How long have you been married?

Hi book
Im sorry to hear that. I wish you all the best with any future years that you may have. I will be thinking of you often. Keep your head high and remember you are a good person. Thanks for sharing and have a great day my friend. Keep smiling.

thanks for your kind words my friend. Tomorrow its Monday and another work week starts. I am not unhappy about that at all but it means I am out of here from 4:30 am till 9 pm and thats good for me. I have even asked my husband to NOT take leave off his work same time I have mine so I can really relax and not walk on eggshells all the time.

book honey if you ever need someone to vent to Im here for you. You can always PM and I will listen and respond back to you. I wish the very best this week. Don't work too hard and keep in touch with me. Keep smiling.

ohhh rosepedal thanks a loooooot for you encouraging comment. I worked overtime from Mon to Thu and hope to be online a little more next weekend and the two weeks after that as I have these weeks off work.

Thanks so much for your loving offer. I manage all right dont worry about me. I endured it for four years already and I will be able to live with the situation as is. The only thing I need to make sure I have enough distance.

Distance is always good my friend. I truly understand what you might be saying. My husband was very controlling. I still will be thinking of you my dear friend. Have a great evening.

thank for your loving and kind words to me, they mean a lot to me and thanks for the BR as well

You are very welcome...Have a nice evening and keep smiling...

I do have the computer back up and running. It was a long week or so without it. Im glad to hear from you. Yeah it sounds like that he married you and you not marring him....LOL.. Have a great day and keep smiling.

Hey that is great jugs...Sometimes the second time around you kinda get use to the routine and know what to expect. Me and my husband don't have any kids together but he claims my grandkids as his own. That was his decision which I thought was great. Have a good day and thanks for sharing.

Hahaha..That was cute thinking that I was a man. Oh well that is okay now you know that I am a woman. Im very happy here and now. He takes good care of me financial and supportive. I think that is all we can really ask for. Thanks for sharing and I will have to say to wait on marriage is always a good thing to do. Keep smiling.

I didn't know that. Lou Gehrigs's disease - wow.

Hi GardenGerty
You know I had never heard of that until about 5 years ago when a friend of ours dad had gotten and didn't live alone after that. What does the Gehrig's disease actually do to the body? Thanks for sharing and Im glad to hear that you found a good match. I wish you many years of happiness. keep smiling.

Rosepedal, I started a separate discussion about Lou Gehrig's right after you posted here, if you want to learn more.

That sounds so sweet. Im sure that you two will get those long happy years together. When you throw kids into the marriage it only makes it that much more special too. Thanks for sharing and have a great week. Keep smiling.

I think that is great to hear that your grandparents are still living and have that much years together. With the way times are now I think it is wonderful to hear couples being together for that many years. Thanks for sharing and don't give up you prince might be just around the corner..Keep smiling.

I hope so.

It sounds like that if it was 20 years from now that you would be saying the same thing about your relationship. Im glad to hear that you are happy with each other. Thanks for sharing and have a good day. Keep smiling.

There you go. That is the way to think. Marriage for life. Thanks for sharing and have a good week. Keep smiling.

Hi SomeCowgirl
Just a newbie to the marriage world. Congrats and Im sure that it will last a long time. Im sure that you will get that home before you know it. Thanks for sharing and have a great week with the new hubby. Keep smiling.

Things are looking up for us! Though they weren't looking down at any time I can remember other then a short stint with wedding planning... but that's beside the point. I'm hoping I'll get a call tomorrow about starting a job sitting with my husband's great grandmother! With that, it's a secure job, I'll get full time, though I don't know my rate of pay! Easier to save etc.

Thanks for commenting back to me!

You are welcome. Just keep thinking positive and all things will work out for you.

Positing thinking, positive results, right?

I'm not yet married and I don't know where I'm going to be married or I'm going to be single forever. I haven't decided yet what I'm going to do with my life. One guy that I have met on the net asking me to marry him but I'm not serious about it, first of all I'm afraid to trust someone online. I admit I'm also dreaming to be married someday but not right now I'm not yet ready.

I have seen a lot of people on here who try to save and plan for when they do get married, that is great and all, but my mama always said that your perfect match will come to you when you aren't looking.

My husband came to me when I wasn't looking.

Also, it seems so far anyway, that you can't really plan and save, it just happens... lol.