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myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life2 months ago

have you heard about this story? a bulgarian girl (who got married to her teenage boyfriend) was still wearing her flowing white dress and tiara when she arrived at the hospital and gave birth? whistle

this was what she said,

i used to play with my toys but now she(the baby) is my new toy. she is so beautiful, i love her. violeta (the baby) is the child and i must grow up. i am not going back to school – i am a mother now.

what's your comment on this:-
1) she treats her own child as a toy w00t
2) she is not going back to school at 11 shocked

 
 
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violeta_va (1982) response was accepted on 11/4/2009.
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tags:  mature content, baby, wedding, birth, child
 
1. myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1427)   ranked 483 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

Hi victorywp.I really feel sad for te girl.I just wanna know what were the parents doing all the time.First of all their daughter gets pregnant at such a young age.Then she keeps the baby.And again she also gets married.The parents of the girl are rally so much irresponsible.I feel so sick about this that I do not want to leave any more comments.Anyways have a nice day...

--shockedshamesshocked--


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

you mean the parents should not let her keep the baby? shocked
you mean the parents should not let them get married? confused

anyway thanks for sharing your thinking & views. thumbup


myLot reputation of 63/100. syndrix (356)   ranked 29,283 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

please show your evidence about this issue any link? I don't think it is true.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

it is true & i don't have to give you the link here.

you can easily find the news in the internet by typing in the keywords of this story into the search engine. thumbup


myLot reputation of 78/100. o0Tora0o (261)   ranked 6,237 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

@victorywp - You don't have to give the link on here, but it's a courteous thing to do when someone requests it.

@syndrix - I found several sites featuring this story by Googling "11-year-old Bulgarian girl." You can read one of them at http://bit.ly/4g1dbp (I've shortened the link to avoid making mistakes when retyping it for MyLot.)


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myLot reputation of 98/100. Shames (1427)   ranked 483 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

Well what I believe is the parents should seperate the boy and the girl.Try to throw in some common sense into the girl and make her study and hang out with friends like other normal children do.The baby should be looked after by some relative of theirs even the grand parents wold do.And when she crosses at least 20 give her right to decide on what she wants to do with her life...


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

Arrnica has some very good points. these are the most substantial questions to be considered carefully for situation/case like this. thanks a lot.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. weasel81 (1242)   ranked 2,101 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

what is the world coming to? how old is this story?
yeah big point where are her parents.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

this is a recent news about 1-2 weeks old if i was not mistaken. but i saw there are many duplicate news around the internet this few days back. happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. weasel81 (1242)   ranked 2,101 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

can i ask a silly question, what's the youngest age for ginuess world records on kids having babies? there seems to be a lot of kids round that age having babies.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

LOL! lol

i don't know that either! but i wonder whether there is a guiness record for that? w00t


myLot reputation of 78/100. o0Tora0o (261)   ranked 6,237 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

It looks like this Bulgarian girl may be the youngest to give birth in the world. There was supposedly a 5-year-old girl in Peru who gave birth to a baby boy, way back in 1939, but I'm not sure they've ever verified that story.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

wow, 5-year-old gave birth to a baby boy?? shockedsurrender


myLot reputation of 78/100. o0Tora0o (261)   ranked 6,237 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

Supposedly, yeah. Unbelievable, isn't it?


myLot reputation of 96/100. corrycrystal (1081)   ranked 2,805 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

There's a discussion created about this 5-year-old girl a few days ago. One of the Lotters did provide a link to this story and it has been proved that the story was true. I was so shocked myself. It was sad, but at the same time quite disturbing... sad


blognchick (15)   ranked 36,454 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

I find it quite funny that the ad below these posts are for Preskool toys!


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

lol the ad is targetted to those who are interested with this story.

so would you buy some preschool toys for your children when you read a discussion like this? whistle

answer: no, the baby is my new toy... w00t


ivanstefanus (5)  2 months ago

a baby is not a toys, why are you keep saying that. think of this if you want to keep the baby please dont take care your baby as a toys but as a human being...


christ06 (10)   ranked 35,960 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

Yeah... Parents are the bigest point here beside that baby is not a toy! Trully this is a sad story but not the worse. I ever heard a teen have a baby from her father!!!

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. KrauseHome (13462)   ranked 80 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

Talk about Babies having babies. This to me is quite astonishing and I hope they would never allow someone 11 here in the US to get married. What does an 11 yr. old know about being a mother, and taking care of a child, etc? This to me I find a little scary for sure. And to think they were refering to the baby like they would a Toy doll, that is scarier for sure. All I can say if this is really True I only hope somehow there is someone else on the scene who will help take care of the Baby and teach the girl how to raise it as well.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

yes, you are right. also, i think it is really not a wise move to stop schooling at 11.

ps: this is a recent news & you can read further if you search in the internet. happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. weasel81 (1242)   ranked 2,101 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

i was only just 21 when i had my son. my father in-law would say a baby having a baby. refering to the fact i was really not that old, and these days kids don't have to grown up as fast as they did yrs ago.


saifulbabe (31)   ranked 18,144 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

Need to renew the marriage regulation in that country. Also it's individual thinking and awareness to give and have baby.


myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2374)   ranked 2,749 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

