Have you ever been sad, then mad, then sad again?

Our life has many twists and turns. There are times that we are in good mood and feel happy. There are times that we are sad and lonely. But the good thing is that we can choose whatever state we want to be in. We can choose to be happy, or we can choose to be sad. I have experienced being sad, then at times getting mad. I am just thankful to God for giving me life to enjoy.

I hope u have learned your lesson w/this woman this time, bon. She was so mean to u when she was living there u knoe people don't change their ways & attitudes, I;m so sorry this has happened but let the devil be gone this time, if she calls hang up & don't talk to her. She is a hurtful, spiteful person to take that dog & she knew it would hurt u & your son. Good ridance to bad rubbish.

hi bunnybon thats really not easy for you and for your son........ I compliment you highly for this soft heart of yours and hope you wont lose it through situations like this, ever.
Being soft hearted means you are easily taken advantage of today. I am in such a situation too where I feel my soft heart has made me go extra miles, more than one mile, with someone who doesnt really deserve it and in the long run I will be and am no more than an old fool for it.
I am in the middle of sad and mad myself about what I have gotten me into but here its not as easy as in your case to say enough about Agra now and she shall never call or see me again... or similar to this....

Hi Bunny! I can't believe what she did to you! It's hard to even come up with 'postable' sentiments about her, other than that she spells her name incorrectly. It should be correctly spelled, 'AARG!' because that seems to
be how she makes everyone who knows her think. Why else would she not have
other friends in her life? I hope that you and your GOOD LOOKING son will
maintain your wonderful soft hearts, and sever her from your lives to help
keep them that way.

If you both refuse her phone calls and don't let her visit, when she gets
desperate enough she will probably offer to give Lucy back. She sounds like
she only values things and people for how she can use them. Coco could
probably use some extra pampering and that would be good for all of you.

Hi bunnybon
I kinda know what you are feeling. A little different story though. My son was in jail and is working hard to get his life back. He has girlfriend who have a child together. They had been together for over 5 years. She started not going to see him,stopped writing letters, and then didn't get the phone fixed to where he could call her. Then one day I found out that she was seeing an guy and hadn't told my son at all. She is the devil herself. It hurt him so bad and of course when a child of yours gets hurt we become mama bear. I was so mad and hurt at the same time.
I know that your sons girlfriend took Lucy because she knows that it would hurt him and you too. You differently need to wash your hands of her. Be careful she will try to smooth things over and try to work her way back into your life.

It is sad. Animals can mean so much to us. Being a hazard to yourself doesn't hurt anyone usually but yourself and until you are stronger and able to stand firm on things your life will be ridden with just such things as you have told us about today. My daughter is some what like this too. She is getting better and stronger but it has taken many years to get here. Venting is healthy if done in this way. Good luck to you and all involved.

Oh, poor Lucy!! I hope your son will be checking on her in some way. Maybe you can talk a friend into dognapping her and turning her into the animal shelter then you can legally adopt her?

By the time I was 40 I learned to stop letting people use me for a doormat. Well, almost. But now I'm 55 and nobody walks on me. I think I've hardened my heart to protect myself. You have to learn to do the same. Thinking of yourself is NOT selfish--those that love you want you to be happy and by NOT giving in to people like your son's ex you are doing good to yourself and your family.

I hope Lucy is okay and that you somehow get her back.

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Hi bunnybon,

I cannot believe how heartless somee people be, what in the world your son ever saw in her, she is very bad for doing that, she is not thinking of the feeling the poor dog had for your son, she is thinking of herself and she done that through spite, no doubt she will ill treat the dog.


Tamara

hi bunnybon7 my she sounds really awful,to take back her dog after all this time and your son getting attached to Lucy and vice versa. I know it is her dog but she showed how much she really cared when she asked your son to buy her a pekingese.wow.I
am glad you came to us, friends do help friends here. I have never
been in a situation quite like that but I can see how she knows just what buttons to push with you and your son. As she is an ex she sure expects a lot from you too,because I am sure there is a
good reason she is an ex. I am proud of you bunnybon for sticking up for yourself finally. If she had any guts she would say keep the dog as it has gotten attached to you two,but she doesn't evidently.