what's your opinion about the girls who sleep with different men????

I think that is girl that you describe is unusual. I imagine that some teenage girls like to have one night stands with different men. However it their twenties they might meet the man that is right for them and settle down. Most girls in their twenties or thirties like to with one man and to have a stable life. Maybe the girl that you are discussing had one depressing things happen to her that have upset her deeply. I wonder why she only lived with the man for three months. Spitting up with him might have been her biggest mistake.

I can second what she did, that man looks perfect, yes, being perfect is the best way to ruin a relationship. A man that is dependant on your smiles, is sticky (because if he goes on too much with the lovers stuff then he becomes sticky), and is basically a yes-man isn't the kind of man I'd like to be with.
We need things moving, routine kills people and their minds, I can see why she left for other men, she got bored to death with a man like that. Do you mean we want something stable or something boring? The 'perfect-man' is at risk to become boring, if not plain stupid because if he has no reactions to whatever she does, then he becomes a yes-man, a mannequin. We don't need those.
You can't live with a man like that.

This may have something to do with her past. She may have come from a broken family and she might be blaming her father for that. If this is the case, then this will surely affect the way she treats men in her life.

Just so I get this discussion right....you mean after she is finally with the love of her life, she decided to give him up because she can't control herself to not sleep with other guys?

If the situation was simply that the girl have not found the love of her life, I wouldn't have qualms nor have anything to say about her sleeping with other guys. After all it is her life and her body she is destroying anyway.

Since the situation is that she preferred to give up this guy, then I could say that she does not deserve the love this guy is offering as she cannot stay loyal to him. As a consolation to the guy, atleast he found out this early what this girl truly is.

Many women would give up anything just to have an honest loving guy beside them and this girl just took him for granted.

Hi LisaGuo. How are you. This topic is just a typical one. That girl has just erred to select a very suitable guy at the first instance. There is one saying that you would like to have a thing which you do not have. That is rightly applicable in this case also. If the girl gets every thing from one guy I think there will be no necessity for her to go for another guy. In other words she would opt for another guy only when she runs short of fulfilling her desire. For this every girl or boy must carefully choose their partner taking into account the entire aspirations they have in their mind. If you succeed in this selection there would arise no necessity to think of another one deciding to parting with the present one. Living with one man or one woman for long will help developing their relationship and intimacy to full extent which will enable them to lead a happy life in old ages say in fifties, sixties, seventies etc.

Thanking you for opportunity to share my views.

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i have no opinion, evry woman does what she wants with her life just it to dont regret it, but we are free to experiment and do what they want

She sounds to me like she is just not ready to settle down with one man and no there is nothing wrong with that what he shouldnt have done is move in a with a man when she had those sorts of feelings that was wrong but we all make mistakes hopefuly she will learn from it and move on.

I don't know. I kind of think it's her choice. After all, there are plenty of men who won't settle down with one woman because they want to be able to be with other women. It's unusual but I don't think it's all that bad.

Hi Lisa,

It is really very pity to say that girls should not
be sleep with a different man each and every night, because it is
a type of activity and would spoiled the life of the girl, so all the
girl should be live with one man in order to have the stable life and also
that was called the true life or good life. As you have said that the girl
should has different taste from different man that is the reasons she
would prefer to go for the different man in order to enjoy her life
with different taste.

Have a nice day.