It is a sad new and shocking to me because at her age she is not ready to have a child. Why they allowing young girls to be married there here future going to be ruined. They are not yet ready to be a parents and they don't know how to raise a child.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

it's true that the country need to have their marriage regulations to be updated. allowing young kids to get married will ruin their future. thumbup


myLot reputation of 95/100. weasel81 (1242)   ranked 2,101 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

you try telling a country they need to review something like that, and we'll end up with another war. tradition is also a big thing in some countries.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

that's also true, tradition/culture is really a big thing for a country. blush

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. tamarafireheart (12614)   ranked 398 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

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myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

her teenager husband is 19 years old. i was shocked reading this news too especially when she said that the baby would be her new toy & she is not going back to school. shocked


myLot reputation of 96/100. jammyt (2635)   ranked 2,627 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

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myLot reputation of 78/100. o0Tora0o (261)   ranked 6,237 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

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myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

i could not understand too, but sadly enough, that's what actually happened. sad


myLot reputation of 95/100. tamarafireheart (12614)   ranked 398 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

Being the yougest person to give birth is nothing to be proud of but what I am wodering is why did the parents get them to be married? surely it is against the law to do that? and its darn right that he should go to jail and six years is not enough.



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5. myLot reputation of 73/100. iwrite (778)   ranked 6,852 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

Well I think she has to face with reality, no one should be put up to this kind of responsibility at such tender age, some still cannot get it at 50 less a little girl at the age of 11.

From her description, you know she is still a child, however she know she needs to grow up and look after the baby. Perhaps she is not think about not going to school but to work to get the money so the baby does not suffer.

Whatever the case it is pretty sad to see that she have to suffer. I do hope that god in all his grace and mercy would watch over the mother and child. And the family would be supportive for her to tide over these difficult time.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

yes, from her description, she is still a child speaking inmaturely. i also hope that the family would be supportive to her in the coming difficult times. happy

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6. saifulbabe (31)   ranked 18,144 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

What?? so weird. she only eleven years and have her baby. Think, how old is the youngest mum in the world? Is she happy with that, if yes it doesn't matter anymore.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

w00t you mean if she can become the youngest mother in the world then it's alright? at least she has a world title to hold? lol

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. EnglishTeaDuck (733)   ranked 2,931 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

While I think it is obviously way too young, I am looking at it from the point of view of my own culture - I would assume that in that culture it must not be quite so shocking for a younger child like that to get married, as it seems it must be legal for it to happen.

There are also many cultures where she would not be going to school for much longer,if at all, anyway.

Having said that, I don't know how anyone deals with having a baby at 11. But then I know some pretty rubbish adult parents....


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

that's true, it would be extremely difficult to raise a child at 11. also, they must start to learn parenting skills from now. happy

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. ErrollLeVant (2458)   ranked 7,598 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

babies having babies usually turns out to be tragic for both


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

i believe the grandparents would take care of the child & the mother would have to learn the parenting skills at the same time. i don't think the grandparents will let the mother to take care the baby by her own. sad

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. jammyt (2635)   ranked 2,627 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

A wife and a mother at 11?????!!shocked Oh my gosh! She's only a child herself. I don't agree that she had to get married because she got pregnant. That would be committing another mistake to cover another mistake.

while it would be nice that they would grow up together, this mother's youth has been robbed by her motherly duties. How can she actually take good care of this child when she herself needs to learn a lot of things too?!?

More than anything, I hope the parents of this 11 year old will be supportive and will help her raise the child right.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

i agree with you that she herself has a lot of things to learn & how can she handle her motherly duties well? yes, the grandparents of the baby need to be very supportive in this case. happy

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10825)   ranked 177 out of 38,434 in life   2 months ago

I think it is terribly sad. She is not old enough to be a mom and certainly not old enough to be married. It is sick that the parents allow her to get married at this young age but sicker still is the government that allows it.


myLot reputation of 96/100. jammyt (2635)   ranked 2,627 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

I so agree. I wonder why these kids were allowed to get married at such an age EVEN if they were given consent by the parents....also, I wonder what the parents were thinking of...really sad...


myLot reputation of 78/100. o0Tora0o (261)   ranked 6,237 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

Apparently marrying at such a young age is the custom in Bulgaria. I've read several articles now that have said that it's common for young teenagers to get married and become mothers there. It looks like 14-17 years old is standard... I can't imagine any girl being prepared for that at such an age!


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

shocked 14-17 is the standard age of being a mother in bulgaria? that's really shocking! surrender


yy_queena (3)   ranked 36,453 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

i am shoked at this matter, how can a 11-year-old girl give birth to a baby? the gorl's mother should responable for the little baby i think . that's a social problem, the child are early-matruing!!!


myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10825)   ranked 177 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

it's horrible. these young people are being robbed of their teen years which is a time of growing and learning.


myLot reputation of 95/100. weasel81 (1242)   ranked 2,101 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

but we also seem to be forgetting that it's not that long ago really, that once you were 16 (when ever they had the coming out balls back in the 1800's) you were basically on the market for a husband. so it may have not been long after that that you had kids. but it show how much some countries have changed and other haven't.


myLot reputation of 99/100. victorywp (316)   ranked 791 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

that's true, you got a point there. happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (10825)   ranked 177 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

You do have a point but even back then and especially back then, it was very very rare for a girl to even reach puberty by age 11. Most girls even in my mothers time did not begin puberty until 13 to 15. Even in this day and age there is a huge difference between the age of 11 and 16.


jamzy19 (56)   ranked 31,261 out of 38,434 in life  2 months ago

yes this is really a terrible, being a mom is a great responsibility so as being a wife. i wonder how can she be resposible for being a mother and a wife. i do hope her husband would be support her and their baby.

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