).

I am 28. Scary movies have always bothered me since I was little. I find that it allows my mind to think in a negative scary way and that is why I get scared. I still get nightmares from scary movies and tend to steer clear of them. It is wonderful that your mother is checking on you so often, she sounds very nice. I am sure your brother is safe, just running behind a little.

how sad it is that you husband have to go travel for work and leave all alone there? do you have children to keep you company? i hope you have someone there, its hard being alone, right? and thanks, im too hoping my brother would come home soon, house is safe, doors and windows are locked and my 2 dogs are ready to bite if someone tries to go to front door while the back door is tightly locked with 4 locks!, hehe, im not really afraid of being alone here now, its just im used to have company always, when i go out, i have friends or my boyfriend with me, at work, i have my customer to keep me company, at home i have my family but now, its lame being alone.

yeah, we get easily bored when we're alone, right? when im alone, even if i do stuff around, time still slowed down and i feel like forever waiting for someone to come home. lately i been alone at night because my mother is visiting her family and stayed for nights there, while my bother is busy with thier life nowadays. i know i'll manage but im not used to it, maybe i grow up having so many companions at night at home, like cousin, uncles and other family member.

then your independent since then? how old are you? its nice that you can take care if yourself then, im 20 years old now, actually im near to being a twenty one years old, and i have no knowledge of cooking unless its ready to put in the stove (which luckyly my mother do when she left.) yeah i very aware of the noises around me, even though im watchin dvd and mylotting im still alert around me. thanks and happy mylotting!

Yes I consider myself independent, although I stayed with my aunt for a while when I was in high school. I am 17 years old right now. I don't usually cook too because our caretaker does that. If there's no food then of course I take care of it myself, especially that I only go home during weekends. I stay in a dormitory near our school. Anyways, I think we should really learn how to cook by now, you think so? Haha. Take care!:)

nowadays, me and mother are only the left at home because all of my three brothers are busy with their life now, work and schools occupied their time. friends always ask me to go with them at partys, blah, blah partys but i always turned down the invitations because i dont feel like leaving my mother at home, i know she can take care of myslef, its just i felt uncomportable that she is all alone in our big house and no companion.

yeah there is a lot of advantages of being lone, i know but dont you get lonely sometimes? when you felt like talking to someone, no one is there, i could write some disavantages also of being alone, but anyway, ur lucky to have a place on your own and do whatever pleases you. goodluck then and happy mylotting!

LOL - No Jen, it is not lonely. I spend many hours every day around a lot of people, and believe me, by the time I get home, I am more than ready for some peace and quiet. Weekends are spent with family and friends, so once again, not much time to be lonely.

yeah there are so many benefits of being alone yet there so many disadvatages of being alone also, like, you have to cook fo yourself, laundry your used clothes, i know you could hired a housekeeper or someone to do thouse things for you, but its different when the one you loved and cared like your mother to cook for you, right?

We grew up learning how to take care of ourselves. My mother died when I was fourteen so I know what you mean about missing someone taking care of you but if it is only for a night, or even a week, you will be fine. When the time passes you will appreciate your mom even more.

watching scary movies alone doesnt really scare me, im used to watching scary movie when i was a kid and my mother raised us not being afraid to that "kind of stuff" (ghost, white lady, so on and so forth) mostly, im afriad of being alone because its very lame and boring when your waiting for you to get sleepy, i tried to watch tv, listened to music but i ended up writing this post and i go mylotting. by the way, i'd let the dogs in to keep me company inside.